Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

On the other hand, men who are cool and confident are viewed as "boring" and "too nice".

Why is this? Do healthy, well-adjusted men need to start being obnoxious jerks so that women will like them?

2006-12-17 09:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

in an argument...another take on words or actions...are you quicker to use your fists or your wit...are you a boxer or a chess player???;0)

2006-12-17 09:08:27 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were at our Aunties 80th birthday & my leg hit my cusions leg no one else was at our table at that time & I just turned to her and said sorry & said that I waas trying to play footsy with her, later on she turnned to me and said that she wished I was trying to play footsy with, and I turned round and said I wish I was as well & at that we started stroking each other legs up.
We went out side with a few of our younger cusions and we got so carried away talking we didn't relise that everyone else had gone back in, when we relised she turned to me and said that she liked me and that she knew it was wrong, she than grapped my hand & pulled me towards her & with that we started to pull each others clothes off & had sex in the middle of no were, Im falling in love with her but I know its wrong but I can't help it, shes said the same and we both no our familys wouldnt approve it.
I cant lose my family but i'm in Love with my cusion, I love her like mad, but its eating me up inside.

2006-12-17 09:08:25 · 45 answers · asked by Marc 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:08:12 · 3 answers · asked by S W 1 in Weddings

like u love them unconditionally and why do u love them unconditionally?

2006-12-17 09:08:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been answering a few questions in here, but does anyone know of any bereavement chat rooms?? My dad died November 15th, and maybe that would help me a bit.. thanks

2006-12-17 09:07:51 · 1 answers · asked by tootsie38 4 in Friends

I have no interest in getting a girl. I can't get the confidence to ask one out.I will never ask a girl out. I am just waiting for a girl to approach me. If a girl likes me, she should approach me. I know I would be rejected and then it would not be worth it. I like a girl, but my anxiety is holding me back from talking to her, and I don't feel like changing my anxiety, although I know it might make me depressed, kind if. I don't really feel like I deserve to be loved. And, I wouldn't really want to be around a girl for my whole life, as it is my life, and about me. And I am selfish and I don't like giving anyhing to anyone else, though I try not to be, I can't change my selflishness. I am just a lonely person, and I plan to be the rest of my life. I am in highschool, and I don't know if that is affecting my decisions or thoughts.

2006-12-17 09:07:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And do you find it hard to wake up and start your day?

2006-12-17 09:06:53 · 19 answers · asked by Mark C 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:06:53 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i seperated from my husband in july but the house is in both our names on the tenancy and he wants to move back in. i have been advised to get a non cohabitation order but i want to know what it entails before i go through with it as i don't want to stop him seeing his children

2006-12-17 09:06:45 · 3 answers · asked by sexylady_with_naughtyeyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the first thing you think of when you hear someone cheated... that it involved sex or just kissing? Is kissing someone in the moment the same as cheating? Is making a big mistake in kissing someone considered a serious enough issue to confess to your marriage mate of 15 years?

2006-12-17 09:06:32 · 12 answers · asked by ezlayedback 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my xbf and i broke up a couple of months ago, and the split was BAD.

which is why i got a little mad when i found out my best friend was keeping in touch with my xbf's best friend. they had been exchanging flirty emails and talking on myspace for a while after the break up, even though they had only met ONCE in real life.

it really bothers me bc my best friend, of all people, should know how touchy everything concerning my ex is, and i feel that she is being insensitive to my feelings. when i confronted her she said she didnt enjoy talking to him, but felt compelled to respond to his messages. and yet she does this despite my feelings.

now he is asking her to meet up over christmas. the last thing i want is for her to become friends with all of my ex's best friends, and be tangled in that group of frends again. and still she is considering it, even though supossedly she "doesnt enjoy talking to him"

am i out of line here? should i say smthng to her again?

2006-12-17 09:06:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We are supposed to be going to my parent's for boxing day and there is only enough room for 1 adult and 3 children, which means that my husband will have to stay at home, when really I want us to go through together as a family and they cannot be bothered to find anyone else to help. What can I do?

2006-12-17 09:05:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

(And girls too !)

I'm a female in my very early 20's with a young baby. I'm a single mum.

I work in a bar and have been chatting to one of the customers quite a lot.

He has asked me out but I don't know what to say. I really like him, but what will he say when I tell him I have a baby? Will it put him off me?

2006-12-17 09:05:36 · 26 answers · asked by Postman Pat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 09:05:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-17 09:04:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Blokes coming round pubs with dodgy DVDs for sale
2. Bar managers being Polish
3. Grannies listening to the Sex Pistols

Um, any more for any more?

2006-12-17 09:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by Snowth 4 in Singles & Dating

We want to celebrate our wedding around haloween we figured it would be the easiest way to include everyone. We both have children and fairly big families. Neither one of was concerned about the whole religion part of the ceremony and we thought it would be fun to celebrate our day at our favorite time. Hints + ideas would be great..celebrate halloween and our wedding as cheaply and nicely as possible.

2006-12-17 09:02:39 · 13 answers · asked by TLRF 1 in Weddings

I've got a friend who desperately wants a boyfriend, well not so much a friend but my friends sister, she keeps talking to men on the internet and then meeting them. They never want a second date and she keeps on phoning them and repeatedly texting them. She keeps asking me why they don't wanna see her again and what she should do. I don't know what to do! She is just needy all the time and whenever I'm online she will ask me for one of my friends phone numbers and asks me to get a date for her. It's driving me a bit mad now, what should I say not to hurt her feelings?

2006-12-17 09:02:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just broke up with me...i'm so heartbroken, what should i do? :'(

2006-12-17 09:02:26 · 18 answers · asked by meli melo 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf keeps asking me to have sex with him and I'm too scared to say "no" so I just say "I don't know...".

He's 14 and I'm 13.

I don't say "no" easily.

How can a shy person say "no" without hesitation?

2006-12-17 09:00:11 · 18 answers · asked by Xander 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a F on a history test.If my mom finds out,she'll so kill me.I feel guilty for not telling her,but I'm afraid of how to break it to her.What do I do?

2006-12-17 08:59:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dear Mom,
Im sorry we fight
I do love you so.
But during the night.
I found out what I know!
I know that I love you.
I know that your mine.
I know that you love me.
And that we have our bad times.
But I want that to stop
So badly inside.
And I want you to know,
That Im right by your side.
Through good times and bad,
Happy and sad,
(yes some tears fell
But I couldnt tell)
I was right beside you,
Even though I cried
I want you to know
that Im gunna try........

2006-12-17 08:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 08:59:14 · 9 answers · asked by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:58:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend dosen't seem like loves me as much as i him.It hurts. what should i do???

2006-12-17 08:58:14 · 2 answers · asked by Perfection 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna talk and be with my boyfriend all the time ....but sometimes he wants his space ......but i wanna be with him all the time ...

2006-12-17 08:58:09 · 2 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

My crush told my friend in person that he hated me, and his friends were making fun of me behind my back and about us. He also sent me a msg saying that he isn't looking for any committments now and is enjoying single life. But, recently, my crush's friend wrote a comment on facebook and said "hey dude, u really like that pic of (my name) *** eh ... maybe her xmas gift to you could be your free will of groping it".

So, maybe he does, since he checked me out.

And, Another friend of his wrote "i can see why you are so excited for a three week break, no more worrying about exams and all your attention can be focused on (my name) , well i hope you finally face the fact that you guys are meant to be. "

I'm so confused! I know that if a guy hates you and makes fun of you, it means they like you, or sometimes not.

What do you think?

2006-12-17 08:58:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know what to do, I am so unhappy about Her sick antics, I am just exhausted from dealing with Her temper tantums, less than an hour ago She threw Her poop at Me in the house, I am talking about a college educated women here, this women has worked as a commercial pilot for the last twelve years, She is absolutly beatuiful to look at, and the sweetest woman that you would ever want to be around, but when She gets mad the only way She feels that She can express it is by crapping on something that is yours or throwwing Her poop at Me! have you ever had someone throw a fresh turd at you? am I the only one that deals with this kind of crap? someone tell Me that I am not alone! please.

2006-12-17 08:57:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my dads 32 and im 16(boy) , today i got into a huge argument because i came home at 4am last night from a party (i usually never would do this) and my dad spazed out and i told him to f... off and he slaped me across the face and grounded me for three weeks. was this fair.

2006-12-17 08:57:19 · 12 answers · asked by sidney m 1 in Friends