i really like this guy..he's a really popular celeb...and weve been seeing each other for a while,..just innocent flirting and stuff..i just broke up with my boyfriend of 2years..then this guy said he'd like us to be an item....then he wants it that were gonna be.."friends with benefits"...im not that kind of gurl..weve only been out for a couple of times...
2006-12-20 04:46:42 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had already called it off with him...since then, he kept calling me...and its when i no longer like him...i kinda got turned off with him...the, he's been telling his buds that we had sex...wat an ******!..wat can i do to get back at him???..i want to kick his *** without causing much publicity!..wehehehe...
2006-12-20 20:12:12 · update #1
What are the benefits?
2006-12-20 04:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like this guy played you. But at least you're smart enough to stop it before you get in too deep. He was counting on his "celeb" status to make you want to do anything for him to be with you. What an a s s! Forget him, better yet... drop him in such a way that everyone knows you ditched him. That would probably make all the guys wonder what you have that's so special and then you'd be the popular one. Keep the self respect you obviously have and find a man who respects you!
2006-12-20 04:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Popular Celeb" or not, it's the person inside that counts. The unfortunate side to this particular person is that he thinks more highly of himself than he does of you.
The sad truth is that most men would love to have the "friends with benefits" clause written into every relationship because they're always waiting for something better to come along.
There was obviously a reason you broke it off with your boyfriend of two years - was it for this guy or was is because the relationship was over already?
Be careful honey - if you make one step towards his offer he will make every attempt to turn you into "that kind of girl".
2006-12-20 04:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by redslippers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits = Sex without baggage
You know that he is bluntly telling you he'll have sex with you but nothing more. And you say your not that kind of girl. So what is your question? You know what's wrong with this picture. Don't allow yourself to fall in his trap. You will only get used and discarded. Invest your time with someone else who cares about you and not the benefits. Don't allow his celebrity status to influence you. How many celeb couples actually make it???? Not many, because money and fame is their passion, not love. Good Luck & God Bless
2006-12-20 05:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by zero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that guys only want one thing and that is not be attached so they can have the benefit with out the commitment.
2006-12-20 04:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by red1967 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he just thinks of you as friends woth benifits, then he just wants you for your body most the time. then again to be sure you should give him some kind of test see how he does without the benifits.
2006-12-20 04:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Daniela15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your guns, lady. Don't be just another scalp on his belt. He can 'friends with benefits' with one of the downtown girls for a price.
2006-12-20 04:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then I guess you ain't gonna date him. He's a celeb, and can find all the FWB's he wants I'm sure. Just give it up and tape it on hidden cam; you'll make big cash on the internet.
2006-12-20 04:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousMishawaka 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Friends wit benefits meaning u are going to open ur legs wide for him and for no reason, there is no way he is going to marry u if u allow him between ur legs and i bet its the reason why ur first one left u. !!!! think twice girl.
2006-12-20 04:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's a celeb , sell your story to the news of the world , get rich from him
2006-12-20 05:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by darren w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the question here? If your not that kind of girl tell him that and leave it alone!
2006-12-20 04:48:47 · answer #11 · answered by Mystic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋