I've been going out with a guy for a bit over a month now, I used to be crazy about him, but I'm not feeling that way anymore. He's crazy about me, but it doesn't feel right. It's like he's changed, and I don't like it.
2006-12-17 10:19:08 · 31 answers · asked by Katerina Z 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is I thought e was my type, and we have a dance coming up on friday, he asked me, and were going out that day. It's really hard to know wether I should break up with him or not. i don't know if I still have feelings for him. i was going to break up with him earlier this week, but then he changed my mind, everytime I try to dump him he always says something to change my mind. Also, I thought he was romantic and wonderful at first, but now I realized that he thinks all of that stuff is stupid, even if it means alot to me.
2006-12-17 11:00:11 · update #1
This is not a habit for me, all I've ever wanted is a relationship with a guy who will do anyhting for me, even if it means pretending thst the things that mean alot to me aren't stupid. I've only been in one other relationship, just for the record.
2006-12-17 11:03:24 · update #2
How has he changed? If you feel that it's not working, yeah, dump him UNLESS you have a history of being unable to commit and in looking for flaws in your partner.
If you're sure it's him and not you, then get out.
2006-12-17 10:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 8⤋
its up 2 u
2006-12-17 18:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by nintendo8888 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump him. Obviously your feelings have changed and knowing that, you will start searching for someone else and that's not fair to your boyfriend. It may end up working out that you get back together but do break up with him. A month isn't that long and he can probably handle it easier if you go ahead and get it over with. The longer you wait the harder it will be on you! Take care of yourself while respecting everyone else!
2006-12-17 18:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by sonnygirl0303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure about this one, I was dating a guy that I thought was great and then after a month it seemed like things got stale and we didn't have much to talk about but we couldn't talk for three days and then we both freaked out and sort of mssed eachother, and THEN we had plenty to talk about, Then a week ago when we had to break up for personal reasons (we're still great friends) I realized Im head over heels in love with him! sooo I guess what Im saying is things aren't always what they seem just thinkabout it
2006-12-17 18:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Uninvited_Ideas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, is it something that he has done that makes you feel this way about him? How have he changed? If you think you have feelings deep down inside for him and you think that ya'll can work it out, then do it. But if you know that the feelings are just not there anymore and there is no way that they can ever come back, then sit him down and tell him. Don't do him like men do us and just leave, unless thats the only way you think you can do it.
2006-12-17 18:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel like it's going to work out, end it now. Talk to him, pass him a note (if you still go to school), or even email him and tell him that you don't think it feels right. Tell him politely and try to ask if you'll still be friends, but don't keep lying to him and say that you love him. If you do, you'll be caught in a prison of lies that'll just get deeper with every lie you make.
2006-12-17 18:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by i6am6satan6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with your relationship, either try to fix it or break it off. Since you've only been dating for a short time, it's probably best just to break up. If you've gotten tired of him in a month, how will you feel in a year?
2006-12-17 18:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only invested a months worth of time. Cut your losses and bounce. You should still be in the head over heels phase but... YOU ARE NOT! But one quick question. Is this a habit for you? We need more info.
2006-12-17 18:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by ...huh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel it time to move on. You will be doing him a favour by not stringing him along. If you were sure, you would know it. He may be "crazy" about you, but he is showing signs that he doesn't respect the things you care about, which is a bad sign already.
2006-12-17 19:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel like the relationship is working, by all means you should not waste your time. But maybe you should find out why it is not working, because it is better to deal with it rather than avoid it..
2006-12-17 18:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. If you think things aren't working out and WON'T work in the future, do it. Life is too short to put up with a relationship like that. But be nice to him.
2006-12-17 18:21:10 · answer #11 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋