Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

Don't get me wrong it's good, just on the romantic stuff us girls like to hold on to. I need that to stay close. Why do men stop looking at us certain ways and kissing us certain ways...it's only once every other week. Is that normal? I get so frustrated some times. Do men get tired of their women? I'm tired of doing all the work in the bedroom.

2006-12-17 10:28:55 · 8 answers · asked by bkrwlls 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok a guy gave me his number on tuesday i saw him on wednesday but i didnt call him untill thursaday and he didnt answer so i did other stuff and then called backan hour later and left a message. he called back like 15 minutes later. we kind of talked for about a half hour i saw him friday and we really got closer and well we made out. we're not going out though i want to but what can you do. he's hasnt called all weekend and i dont want to sound too desperate,should i call him?? and if i should what should i say??

2006-12-17 10:28:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 10:28:31 · 10 answers · asked by sabsc13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 10:27:40 · 23 answers · asked by mark 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 10:27:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 10:27:33 · 16 answers · asked by Taylee L 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy has been cheating on his wife of 18 years for 2 years. She knew about the affair for part of the time but now thinks he has stopped. He spends a lot of time at home and they have good days and bad ones. She feels as though he is "just going through the motions". She also says that they have grown apart and want different things in life.

The guy feels bad for what has happened and wants to go home. He says he doesn't think he can. He also says that he enjoys spending time with the other woman and doesn't want her to move away from him. Does he really want to work things out, if he can't get rid of the mistress?

So, the wife can't decide to let her husband go. The husband wants to go home but can't end things with his mistress. The mistress knows what is going on, but chooses to stay in the relationship. No one can decide what to do and someone is going to get hurt.

What is wrong with these people?

2006-12-17 10:26:34 · 19 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my heart has just fully broke but you need to hear the full story. I met this guy about 6 months ago and I just instantly liked him and I really got the impression he liked me, he's quite shy though. Now one of his friends really likes me but Im not interested in him. The guy I like though told me nothing can happen with us because his mate is so head over heels for me. I accepted this then. So anyway, I was out last night and I bumped into the guy I like and we chatted the whole night and it just all came back to me again, and I really really like him, Ive never felt this way about anyone. So he told me to text him so I did and I thought I may as wlel make a move, so I asked him if he would like to go out sometime and he said yes and I asked him maybe we could go out for a drink and he replied saying "yes but just as friends yeh?". Im devestated. All his mates say he likes me but that hes just to shy, I really thought so too. Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-12-17 10:26:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, my boyfriend always talks about this girl anmed chelsie and its pisses me off because it upsets me so much. They are friends I guess but she always flirts with him and then he talks about her so I have a reason for why it upsets me...I dont wanna say anything tho because its his friend and i dont want him to know im jelous...also chelsie's friend karen is pretty close with him too and he talks about her a lot..and then he told me just today that nxt year he is switching schools to take a certain course to help him..Karen goes to the school hes going to and i dont and i wont be able to see him as much...its really upsetting me and i dont got the guts to say everything because he gets mad when i say stuff about his friends...I dont know what to do =(.

2006-12-17 10:25:53 · 11 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been going with my bf for a month now and we have just been dating evry week end and stuff but now he want me to go to his house i love him and he love me to he knows am a virgin and am not ready to have sex with him yet evn though i want to but am scared that i wont be able to resist him if i go he said we r just gonna chill but am not sure wat to do

2006-12-17 10:25:34 · 19 answers · asked by kady l 1 in Singles & Dating

How to approach a female?How to find a female?How to get females?How to get a hot female ?How to make her choose to be with me?How to get and keep my Game tight?How to take my Game to the street?

2006-12-17 10:24:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and I broke up couple months ago and we havent talk one day she call me and said she miss me alot even though she has a boyfriend. I too miss her but later on she forgot about me and like her boyfriend alot. eventually we talk and stuff and I just fall for her easily. I want to get back with her I do want her. yah I got over her once but I dont want too...no other girl make me feel this way everysecond I would drop anything for her I would do anything for her. Also I dont think her boyfriend is the right guy he use to talk **** about her and its just kills me seeing it like this. I believe that I love her more than he love her....im stuck here and dont know what to do.

2006-12-17 10:24:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

By "decent" I mean honest, available, forthright, at least passably attractive, emotionally and mentally stable,,,,,etc.

2006-12-17 10:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by john S 1 in Singles & Dating

I thought he was cheating on me.

2006-12-17 10:23:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 13years old so you think he's just going through a period of his life, but no. He's been pretty bad for the last 4years. He's really smart, but he doesn't have a conscience and doesn't care about anything he does. He's failing most of his classes just because he doesnt feel like doing classwork and gets As on tests. He treats my parents like ****, telling my mom he wishes she were dead and even my mom says "your brothers gonna get my dad and i into a divorce one day". Everytime I try to talk to him so that he can grow up a little, he just rolls his eyes. Also, he has an uncontrollable temper. He punches my best guy friend in the balls, he started hitting my dad in the gut, and hes punched me in the arm a couple times (luckily we all know how to deal with him so he doesn't know how to hurt us more like little bruises). And whats weird is that when he's not in this funk, he can be a really cool kid. And I have no idea what to do about him

2006-12-17 10:23:15 · 9 answers · asked by J 2 in Family

Here's a senario. If you were in a good marriage... a marriage where you loved your mate very much and he/she felt the same... knowing that you both would always be together. And one night your mate made a stupid mistake, and because alcohol was involved, got caught up in a situation where he/she slipped up and ended up kissing someone... something that you know he/she would never do sober. Would you want to know about it? Is it worth confessing? Or would you rather him/her not tell you and leave it behind?

2006-12-17 10:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by ezlayedback 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to break it off with my boyfriend tomorow just because i have lost affection for him, i have already bought him a present, a watch, and im not sure if i should give it to him. what do you think?

2006-12-17 10:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 10:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone loses a spouse due to death, should they continue to participate in that spouses’ family functions, holidays, and parties for the rest of their life? And what about a new partner? Should they be expected to come along and exchange gifts with that family too? Is there any certain logic or etiquette one can follow here?

2006-12-17 10:21:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 10:20:51 · 19 answers · asked by rufus11 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a female and thinking about marriage. I'd like to know, from a mans perspective, what they think is most important in a stay at home mom/wife and why. Examples...cooking, taking good care of the kids, great in the bedroom. I know this is a broad topic so please just select a few qualities that you want your wife to/does excel at.

2006-12-17 10:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Johanna E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 10:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by sakeenm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Him hurt me so much,I need do that.Pls Help Me..To forget this guy.

2006-12-17 10:19:25 · 2 answers · asked by lica 2 in Friends

I've been going out with a guy for a bit over a month now, I used to be crazy about him, but I'm not feeling that way anymore. He's crazy about me, but it doesn't feel right. It's like he's changed, and I don't like it.

2006-12-17 10:19:08 · 31 answers · asked by Katerina Z 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay this weekend I have been so depressed and upset and its not even funny. My so called 2 bestfriends wont talk or call me anymore and I dont even know why...I tried asking them but they always say that they are busy or that they cant..They never usually do that to me .. but since I started going out with my boyfirend and now that I got a real relationship they are acting weird with me because they dont rly like him...Im not gonna break up with someone I love more than anything because they dont like him...and then they always say they cant hangout with me cuz im always with him when im not...I wasnt with him at all this weekendand i asked them to do things and they said no..they arn't being reallyfair.. he hasnt done anything to them... and not only that problem but this weekend i havn't seen my boyfriend at all and I wont be for 3 more days either because hes busy..and I never know when he wont be busy and i really want to see him because i miss him.. I dont know what to do/say.=(

2006-12-17 10:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Friends

2006-12-17 10:18:46 · 12 answers · asked by P-Dog 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The neighberhood kids are prank calling my house, Yelling outside,makeing rude comments to mee to and to my kid. Please help becouse something has got to stop all this. Whatever happen about respect as a citizine?

2006-12-17 10:17:45 · 5 answers · asked by tag_along37 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or would you kick me in the nuts?

2006-12-17 10:17:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and my friend just comes up and say that she likes him and that might break up our friendship what should I do talk to my friend or kick her to the curve.

2006-12-17 10:17:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex we ended on good terms fiance died last week. We work together and see each other. I am married. I still care for my ex how do I say that I am there, but not get my husband upset.

2006-12-17 10:17:01 · 13 answers · asked by mellybell143 2 in Marriage & Divorce