We have been "friends" for 3 or 4 months, he gets mad at me when I talk to other men, but he doesn't want to be more than friends. He says he want us to get a house together and have a family but he always say we are just friends. I really don't know what to do about us.
2006-12-17 10:40:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is just using you for sex but saying all these things to keep you interested and attached to him. He's not interested in a serious relationship with you but don't want other guys to have you either, typical guys, I think you should really start thinking having a serious talk with him to see if you guys actually have a future.
2006-12-17 10:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him honey...he seems controlling. There is someone out there for you that will want you and want to have a baby with you...
Maybe he's gay and he just wants a baby he and his boyfriend can raise. Unfortunately, I've seen it happen to a mother who was admitted to mental hospital..Her undercover gay boyfriend and his lover get custody of the kid. He was real manipulative and hated this woman who was his"supposed girlfriend" he had a long affair with another gay guy behind her back he emotionally abused her. She didn't realize before it was too late.
2006-12-17 19:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey please. Life is way too short to deal with the likes of him. Don't have his baby, don't live with him. Find yourself a REAL guy who can take real responsibily and who wants as more than a friend and stay with him. Of course he's not serious- you've known him for 3 months!!!! or 4? But still No. I don't approve. YOU DESERVE BETTER!
2006-12-17 18:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ms: Remember; he said, "his baby" - not him ... you can have his baby but not the father of it, namely HIM ! Having a baby, is not like having a toy to play with. You are "people making" ! This is best left to adults, who are most likely, in the position to both, nurture emotionally and provide physically, for the baby. This guy is playing on your emotions ... indicates how immature he is ! You would be more than wise to steer clear of this cowboy !!!
2006-12-17 18:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well weird. Is he gay and just looking for you to give him 'respectability' and a family? You need to have a serious chat with him, but tbh in your shoes I would tell him that you want a home and a family - but only with a guy you love and who loves you.
2006-12-17 18:46:17 · answer #5 · answered by pompeii 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him out of your life straight away before he takes over entirely.......he's trying to make your decisions for you after being 'friends' for 3 to 4 months!!!!!!!!
"Begin as you mean to go on" - That's my motto, if he's trying to run your life now it's only gonna get worse and if you have children together you will ALWAYS have to consider his input....
2006-12-17 18:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kennysdoll 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he plans to support you and his child ? Then do your "homework" and see how much money you have to make in order to have a family ...
Be smart, Don't be stupid because he is telling you these things...
2006-12-17 18:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what "us"? You are in dreamland, sweetheart. 3-4 months...get real.
2006-12-17 18:43:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say see ya he wants his cake and eat it to. find someone who wants you. and be more than friends. that is if that is what you want.
2006-12-17 18:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE NO!!!!!!!!!!!! ONLY IF U LOVE HIM, HE LOVES U, + U GET MARRIED! seriously no! Read the Bible.
2006-12-17 18:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋