i'm still a teen and i'm alwiz arguing with my family.i noe they want the best for me..but i find it very hard to control my temper and listen to their advice..wat can i do to control dat damn temper of mine??
2006-12-20 04:56:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i just stay calm ..
2006-12-20 05:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. and seriously think about the situation. You don't wan to fight and you don't want to say anything to hurt anyone's feelings. So you should say just that. ask if it's possible to talk about it later when you've thought things through and are more prepared to deal. Most of the time what i do is try to stay silent and let the other person state their piece, and then i comment, that way both parties get heard.
2006-12-20 13:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by majones83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to what your family has to say and before you argue with them go in your room and think about what they said. Try to look at the positive side of what they are telling you.
2006-12-20 13:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock yourself inside a room. Cry till you are satisfied. Believe me you temper will cool after crying.
2006-12-20 13:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by nneka o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say ok I'm getting upset now so I'm going to go for a walk or to your room. Then come back and listen when you are calm !
2006-12-20 12:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mz Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take slow deep breaths, count to ten as many times as you need to, take a walk when you feel like you will lose your temper, just excuse yourself fromt he situation.
2006-12-20 12:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jules 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont talk with anyone when u are very angry. Cool down for 15 mins before answering back
2006-12-20 13:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by silky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that no matter what you are in control not your anger, count to 10 or think positive thoughts, always try to learn to cope, not react.
2006-12-20 13:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God to make you humble and consider others feelings before you act.
2006-12-20 13:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smoke some weed im serious just dont let it control your life just hit it when your mad put on your ipod and just luagh at them while they rap you up................
2006-12-20 13:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋