my xbf and i broke up a couple of months ago, and the split was BAD.
which is why i got a little mad when i found out my best friend was keeping in touch with my xbf's best friend. they had been exchanging flirty emails and talking on myspace for a while after the break up, even though they had only met ONCE in real life.
it really bothers me bc my best friend, of all people, should know how touchy everything concerning my ex is, and i feel that she is being insensitive to my feelings. when i confronted her she said she didnt enjoy talking to him, but felt compelled to respond to his messages. and yet she does this despite my feelings.
now he is asking her to meet up over christmas. the last thing i want is for her to become friends with all of my ex's best friends, and be tangled in that group of frends again. and still she is considering it, even though supossedly she "doesnt enjoy talking to him"
am i out of line here? should i say smthng to her again?
2006-12-17 09:06:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i should also mention that my best friend gets a lot of guys anyway, and cutting off this one guy wouldnt be a horrible tragedy for her.
2006-12-17 09:12:24 · update #1
friends suck and change and do shady things... its really pathetic sometimes, so just don't let yourself be one of those girls.
its happening to me right now too.... not so much the situation but the betrayal in general, and for a guy!!!
my advice is to take her actions for what they are worth, and try not to put so much expectation on your friends. the less you expect the less dissapointment you will have in life. relationships are tough, so you just gotta give sometimes. there is no point in trying to talk to her again... she heard you the first time if she chose not to respect how you felt than let that be the word. when she wonders what happened to you, you can remind her that it was her who made the choice.
2006-12-17 10:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being very controlling with your friend. She can't help it if things didn't work out with your ex, but I figure she probably enjoys talking to this guy, just saying she doesn't to keep you happy. Lighten up, or else your life might be lighten of a best friend!
2006-12-17 17:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she likes him.chill out take a chill pill and relax i mean it's not like you have feelings for the guy that she is talkin to right?she is your best friend and just maybe think about how happy she could be if she does end up with that guy..don't loose your friend over what you want
2006-12-17 17:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by gkhjd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all.. is all of this internet love? Was your ex boyfriend an internet love? or a real one? That is important for this question to be answered...
2006-12-17 17:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋