I have this friend and we have been friends for ...6 years...yeah and well I'm kinda a tom boy... I dont like makeup and I would rather play sports then sit around with a bunch of other girls talking about boys!! Well anyway it never use to bother her that I was like that but now..its like she kinda looks down on me....and she is like in to boys now and she has other friends like that too so when they all get togather I kinda feel really left out and some times the way she acts around them really hurts my feelings even though I dont let it show.
I still love her like a sister but I dont want her to treat me like that....I still want us to be friends like we use to be but she is making it so hard for me to like being around her any more.
What should I do?!?!. I'm really shy so I dont let on when I'm being hurt....I just hold it in but now some times I want to really slap her in the face for being like that.....um......HELP!!!
2006-12-20 05:03:28 · 9 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You and your friend are going in different directions in life. It happens. Her interests have changed. You should make new friends based on your interests- sports, hobbies, etc. and realize that people evolve and change- some friendships don't last.
2006-12-20 05:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wrose thing you can do is to hold your feelings inside you. If you continue the feelings will overflow and you may very well burst out in some emotional frenzy and cause things to happen you don't want to happen. It has happened to all of us at one point or another and it is always something we end up regretting. I think you should level with your friend and express your feelings and be honest with her. She is in to boys and that is her prerogative just as being a tomboy is yours. Why don't you both try to understand each other a little amore and communicate with each other more on a regular basis and don't start thinking the worse about each other and don't assume anything about each other until you know the facts. Life will then be better for both of you, don't you think?
2006-12-20 05:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More likely than not, this friendship won't last if the two of you no longer have anything in common. When girls reach a certain age, they want to have boyfriends and talk girl talk. If you don't want to do that yet maybe you should consider being friends with boys, they are easy to get along with and sound as if they like the same sorts of things as you.
2006-12-20 05:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by GoodCounsel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes friends grow apart. If she has changed into a person that you don't know anymore and you haven't changed at all then maybe it is time for you to move on to new friends that you would have more in common with GOOD LUCK
2006-12-20 05:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the person that asked:
Why do we have hair? What is the purpose if it? And is there anyway to stop it from growing forever?
I am responding to what you said in your answer.
I don't want all of my hair to stop growing forever, just body hair. In fact, I wish that all hair on my entire body would stop growing except for the hair on my head, eye lashes, eye brows, and cilia (tiny hairs that line the nose and throat. Very important.)
2006-12-20 07:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been friend quite awhile, I'm sure that if you get her alone and let her know how you feel she will change the way she treats you. If she still treats you badly then she is not truly your friend and it is time to move on!!
2006-12-20 05:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is time to do the "girly" things, or you will be labeled "lesbian",
although you did not say how old you are. If you are under 12, it is okay to be a tomboy.
2006-12-20 05:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u should tell her how you feel if she is really ur friend she will listen to you.
2006-12-20 05:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by mysteryathelete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH
2006-12-20 05:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋