So check this out my bf and I have been going out for about 1 1/2 years and I am really confused because just recently I started talking to this guy who at about 8 years ago was the love of my life I mean for gods sake his name has been my password for the past 4 years because I never quite got over him and this perhaps happened because we never got together lately i've been a little confused because he's been telling me whazzup between me and hin\m? He doesn't know I have a bf but for some reason I don't have the nerve to tell him? I mean I finally found him but now i'm with someone I love and that i'm sure loves me what do I do about this dilemma it's driving me CRAZY? I don't want to lose my boy but I don't wanna lose my BABY either because I really truly love him but I can't understand why i'm so confused?
2006-12-20 04:38:59 · 3 answers · asked by turtle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask your heart and decide for yourself whom you would choose to be with.Only you can answer this question as to whom you truely love.But my suggestion is to not hurt someone who loves you that is your current bf.If you choose the love of your life, you will be victimising your bf.But if you are intended to give up on him,you dont make any silly excuses but tell him honestly about this guy whom you loved 8 years ago.If you dump your bf without telling him the fact he will assume that he's not good enough and worthy enough to be loved and as a consequence may lose his self esteem.Have mercy towards your bf and openly communicate if you have of intentions of leaving him for your other love.
The bottom line is situation is too fragile and you need to consider not only your feelings but also your bf's feelings.Get down to a solution which you think is right for you and the one that's in love with you.
2006-12-20 05:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end, what it comes down to is who's going to treat you the way you deserve to be treated and who are YOU going to be more happier with. True, someone's feelings will get hurt but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger! Do what's best for you. If you're in love with your ex, you're not doing your current boyfriend any favours. Everything happens for a reason though. If this man is the love of your life, why aren't you with him in the first place? It's none of my business, it's just a question to ask yourself. Maybe your current boyfriend is God's way of saying, "Don't look back! Take advantage of what's right in front of you."
Good luck girl! I've been in your situation before!
2006-12-20 12:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by colombianqt_247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust, and don't mess up your relationship.
2006-12-20 12:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by atldutchess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋