I thought he was cheating on me.
2006-12-17 10:23:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The next few days I found out that he wasn't cheating on me. Then i called him and said i am sorry. He responned will an okay? He sounded disappointed. But when I woke up the next morning I saww that he called several times. Now, he calls me atleast 5t times a day. And he would say hey and then it would be just dead silence. Its beginning to be very strange. But he is the coolest guy ever and he was so sweet and funny in his own way. I just want to back in to time and erase those words i said to him. Which were: I'm sorry, but I've heard that you were cheating on me and I don't feel that you love me anymore.
I think those were heart breaking for me. And when i think of it...how do you think he felt when he heard then words.
2006-12-17 10:46:39 · update #1
All you can do is ask him back and apologize, it will be totally up to him now, don't go over board with a bunch of promises, just stick to that you made an assumption and it was wrong and your asking him to give what you and him had another chance. Good luck.
2006-12-17 10:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you thought he was cheating, you may have been justified. I would say to give it a little time then try to call and see how he's doing. Feel out his response. If you think he's interested in seeing you again ask the next time you see him. If the chemistry or loving feeling is still there, just see him but keep things chill for awhile to give him time to get used to the idea of being with you again.
Was that the sole reason for the break up? Did you break up with him or the other way around?
2006-12-17 18:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunetly it may be too late depending on how you broke up with him. If you didn't do anything too damaging then I would honestly go to him and explain why you thought he was cheating. After you do that admit you made a mistake and that you really hope that he will forgive you for it and promise to not jump to conclusions again if he is willing to give you another chance and then give him space to cool down and see what happens. If he is not willing to be understanding then there is a good possibility that there is someone else out there better for you then him any way. Don't let one ex destroy your ability to love again.
2006-12-17 18:32:10 · answer #3 · answered by Janet J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well- it might be hard but first find out if he's still single, then if he still loves you, then if he would give you a second chance. The only way you can do this is if you play detective trhough a friend and find out. Don't make a move until you get the aswers to these questions you don't want to make yourself look stupid or desperate either. You screwed up and you need to apologize to him and see if he's willing to take you back and give your love a second chance.
2006-12-17 18:42:24 · answer #4 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated why would you want him back? He will only do it again hon. You deserve better. Try to move on and find someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve. If he didnt cheat then call him and apologize and ask him to give you one more chance. Everyone deserves a second chance
2006-12-17 18:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Try "hi, how are you? We need to talk. How about meeting me for a coffee or coke somewhere, Please." About as good a way to start as any. Just keep it short and sweet, straight to the point to start with. Dont get into a long conversation at first til after you two have met as you dont want to appear over eager to get started again. Then when you two do meet, admit to him that you made a really terrible mistake and after that its up to you. Good luck and Merry Christmas
2006-12-17 18:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And are you sure now that he wasnt? If you know for sure, thn apologize and tell him how you feel and try not to be so possesive. All you can do is accept his answer. But if you are not sure then you should go with your gut because it is usually right on matters of cheating, unless your just overly jealous and possesive.
2006-12-17 18:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by jeannie64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back an tell him your sorry and why you did it for in the first place
2006-12-17 18:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by robertc012005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let that be a lesson to you to find out all the details b4 doing something drastic.
2006-12-17 18:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the signs were there, he probably was. find a new boyfriend.
2006-12-17 18:34:24 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋