We hung out with friend from work and he was all over me all night holding me, hugging me, picking me up, and we finally went to eat at 2 in the morning and when he drops me off at my car he asks me to kiss him on the cheek. I;m kind of surprised we didn't kiss for real. WHY? the last two times we were together we did kiss, but this time he asked for a kiss on the cheek and so i did but then that was it.
I dont understand, is he not interested anymore? I recently had to tell him that i was still figuring things out about an ex id broken up with. i thought we wouldnt chill again but we did today and we like each other. maybe he's playing hard to get? just confused.
2006-12-20 04:42:37 · 20 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he just didn't want to push you after you told him about your ex...be patient, if it's meant to be it'll happen.
2006-12-20 04:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Georgie-Girl...
This is the boy at work, younger than you, who has you wrapped around his finger??
Yes, I'm paying attention...LOL
Telling a guy that "you're still figuring things out about an ex that you've broken up with"....especially a sensitive guy, is sending a "slow-down" message, big-time. What did you expect him to do after that??
He still likes you...maybe more than that....but you're sending mixed messages now, and he doesn't know where the boundaries are.
Guys aren't the only ones who can initiate a kiss, you know.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-20 04:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was just playing "coy", kinda teasing you, but not rejecting you.
Next time he does that, give him a real sensuous kiss on the cheek-don't be fast, take it realllllll slow and slide it over to his ear for a nibble on the lobe or toward his mouth for a true kiss.
I wouldn't worry. I think you're worrying too much. Go out with him again and see if he does it again.
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2006-12-20 07:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you won't think too much about that. Just take it as it is and have fun for right now. Because the more you are thinking about such little stuff the more vulnerable in this relationship you became. The secret is: take initiative in your hands. If you want to kiss him - do it! If you didn't do it, forget about that and do not bother your heart. Everything will became clear very soon. Do not be afraid to do what YOU want.
2006-12-20 04:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get confused is when you need to step back and re-evalute yourself.
your getting to caught up when his actions have you anylizing and wondering,
he likes you if he makes time to hang out with you, dont worry about that, dont anylize every move he makes then you start losing yourself and trying to compensate for it.
just be yourself and enjoy the time you all spend together make it the best and most fun either of you ever had and dont worry about his feelings for you that will lead you to act weird or emotional which guys dont dig to much,
if you feel he's loosing interest then step back avoid a few calls dont do so much calling and dont lean in for a kiss,
if he likes you trust me he will come after you, if not he wont you may be hurt but you saved alot of time in the process, luv always envy
2006-12-20 04:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by envyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it might have to do with the ex thing.....if things have gotten awkward after that then it must be that.....other than that, you shouldn't worry about him asking for a kiss on the cheek....and if you really want, you should kiss him for real! make the first move!
2006-12-20 04:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by ChunkyMonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh puhleeezz...we are least interested in your ex boyfriend. So keep that kinda stuff burried deep inside you along with all those other mysterious secrets that you would never dare tell your guy.
Being open is great! we love it. But don you think it would be wise to talk about stuff we find interesting and cut those we dont?
2006-12-20 04:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brought that on yourself by saying your figuring things out with your ex. He's probably waiting to find out what the deal is before he gets too involved with you and possibly his heart broken.
Dont be selfish, figure out the sh*t with your ex and let this new guy know either way.
2006-12-20 04:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Jello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 23:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have brought up your ex. For some reason boys get freaked out about it. However if he calls you tonight or has called you since then then you've got nothing to worry about
2006-12-20 04:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Daniela15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is prob repecting what your told him about your ex-bf, and does not want to make you feel uncomfortable, he sounds like he is interested in you. and is slowing things down, he sounds like a good guy, respect is hard to find in a lot of men! Good luck!
2006-12-20 04:47:21 · answer #11 · answered by *STAR* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋