Okay this weekend I have been so depressed and upset and its not even funny. My so called 2 bestfriends wont talk or call me anymore and I dont even know why...I tried asking them but they always say that they are busy or that they cant..They never usually do that to me .. but since I started going out with my boyfirend and now that I got a real relationship they are acting weird with me because they dont rly like him...Im not gonna break up with someone I love more than anything because they dont like him...and then they always say they cant hangout with me cuz im always with him when im not...I wasnt with him at all this weekendand i asked them to do things and they said no..they arn't being reallyfair.. he hasnt done anything to them... and not only that problem but this weekend i havn't seen my boyfriend at all and I wont be for 3 more days either because hes busy..and I never know when he wont be busy and i really want to see him because i miss him.. I dont know what to do/say.=(
2006-12-17 10:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by My-Feelings-Inside 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just back away from him and let him have his space. I just dated a guy (and dumped his ***) for not having time for me either. I was tired of the phone calls being all about him and him not even asking a damn thing about me. Talk about being a self centered person. Just step back and be patient. I know, sometimes its easier said than done.
2006-12-17 10:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LET HIM GO. you can't be a guys friend especially after you went beyond friendship. once you go beyond the friedship line, everything changes. As much as you don't want to admit it, now that you became more than his friend, you never saw him the same way. you can't possibly tell me that when you look into his eyes you're thinking about friendship moments. obviously if the make up and break up keeps happening then its a sign that you shouldn't be together. what makes you think that if you remain friends, that he's not gonna tell you that he found another friend who's better? Men are full of surprises, so before he drops the ball, get in his way! Talk 2 him and let him know the deal. He'll get angry at first but he'll understand, and respect your decision. Move on girl, there are plenty more fish in the sea!
2016-05-23 02:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't let your friends choose your happiness. You have to live your life to make you happy. You can't satisfy everyone. If your friends want to be like that then let them. It sounds like they are being selfish and jealous and you are probaly better off without them. You are never in your life going to date anyone that everybody likes. Someone will always have a problem with someone. If you dump this guy because of selfish and childish friends you are only going to regret it later, if you truely care for him. Who's to say that they will hang out with you if you break up anyway.They might not talk to you when you break up with him only yto be spiteful and you definatey don't need that type of friends. Live your life to the fullest and do what makes you happy. Don't worry about them. You can't make everyone happy. Good Luck.
2006-12-17 10:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by tink19812003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your two best friends that their actions are bothering you, and ask why they dont like your boyfriend. Honey, by the way you talk i can tell your still very young... it is not love, and dont be depressed about things like this. More hard things will come to you later in life. what happens happens, sometimes u just ahve to let go and move on.
2006-12-17 10:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These people don't really sound like great friends. What kind of "best friend" refuses to hang out with you just because you have a boyfriend? If they really cared about you, they would still want to spend time with you. If I were you, I'd just stop going out of my way for them, to see if they care enough to try to contact me. If not, then it's no loss.
2006-12-17 10:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you only see your friends when your boyfriend can't see you? If that's the case then they are probably peed off, as they probably feel you are using them for when you don't have anything better to do, cuz ur boyfriend isn't around. You need to make a special effort with your friends as well as your boyfriend.
2006-12-17 10:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by Danru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm getting a feeling ur friends are a little jealous cause u have a boyfriend and they know u can't hang out with them all the time now, it'll b ok just give them time and they'll come around and talk 2 u soon.
2006-12-17 10:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need three things:
1. A new boyfriend
2. Two new best friends
3. A life of your own that doesn't revolve around other people.
2006-12-17 10:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by Chula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are either jealous or think that they are trying to protect you and not seeing ur b/f well all I can say is that absense makes the heart grow fonder, (IT REALLY REALLY DOES!)
2006-12-17 10:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there jelious
2006-12-17 10:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋