I am totally obbsessed with this guy i met a few days ago. I can't stop thinking about him. I swear if i don't stop i am going to go crazy!!
how can i stop me thinking about him?!?!?!
2006-12-20 05:40:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get to know him & see what a jerk he is
2006-12-20 05:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by get_unlost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may not be totally possible to stop thinking of him all together, especially if he is someone you are interested in dating or feel an attraction to. I would recommend hanging out with him again, and continue getting to know more about him. As time progresses you may find things about him that make him less attractive to you and you will find yourself thinking about him less, and moving on to someone else. Or you might just end up liking him more, and in that case, thinking about him often is a good thing!! In the mean time, try doing other activities that keep your mind focused on something else, or hang out with other people and try to focus your attention on them, and the activities you are doing with them.
2006-12-20 13:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by sarah_crutch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distract your mind and do other tasks to take your mind off him. Hell, you just met him a few days ago - what do you really know about him?? Take the time to get to know him and how he is as a person. Being obsessive will only drive him away. Trust me, I know as I have someone obsessed with me and its a very annoying thing.
2006-12-20 13:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by sportygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to spend some more time with him. I've been there done that. Obsessed for three days until I finally spent some time with the guy to bring him back to normal status.
2006-12-20 13:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by mama_mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all mind ova matter. just stop..do something else...do something that will take up ya time. go out. go clubbin u will see many other hot guys out there. i mean if he likes u he will contact u. other than that just live ya life. i mean think about it this way...b4 u saw or knew him u were ya self and ok w/o him...so just move with it. and if its meant to be it will be hope this helps :)
2006-12-20 14:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by khester05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few days, or weeks, whatever...the feelings/thoughts will die down eventually.
Or, take every opportunity to think/daydream about him, and you'll eventualy grow bored...
2006-12-20 13:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Haven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and mingle with other people. I know you have something else to think about so just think about something else. Either that or go nuts.!
2006-12-20 13:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and ask him out and if he say know forget him get some on else.
Good Luck!
2006-12-20 13:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try thinking of something else, or keep yourself busy doing things. Every body has different ways of doing things.
2006-12-20 13:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so - not the right person - to ask! Why not call him? go to him and start a coversation about anything. Don't forget to bat your eyes so he knows you like him ...
2006-12-20 13:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to get over a man is to get under a new one.
just joking
devote your time to something else.
try doing something constructive.
talk to him... you may find its not that serious.. and realize some of his flaws.....
2006-12-20 13:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by sa_hollingsworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋