Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

okk heres the deal my boy is jealous of my friend and he wont get it threw his thick skull that hes just my friend and he wants me to stop talking to him and im like trying to find a medaim w/ him ibut i cant hes to stuborn HELP

2006-12-17 09:56:41 · 2 answers · asked by amy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:56:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY BOYFRIEND SAYS WANNA FOREPLAY BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT IT IS.

2006-12-17 09:56:01 · 21 answers · asked by Dr.DRE 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in 3 months and my soon to be husband is still calling the girls he use to date. I asked him why he said that they were just friends. I think if you are getting married why would you want to talk to those other women. I think it is a way of cheeting!

2006-12-17 09:55:46 · 39 answers · asked by meta 1 in Weddings

I've been friends with this girl for quite some time, and a few months ago I finally got the courage to ask her out on a date. However right before our date, she called me to tell me that she would rather just continue to be friends. I was a bit bitter about this but I quickly got over it and to this day we have continued to be very good friends.

However there are many situations where it seems like she may very well like me more than just a friend, and I've had this verified by some of her other close friends. The problem is that she can be incredibly shy when it comes to boys, and I highly doubt she'd ever approach me and tell me how she feels. If I were to approach her and tell her what's been going through my head, and it turns out that she doesn't like me then that wouldn't look terribly good on me socially, having been rejected by her before.

What are some ways I could continue being good friends with her but drop subtle hints I like her more, just to maybe get her courage up.

2006-12-17 09:55:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been friends for 5 yrs, she was maid on honor at my wedding and has seen me through the birth of 2 children. i have always counted on her to be there for me, and also counted on the fact that she had a genuine interest in my life and my family. i have always suported her and been there for her even when finding new relationships or having newborn children. Now she has a boyfriend of 6 months now, and is never around for me when i need her. she has blown me off at times i needed her most, and uses her boyfriend as an exuse all the time. i am coming to the point where i think she is very self-centered and i have tried to talk to her about this already. she comes over when she feels like it and seems that she expects things to be hunky dory, and doesn't anticipate my feelings or anger at all. it confuses me and hurts my feelings to the point that i just want her out of my life, but then i don't at the same time. there is nothing left to say to her, so what do you think?

2006-12-17 09:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i tell if a boy likes me? better yet, how can i tell if a boy that is already involved in a relationship likes me? my ex is really complicated and i think he still likes me because he's always doing things to make me envious of him and he writes me letters just to say hey and he's got a girlfriend and last but not least, he stares at me all the time. how can i tell if he really likes me?

2006-12-17 09:53:56 · 18 answers · asked by musical_genius 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband had an affair with a co worker and fathered a child. Believe it or not the baby was born this year.......ON MY BIRTHDAY! A double smack in my face. My question is.....How do I handle his new relationship with this baby and it's mother? Should he visit the baby every day, once a week, what? And is it correct for him to visit the baby at it's home while the mother is there and my husband is alone with them? Any Suggestions?

2006-12-17 09:53:22 · 31 answers · asked by mercedes5girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently went out on a blind date, I was told the girl was pretty and nice. I show up at the bar and BAMMO, she is a gross hog! I walked up to her and said that she should be ashamed of herself, that she was fat and ugly, that no one would ever love her, that she wasn't even a person, and that she should leave the bar cause she was so gross it was bothering everyone. She cried and ran out. Turns out, SHE WASN'T EVEN MY BLIND DATE! My date showed up a little later and was pretty hot, I ended up sleeping with her! I'm I awesome?

2006-12-17 09:53:10 · 23 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:53:09 · 17 answers · asked by CrazyDays 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 09:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by lemarkz51 1 in Singles & Dating

When a girl goes out on a date with a guy and guy tells the girl she's beautiful instead of hot, what's the difference? Do you prefer to be called hot or beautiful by a guy? And for guys, which do you prefer to use and is there any difference to you?

2006-12-17 09:53:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to have a first gay experience and explore doing this with friends lik blowjobs

2006-12-17 09:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can you offer home
to a stranger unknown
with no map to find
the peaks of the mind
and valleys of the heart
where do you start
to glow and ascend
will purity transcend
when the concrete invades
and an abstraction fades
depression was a season
before she gave me reason
to keep connection
in this human collection
Now, I intellectualize
feelings that have no eyes
can a gift stay alive
can kindness still thrive
on the end of this vine
nothing to be mine
but only for once see
filtered eyes set free

2006-12-17 09:51:26 · 8 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

i hv this friend who lately broke up with her boyfriend and he's having a hard time letting go, he's really emotional about it and i tink he's emotionally abusing her, but she doesn't want to hurt him further...help

2006-12-17 09:50:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her daughter to whom she left all her jewelry, or the fiance?

2006-12-17 09:50:29 · 18 answers · asked by capnemo 5 in Weddings

my new friend gave me her email and i can't find it now! is there any way that i can search her name and find her email???

2006-12-17 09:49:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Even though our marriage was over a long long time ago, we only officially separated. How long do you think is appropriate to wait before dating? It has been a couple of years since my husband and I have had a relationship but I am concerned what people will think since we just separated.

I have been alone for years in the emotional sense.

Am I jumping the gun? I just want to get back out living and having fun again. Nothing too serious. Just make new friends.

2006-12-17 09:48:59 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a long-distance relationship for 3 years and during that time I cheated on the woman overseas with a girl in my hometown. At first it was just sex with the hometown girl but I loved the woman overseas. I became frustrated at the long distance relationship and I also started to fall for the hometown girl. Both of them found out about each other, it was really messy and I chose the hometown girl. I know I broke the overseas girls heart because at least the hometown girl knew about her but I couldn't see when we would be together because of the immigration restrictions. After 18 months with the hometown girl, I can’t get what I did to the overseas girl out of my head. I think I still lover her. I’ve tried contacting her for a year but she is still angry and won’t take my calls. I am starting to feel like I’ve made a huge mistake. What should I do?

2006-12-17 09:47:35 · 33 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Singles & Dating

My family is disfunctional but I have moral reservations about divorce and disowning my family. Should I divorce my wife or my family? My family is not horrible, I believe most of them are just misguided but is it better to find someone that can at least tolerate them like I do? When my wife and I do fight it is mostly about them. Almost everything else we can come to terms with.

2006-12-17 09:47:15 · 20 answers · asked by Michael M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a 36 yr old guy I work with that doesn't believe in xmas, sort of, due to some past reasons.However he has told me he was going to get me something, like a good gift, so he says. Anyway I need a cheap and descent gift for him or a good gag gift. Please help.

2006-12-17 09:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:45:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this boy that i go to school w/ & i had a huge crush on him we were rlly good friends and hung out all the time. then somehow a grl found out i liked him & told him everything and he stopped talking to me completly than about 6mo. later he started txting me non stop. anyway every holiday i would leave a gift in his mailbox just to show i liked him since we weren't allowed to "go out" 4 about 5 yrs.but it's been 2yrs. and he still doesn't talk to me @skool his friends say that it's weird that he does that cuz he talks about me a lot. although he's kinda snotty to my bff 4rm what i hear so i decided it's not worth liking him if he doesn't even respect my friends and i'm having a rlly hard time letting him go and i want to make sure that he knows i don't like him anymore so if i don't leave him an x-mas gift do u think he will get it? and do u think this is too harsh or am i leting him down soft enough?

2006-12-17 09:45:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We had a fight about a married man she has know for years and has been secretly seeing. I got very angry and told her if she wants to be with him then she needs to leave. I wish I hadn't said that, because that is not what I want. The next day, while I was at work, she took the kids and moved them to her sisters house. She will not let me see them unless I sign a paper she wrote, saying that she has physical custody of them. I live in washington. I don't know what I can do to see my kids, without signing my rights away. I love my wife and children. I think that if she continues keeping them from me, she will set a precedent that will almost assure her of custody. If I sign the paper it will have the same effect. I am going out of my mind. I need some sound advice!!! Any lawyers out there??? I don't want to unneccesarily give up my rights! I love Arianna and Jennifer with all my heart!

2006-12-17 09:44:49 · 13 answers · asked by jerdaddy2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 09:44:05 · 4 answers · asked by WAY_to_good_for_you 1 in Singles & Dating

...with a "g" as in "girl" or as a "g" in "giraffe"? lol...I have to call this woman and i only know how to spell her name.

2006-12-17 09:43:50 · 18 answers · asked by sothere! 3 in Singles & Dating

In the united states what place do you think would be the best place to go to elope?

2006-12-17 09:43:20 · 12 answers · asked by edensappletree 1 in Weddings

What kind of bondings are there?

What are the signs that you're bonding with that person or vice versa?

2006-12-17 09:42:51 · 1 answers · asked by Queen of Dumb Questions 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is a 36DD and she likes 2 boys which one should she pick. Billy her crush who is smart, Jeff is her second crush who is stupid

2006-12-17 09:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by mz.money 2 in Singles & Dating

he is really sweet, cool to hang around, and has a great personality....but one of my friends keep hanging around him and acts like thats her boyfriend but its not....she has one already!!!! i never get to talk to him exept for in class....and i love being around him....so how can i talk with him without getting interupted by my friend...i am sorry but she acts like a ho around him.....but i also know he doesnt like her.....and i want to make him like me!!

2006-12-17 09:42:01 · 3 answers · asked by Lil Itty Bitty 1 in Singles & Dating