He is fine and calls me often as long as thr's no1 around him the moment some work or somebody comes...he'll refuse 2 take my calls if i ask he'll say im busy "call u later"....this is all ive got for past 1 week. im tired of it. i wnat some importance even though he's busy. but he says everythin's fine...we need nt talk 2 each othr 24 hrs jus cos we love each othr. It shd be in the heart tats all!! wat 2 do??? im very unhappy this way....
2006-12-20 05:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by Ice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
saying tht u ignore him may bring no gud .it wud b best if u sought this prob wid him v clearly & straigh forward. if he still continues jst leave him
best of luck
muskaan
2006-12-20 05:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa there - let's start by using plain English - not some weird text-talk. OK let's try to untangle this mess. You broke up with this boy because he cheated on you - twice. Smart girl - once a player, always a player. You say you have moved on - even have a new boyfriend. But you still have feelings for this boy, claiming he was your first love. That's baloney. What you want is your dignity back. See, he took your dignity when he two-timed you last summer. You said so yourself - you're afraid he'll treat a new girlfriend better than he treated you. Well, that's the chance you take for breaking off with him. OK so either you move on and put this boy behind you or you can take this boy back. After all, he claims to have changed his foolish ways. But that's a big risk too. You have a nice boy now who treats you well. But you want this other boy to be the fantasy boyfriend he never was - or ever will be, for that matter. I suggest you keep the new boyfriend and tell your Ex that you've moved on and he should too. If he gets a new girlfriend, well, that's that way it is. He never promised to pine away for you, all lonely and alone. And if he treats her better than he treated you - then applaude him for growing up. Does this hurt? Only as much as you allow it to hurt. Besides, think about what you're doing to your new boyfriend! Staying in touch with your ex is only a hair's breadth away from cheating on your new boyfriend - and that's not very nice.
2016-05-23 01:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's correct, jus coz u guys r in love doesnt mean u'll cling on all the time, ur work is more than very important too, he calls u up regularly, n I think he seems a sensible guy, ur havin baseless expectations.
In case ur unhappy tell him so but also tell him that u understand his problems but would yet love him you guys could get a few hours out alone once a week or u guys spend a weekend together once a month
2006-12-20 05:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is the answer. I am not married and or don't have a girl friend. However, I understand what is the feeling one has about his sweetie. If you know he loves you so just be calm and respect the feeling that he is busy sometimes and with someone. I don't mean that you ignore him but just respect that and ask him at the end that is everything ok. Trust me it gives the boy/ guy so much relaxation when his sweetie asks him these caring questions at right time. So, maintain trust and be what you are. May God bless you both.
2006-12-20 11:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your overreacting. All people don't think alike. If he asserts that he loves you but can't cling all the time then thats the way he feels. He gives equal importance to his work and as his girl you must understand. you must respect his time and work. Understand his priorities and give him some space. Be patient and hang on there for some time.
If however you feel that things have really gone over the top after sometime and he's ignoring you purposely, then you have all the
right to move on.
All the Best
2006-12-20 05:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by raindrops 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe u should understand him let him take his time.
I think u should meet up one day and u frankly speak to him about what u feel and what u expect from him. Make him understand ur feelings for him. U should ask him if he has any problem and try to sort it out together.
All the Best
and dont worry he will understand u only thing is u have to open up and talk.................
2006-12-21 16:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh cmon lady...why is it always about you?....give the guy some space.
He is your guy doesnt mean that there is nothing else hes suppose to think about.
We humans are more predictable...never happy with what we have...always want more. Dont forget that there are women who wish they get the attention you get from your man.
2006-12-20 05:36:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn it!!! Stop being lazy and type properly!!!!!
If you talk the way you type I can understand why he doesn't talk to you much. I can't believe you're complaining about a guy who works when there are alot of deadbeats out there.
Women!
2006-12-20 05:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by stn1225 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WHEN MY HUSBAND IS AT WOORK I REALIZE THATS HIS JOB AND IT PAYS OUR BILLS SO IF HE CANT TALK I JUST SAY CALL ME WHEN YOU CAN SOME TIMES THATS NOT TIL HES ON THE WAY HOME BUT I KOW HE LOVES ME HE JUST GETS OVER WHELMED WITH WORK AND COLLEGES SOME TIMES
2006-12-20 05:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ice darling get a hold of yourself.
2006-12-20 05:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋