2006-12-20 05:33:24 · 26 answers · asked by jepboiseid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She'd no longer be my friend and wouldn't be welcome in my house.
2006-12-20 05:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I was to find out that one of my friend's had the hots for my husband. The first thing that would pop to my mind would be anger!! Then what I would do is stop all communication with this so call friend. A true friend sticks like glue and helps one another. A so call friend is the type that is just using you and wants what you have. I personally am not going to waste my time with people like that!!
2006-12-20 13:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My "friend" does have the hots for my husband and she too is married. She knew him before I did they use to hang around alot the 3 of them and she'd be over when she was bored and nothing to do. When he and I started dating she was really friendly for me but after we married and I got pregnant she stopped coming by so much. Then suddenly when I'd be away either in the hospital due to complications with my pregnancy or visiting family she'd be "out and about just wanted to see how things were going". Nothing has ever happened between them he is not at all attracted to her shes a gastric bypass patient if you get my drift. He gets on her all the time about showing up only when im not here and only calling when she thinks im not here and has even asked her if she has the hots for him and she's denied it. I wont be rude to her she can have the hots for him but I have him and he isnt going anywhere.
2006-12-20 13:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and I would be ticked! She isn't a true friend if she willingly goes after your husband! I would sever the friendship and all ties with her. It never is a good thing for someone to openly tell you they have the hots for your husband. That right there betrays you and goes too far. It's never right for someone to mess with someone else's spouse. It doesn't mean it doesn't ever happen, because unfortunately, it does, but when someone is your friend and they know your married, it automatically should be known that the spouse is off limits.
2006-12-20 13:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by hanevkidz2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your husband? If so, don't worry about it. It's not about who thinks your husband is hot. Attraction is a natural thing. It doesn't matter if your friend is attracted to your husband... all that matters is you trust and know that your husband will do the right thing. If you cannot trust your husband to ignore overtures from other women, then there are other issues you need to worry and talk with your husband about.
2006-12-20 13:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by slc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she has the hots for him doesnt mean she would do anything and even if she would that doesnt matter either. Its my husband I need to trust and hes the one who needs to tell her to back off. I will not interfer since that makes me only look jealous. All I need to do is be able to trust him. He took the vows not her. Anyways, I would feel great if my friend found my husband attractive...thats a compliment and just because shes my friend and hes married to me doesnt mean she cant look and have an opinion of him. Be delighted you have something she thinks is wonderful. Now if she goes for him and he tells her to knock it off and she doesnt then she'll deal the wrath of me. Most of my friends would think twice before wanting the drama I would settle upon their hides. :)
2006-12-20 13:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on your husband's moral character and how 'hot' your friend is for him. It may just mean she simply has the same taste in men as you. If she is trying to get closer to him through you, you should probably back off the 'friendship'.
2006-12-20 23:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by ginarene71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some!
2006-12-20 13:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
From time to time people are going to be attracted to each other, but obivously she does not exercise enough self-control and respect to keep her feelings a secret.
Stop trusting her as a friend and keep her away from your husband. If she is going to be a skank, you should not make it easy for her.
2006-12-20 13:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your friend, she wouldn't have the hots for him. A true friend would never do this. I think you need a new friend.
2006-12-20 13:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by mama3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. It's her personal business. There's nothing wrong with having a desirable husband.
2006-12-20 13:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋