Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

2006-12-17 10:48:17 · 31 answers · asked by SLR 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had been together with my fiance for 2years and 8 months. At the moment its very hard to accept that we arnt together anymore. I love him alot and care about him so much he cares and feels the same way but our decision to break up ended up being mutural we bothe still want to be friends and catch up once in a while is it possible that i will eventually get over him and we can be good friends?

2006-12-17 10:48:14 · 14 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a female and thinking about marriage. I'd like to know, from a mans perspective, what they think is most important in a stay at home mom/wife and why. Examples...cooking, taking good care of the kids, great in the bedroom. I know this is a broad topic so please just select a few qualities that you want your wife to/does excel at.

2006-12-17 10:46:55 · 10 answers · asked by Johanna E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well hes one of my good friends and we talk and joke around alot. My friend says that hes usually starts the convo and that he likes me. He always makes up nicknames for me to get me mad but like jokingly and always jokes, tells me to give him high-fives, and says "hi" to me for no apparent reason. I was sposed to move so at the end of the year he only gave me a hug and seemed rally sad but got rlly happy when i sed i was coming back. but the BIGGEST thing of all he gave me his number to call him if i didnt want to talk online. so does he like me??? and i cant ask him out cuz im not allowed to n im too scared to tell him

2006-12-17 10:46:47 · 2 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Singles & Dating

I have nointerest in dating a married person. She claims she will get a divorce soon, but has been hesitant to do so thus far because she doesn't want to hurt others. Thoughts?

2006-12-17 10:45:56 · 9 answers · asked by J D Jr. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be 36 yrs old soon - I am African American/independent/I've been told I am a very attractive woman/Have my own "stuff"/no kids/good job. Problem is that I worry sometimes that I will never marry; I am trying desperately not to panic! But it is hard as heck sometimes!!!! I've done alittle online dating for the last 5 years - they've mainly all been jerks - I mean really disrespectful jerks!! I don't particularly want kids so that's not an issue. And don't get me started on how it feels to see some out of shape, poor, uneducated mother of TEN get married to prince charming! Just keepin it real! What is so perplexing to me is that I hear people say all the time that it will happen when I "least expect it", but I don't know how to NOT expect it. The marriage rate for Blacks is terrible!! Statically, my chances would be better if I were white woman. I guess my question is - has anyone ever felt this way?

2006-12-17 10:45:50 · 11 answers · asked by Cutie girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am completely against Abortion (because I'm Catholic) My Daughters had to quit Girl Scouts because some of the Cookie Dough money was going to abortion. We've had to stop doing alot of things because of it. Now is seems their is nothing that they can do that doesn't involve Abortion.

2006-12-17 10:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There is this cute popular guy in my class everytime he sit beside me he gets all close to me I don't be close to him first hell be so close that are shoulders are beside each other he does this with alot of girls and flirt with them Could he like me?

2006-12-17 10:44:52 · 10 answers · asked by Thelma 2 in Singles & Dating

what are some?

2006-12-17 10:44:47 · 7 answers · asked by alonzo h 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm 17, I started work about 3 months ago. Fell for a 19-year-old guy I worked with, and there was just so many signs pointing to that he liked me. I won't go into alot of detail, but all my friends thought he liked me, he acted like it, by body language, etc.

Yesterday, I finally worked up the courage and told him I liked him, and he just smiled nervously and asked me why I liked him. I told him I thought he was an amazing person, and I like him simply because he is him. After that there was alot of awkward silence and sorta, smiling at each other and looking away. Lots of fidgeting and walking back and forth. Eventually he said, "I don't know what to say."

I feel really hurt, because I'd rather have someone just say they don't like me, rather than give me false hope. I just really don't know what to do or think at the moment, I am completely beside myself. I'm afraid of what I might hear. But any advice/answers would be great. Just be honest about what you think of this.

2006-12-17 10:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by Loki 2 in Singles & Dating

I have nightmare years living with him, now even 10 years later he haunts me. He insinuates his way to his children's life when they don't wants them around. He will hurt anyone to get his way with things. He steals, lies, cheats and pretends to be a good man. He isn't. He has so much power that he takes over everything. Everyone is afraid of him, yet they kiss up to him because no one wants to deal with him. I am like left in a hole so to speak because people don't want to deal with him. I am so emotionally crushed that the man who was suppose to love me and I should trust was really an evil man. And I was so neive that I didn't see it. I believed whatever he said.
He is in town and I fear him. He marches around like he owns everything. I just don't know how to explain it. His youngest son killed himself becaue of this man. How much worse can life get.

Help. This guy is sick yet no one has the balls to stand up to him,

2006-12-17 10:41:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks

2006-12-17 10:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by JOHN DOE 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just wondering it's not about me.

2006-12-17 10:40:27 · 21 answers · asked by Thelma 2 in Friends

We have been "friends" for 3 or 4 months, he gets mad at me when I talk to other men, but he doesn't want to be more than friends. He says he want us to get a house together and have a family but he always say we are just friends. I really don't know what to do about us.

2006-12-17 10:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wondered if this good girl friend liked me by her actions, so I asked her if she was flirting with me. She said no, and we discussed being more than friends. She brought it up several times, and eventually I told her I want to be friends, but I could see myself with a girl like you. She laughed it off then and changed subjects. Anyway, since then, we have become closer and closer, and now she jokes and touches me like I am her boyfriend. We are still friends, but it seems as if we are now close friends. Is our friendship growing, or is it something more that is growing?

2006-12-17 10:38:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i feel really bad trying to find her stuff because i'm really close to her. we're only 15. i don't like getting her lotions because that seems like what an acquantance would do. i know i can't get her clothes. and she doesn't wear jewelry. for her birthday i got her a purse and filled it w./ cute things so i can't do that again. please help!!!

2006-12-17 10:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by mmm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need your honest opinions please. Help me I really do need your help. I don't know what to do.

2006-12-17 10:37:32 · 6 answers · asked by Shizzy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex and I broke up couple months ago and like she forgot about me even though i love her i left her alone one night she call me and said she miss me even though she has a boyfriend. My friends and people said that if I keep ignoring her dont talk to her she will want me back more or should I just be friends with her and maybe someday she want me back?

because i love this girl from bottom of my heart. i think of her everysingle day her sweetness, her lips, her kindness, her warmth no other girls make me feel this way. It kills me she has a boyfriend im stuck here waiting for a answer.

2006-12-17 10:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I wasn't expecting to see my boyfriend tonight, but he stopped by just to say that he wouldn't be by later and didn't want to leave me hanging. What's the point? I already knew he wouldn't be over.

2006-12-17 10:35:38 · 19 answers · asked by torn 3 in Singles & Dating

How many dates did you go on with your bf/gf before it became a serious relationship? What are some of the indications? Like how it evolves from dates to bf/gf relationship?

2006-12-17 10:35:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She and I was together for a year and somehow we broke up. I swear I didn't do anything to break us up and she didn't do anything either. We just grew apart. But lately we have been talking and thing are starting to get like we used to. What to do????

2006-12-17 10:34:17 · 6 answers · asked by christina21197 1 in Singles & Dating

at the moment we are foatering a three year old. he is amazing and i wont him to have a really good xmas. problem is, im 19 so kinda out of practice with all this father xmas stuff.
whats th best storys or things to tell a child of this age, to get him all excited about santa?

2006-12-17 10:34:02 · 13 answers · asked by no angel 2 in Family

Ok, a rare serious question from me; don't you find it frustrating when you make friends with people on the internet and you know that because of distance, you will never meet them?

There are so many really awesome women that I have met from Yanswers, some of whom I would like to hang out with, given the option, but I know I can't....does this happen to others?

2006-12-17 10:33:04 · 12 answers · asked by Poster22 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy likes me but he is10 yrs older than me
i m 16 and he is 26
he recently proposed me
i dont like him but i cant hurt him..........................
dont u think he is too old for me?

2006-12-17 10:31:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets see okay so..my boyfriend dumped me..we were apart for a week..then he decided he REALLY thought we should get back together and that he made a huge mistake in dumping me...but now, since he hurt me so bad before, im soo afraid of getting my heart broken yet again..im trying to proceed with caution but i mean i wish i could get over my fear of him doing it again but at the same time, i feel like its inevitable cause teenage love and all. does anyone know how i should go about these beggining stages of my"re-relationship". oh yeah, also, our relationship before we broke up went on for 3 months. thanks so much.

2006-12-17 10:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf was having a party at his house and i went in his room to get something and then his friend walked and talked to me alittle then he grabed me and treid to rape me i got out of his grip and ran in the other room with my bf and his friend told him that he was gonna go. should i tell him ? i really dont want the my bf to go to jail or any thing he has a really high temper when it comes to when a man tries to mess with a women he broke 8 of his litlle sisters bfs ribs just because he yelled at her and they had to stun him 7 times just to get him off.and fortuntly the guy was to afriad of him to press charges.
but i dont want any thing to happen if he finds out and im afriad of what he might do to his friend since he broke 8 of some guys ribs just for raising his voice.
should i tell him ? i really dont want too

2006-12-17 10:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm researching my family history. It turns out my genealogy shows I come from a long line of chicks who lied about ther ages !
3 of them apparently never even told their husbands or kids until they were dead or over 90 !
Its kinda funny but also surprising.

Why do so many women lie about their ages and pretend theyre younger ?
Is it so they seem more attractive ?
My brother was dating a chick and everyone thought she was 30, turns out she was 40.
Her looks didnt change but my attitude towards her did just because of a different number. I actually feel stupid judging her by a random number.
Is it a huge sin , a big deal to fudge ones age ?

2006-12-17 10:30:18 · 4 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

Firstly, Im not crazy. I have been dating a girl for 2 months and even though its not a long time, i feel very strongly for her. We had been talking about moving in together. Last week a guy that lives in another state called her (a past unresolved relationship) and she told me she wanted to step our relationship down because her feelings fo rme have gone away and she doesnt know where they went. 2 weeks ago we were talking about moving in and now she doesnt even want to hold my hand. I deeply care for this girl and I dont know how to show her that I wont hurt her (as she has been hurt before). HELP! Any advice will!

2006-12-17 10:29:59 · 20 answers · asked by Jason B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is the nicest thing the opposite sex has told you?

What is the rudest thing the opposite sex has told you?

For me, the nicest thing a guy told me was that I was beautiful and that he would marry me, and another guy told me that my personality would light up any room.

The rudest thing a guy told me was when several guys were walking past and said "look at that piece of ***"--very degrading. Also one guy told me I was "too innocent" for him.

2006-12-17 10:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married soon and need some ideas of what favors to give our guests....

2006-12-17 10:29:15 · 22 answers · asked by Need2Know 1 in Weddings