2006-12-17 10:27:33 · 16 answers · asked by Taylee L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I am a guy but the same thing happened with me and my girl (ex?). We are at two different schools and she had developed a circle of guys she would ALWAYS be hanging out with, especially one of them, due to her major and her being the only girl in it. Long story short she always assured me they were just friends and I had nothing to worry about, she wasn't attracted to them, etc. Turns out she cheated on me with one of them and I didn't find out until over a month later. Naturally my trust in her has plummeted and I am seriously considering what to do with our relationship. We have/had been together for over two years and I just don't know if it's worth the worry. Hope this helps.
2006-12-17 10:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy is a B*TCH. it sometimes can even ruin relationships, it almost did that to a few of mine. dont let it! clearly he at least finds this girl attractive, and you have to accept that as a fact. And apparently it doesnt matter if you want him to see her or not, because it appears he's been ignoring your wishes and doing it anyway. I'd be really mad personally because he's putting another girl's and his own temptations above your feelings and that's just flat out rude. You could always give him a taste of his own medicine and start doing the same thing to a really hot guy. If this bothers him, you can either both stop or you're just going to have to deal with a relationship where you can both flirt with other people. If you dont want a relationship like that, get a new one.
2016-05-23 02:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be worried, but try to not show that you're worried by acting normal when your with your boyfriend. Sometimes friendships with different genders leads him/ her to love relationships which means you have to be a little bit careful. Try to make him feel as he feels with his friend, but better than her without showing of which can lead to a breakup.
2006-12-17 10:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Mo M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl unless that friend is a sister or a cousin i think u should do some more research jus to be sure nothing's going on
2006-12-17 10:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by punkrocgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. He is YOUR boyfriend isn't he so you should be hanging out wtih him. I wouldn't be worried but I would see if they are really just "Hanging Out" or doing a little bit more.
2006-12-17 10:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by tarheel899 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of respect your boyfriend should not be hanging out with other girls without you. there is no reason for him to hang out with another girl without you there, unless he's up to no good. i would be worried.
2006-12-17 10:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by pandora078 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the key word in a relationship and if you're asking if you should be worried, well we don't know, can you trust in him?
2006-12-17 10:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, If you trust your boyfriend then yes, if you don't then no.
If you don't trust your boyfriend however you should seriously consider whether or not you want to keep him as your boyfriend.
2006-12-17 10:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't worry. They are probably having friend sex not lover sex. So everything should be okay.
2006-12-17 10:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldn't worry if theyre just friends remember he's ur bf not hers.
2006-12-17 10:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋