i have been going with my bf for a month now and we have just been dating evry week end and stuff but now he want me to go to his house i love him and he love me to he knows am a virgin and am not ready to have sex with him yet evn though i want to but am scared that i wont be able to resist him if i go he said we r just gonna chill but am not sure wat to do
2006-12-17 10:25:34 · 19 answers · asked by kady l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...go see him...talk to him...you may find you are alot more relaxed than you expected...have fun..you have real feelings for him...go with the flow....enjoy each other when you are both ready...happy hols...
2006-12-17 10:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't Go. Your obviously uncomfortable with the idea and if you do go, more than likely you will do something that you end up regretting. You've only been dating a month anyway, and that's kinda soon to be getting intimate with someone and you probably wont be able to resist him so save yourself alot of the heartache and stay home, If he truly loves you, then he will respect your decision.
2006-12-17 10:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Danelle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have only been going out with him for a month yet already you love him, quick!!
Anyway if you truly love him then you should trust him not to try anything on when you were both alone. If this is really worrying you then don't go, if he is good person he will understand and if he doesn't then maybe you should think about finding a new boyfriend.
Good luck xxx
2006-12-17 10:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both have been going out for only a month??!!Come on my dear..go to his house if you are looking for trouble..I suggest that you wait for at least another two years..by then you would be able to gauge what type of a person he is. Take care. Your virginity is not to be compromised.
2006-12-17 11:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by idfg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to go then lay down the ground rules before you set foot inside his house. Make sure he understands that anything you say is ingnored and he will be held accountable for it in the end, no matter what it is.
2006-12-17 10:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello....:)
You sound very young......:)
It is perfectly OK to go to your boyfriend's house. But, I would not get "too" intimate with him there, at least until you know what his intentions really are.
You should only agree to sex when you are ready. If he is not willing to respect that, then he is not the right one for you.
Remember that guys ALWAYS want sex, and that's great. It makes the decision entirely yours.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-17 10:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only you can tell when and if your ready and guys have a way of persuading you to do things you know you are not ready for so if you think your not ready go some where else out not at his house.
2006-12-17 10:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he does want to chill; is he a virgin too cuz if he is then i guess theres a small chance of something happening; and it might depend on how far you guys have actually "went" in one month.if it hasnt been that far then i guess sex wouldnt be a matter. go and have fun.
2006-12-17 10:28:28 · answer #8 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You seem very worried. I suggest asking if you can go to the movies or something else instead
2006-12-17 10:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
kid u don't know what real love is at your age n u goin over there would end up with your panties round your ankles.
2006-12-17 12:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by it_wasnt_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋