i have been seeing this guy since oct, at first all was fine he would call send e cards and always answer his cell, he lives far and i do the driving every time, we have slept w/ eachother, and was great but this one time i grabed his writs and fliped him over to be on top and he freaked out and plamed me in my face & jumped out of bed since then things have changed never calls me dont like me to stop by, gives so dumb *** excuse..he says its because of the hoidays? we have made plans to go to dinner and he says he to tired, or just wont call but to watch the game w. his firends thats different. he has a daughter, he see's ever weekend and when she is w/ him he dont call at all! the whole weekend like he cant sneek a call in, so i have been on his case about seeing him and he gets mad and will hang up and not talk to me the rest of the night! he say he likes me and miss's me and wants a relaship but i dont know what to think? i realy like him alot, and i just dont know what to
2006-12-20 04:37:22 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you say he doesn't really like you or want to spend time with you.
Sounds like he is just using you for sex, and he isn't very good at it since he reacted so strangely to your taking the lead there.
Kick him to the curb, girl!
2006-12-20 04:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by ajtheactress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe the best thing at this point is for you to start moving on.. If he eally means it when he says that he wants you, he'll follow along like a puppy and be hte one calling.. if he doesn't it means that you don't mean much to him...
make him do some work in the relationship... its also more attractive for guys when you are hard to catch- they love it, once they know they have you they let go of all the cute stuff htey did to actually catch you
2006-12-20 04:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW I guess i'm kinda confused about why you have to do the driving girl I know what your going through cuz my man is the same way but he does the driving, LET HIM KNO WHO"S BOSS and if he really misses you he'll look for you if not then move on good luck much love turtle
2006-12-20 04:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by turtle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can,t really say that you are being played but it sounds as if he either is seeing someone else to or he may not want you no more or he probably is one of those people who don,t like to be together so much.i can understand if he don,t call you when he has his kid cause that should be his time with his kid.you should probably take and distant your self from him like you feel he is doing and if he wants you then he get in touch with you for a change ok.
2006-12-20 04:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u prob scared him when u were more dominate in bed and now he is trying to back away. guys dont like confrontation so he is hoping u will quietly go away. do this....b/c there is nothing u can do to change his mind. plus if he has a daughter that only adds more trouble in the mix. u dont want to be stuck playing mama in the first yrs of marriage (if it gets that far)
2006-12-20 04:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you felt that you were being to aggressive in bed. He may also not be that into you. It seems like you are the one putting forth the most effort in the relationship. You should talk to him about it but it seems like he might feel the same way you do.
2006-12-20 04:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by gentlgodis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is harsh...... but u need to get rid of him and don't go telling him " if u don't start treating me right them imma leave you" you don't need to do that because he has already given you reason enough to get rid of him. You should just stop talking to him all together. If you see him out and about them confidently say hello how are you? nice to see you. see you later and walk away. you need to find someone who is going to love you and respect you. Good luck.
2006-12-20 04:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by D'Whannah Lowe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not being played. He is over you. You are too dominant for him and he's very passive. You accidentally threatened his masculinity and he will never trust you again.
Now go find someone who can bounce you around the bed the way you like it!
2006-12-20 04:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off, honey if he wants you he will call. But it sounds like to me he is tring to dump you but I could be wrong. Just let him come to you and if he doesn't then he was never yours in the first place. He just used you, and hes not worth it.
2006-12-20 04:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's lying to you DUMP HIM. There is no such thing as he doesn't have time. You give him your time don't you then you deserve some back. If he freaked out during teh middle of sex then somethings wrong
2006-12-20 04:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by Daniela15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋