Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

i've been ignoring this boy (for personal reasons) and he doesn't get it. i would expect him to apologize but obvioulsy he won't and it's fine. but he said that he knows i've changed because "life has changed me", some things that have happened to me. he thinks that's why I'm ingnoring him.

my question is, what kind of person would think this; all he'd have to do to get my attention would be change his attitude, I really don't understand why he would think life has made me like this. it has nothing to do with him

thanx

2006-12-17 08:22:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy blocked me and said i'd just rather you were outta my life for good.. he has good reason to go into that and all.. i've never met him and you wopuldn't understand our close relationship but i won't go into detail but please tell me a sight where i can find out his address so i can go round his house and stuff please? and does any one know any other way which i could make this ok via phone? oh crrrrrap i'm really bad at telling the sotory aren't i!!
do help :]

2006-12-17 08:22:05 · 25 answers · asked by x_theblackparade_x 2 in Singles & Dating

hi i have been m,arried for 25 years and i am beggining to think what am i doing here my husband is a good provider he works all week but so do i but on a weekend while i stay in catch up on houswork he is in the pub with his mates i dont really like to go there as i work there its like a busmans holiday to me.then when he does eventually come home usually drunk and i complain i am being unreasonable to him and he storms off to bed to sleep it off .this has been going on for months now .i cant talk to him he just thinks im picking an argument.i have just been offered a fantastic job but will be away training for 6 weeks and i feel guilty i dont even want to come home at weekends but i have a 13 year old son what should i do .move on does he care is it the end of the road .i am at the point where i want to make a new life for me and my son but do i give up 25 years of marriage any advice will be appreciated

2006-12-17 08:20:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-12-17 08:18:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 08:18:12 · 3 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of problems, ones that seem to not help my relationship, For one, Being a guy I should not cry as much as I do, two I shouldn't be as clingy as I am, When my girlfriend and I get into a fight and she yells I either yell back, sulk, or end up kicking something. I feel like I am just stuck in a rut when it comes to these things, I do a lot of stupid things like burn food or act too sensetive, I would really like to change for the better anyone have any ideas?

2006-12-17 08:17:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been feeling unhappy for quite some time now and am wondering whether or not I should just call it a day or soldier on.... We have 2 small kids, are both stressed and not particularly enjoying life or being together. I feel I am not understood or listened to, he feels I am unreasonable! We seem to be stuck and unhappy. Is it worth carrying on in the hope that it might get better or am I wasting my time? I am worried that it may never get better, that I will grow older (am 40 now) and regret "wasting" time in an unhappy marriage. On the other hand maybe things might get better.... We have tried counselling which worked for a period but now it has gone back to the same.

Any similar experiences/advice would be welcome.

2006-12-17 08:16:46 · 22 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to stop it but thinking of them is soo irresistible and any ideas on how to like good guys?? because this guy likes me and he's a good guy and i want to give him a chance.

2006-12-17 08:16:36 · 3 answers · asked by trapped 1 in Singles & Dating

Wen mi best frind (kinda boi friend) tries to hold mi hand i pull it away frum him cuz i git nervous cuz i kno if i do sumthing as simple as holding his hand it will turn into sumthin else lyke sex cuz me and him are really really close but im only 13 and i dont really want sex rite now is that normal

2006-12-17 08:16:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up several months ago, but recently there has been a lot of [sexual] tension between us and my friend agrees (and has actually said so to him [ he just brushed it off ]) He seems to be provoking me on purpose and has said so to my brother, who he knows through another friend. I have moved on (see my other question hehe) and I thought he had, but it just seems to be getting worse and worse. He isn't physically violent or anything like that but he's always trying to get under my skin. I have a feeling that this could have to do with how we broke up since it didn't end very well, but I've known him since I was little and just want to get back to how we used to be before we were going out. How should I interpret his actions??

2006-12-17 08:15:30 · 4 answers · asked by drummer girl 2 in Singles & Dating

last night my parents had a party and one of their friends brought their son. he is about 4 years older than me. well, alot of the night he was hanging out with me. later when everyone started leaving or going 2 sleep, he started getting weirder. he kept looking at me and smiling, then he started rubbing my back. after that everyone was asleep but me and him and he got away from his parents and came in the house with me and we talked 4 a while. then when they were leaving he waited until nobody was watching and he put his hand out and lifted me out of my chair and gave me a really long (touchy feely) hug then he smiled at me and said a couple of more things 2 me but only waved at everyone else. do u think he could like me, or was he just being friendly.

2006-12-17 08:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

like the one you love forever will all ways care for and he will protect you forever

2006-12-17 08:15:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want my girl to look like a model. I give her so much food to eat a day, then I tell her to work out for two hours. I monitor her eating habits. I need her to be skinny. I don't like fat girls. And hot guys like me like our girls skinny and blonde.

2006-12-17 08:15:08 · 28 answers · asked by James 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend that recently got married,her husband got an IM from a female friend that has not spoken to him for over two years.
Her husband did not tell his wife about her,just mentioned that they used to play games and that she was a decent lady to chat to.He got her e-mail address from the woman and she sent him an e-mail in the e-mail she asked if it was possilbe to buy her some cigarettes and send them to her.Now the wife knows about this and is upset that he went and bought them for her,as he can not afford them.The wife is thinking about telling the woman that she is not happy and wants her to butt out and stop asking her new husband for things and that he can not afford it.Can anyone out there give me some advice to pass on to my friend
Thanks for the advice.

2006-12-17 08:15:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My friends name is alex she loves rock, heavey metel and stuff like that. i saw this shirt that said "naughty but nicely rapped" but i dont know if she will like it. shes 12, short, and got an adittude. im a year older than her so she thinks i know alot more than her to tell u the truth im grade 7 (i failed KINDERGARDEN)

2006-12-17 08:14:48 · 6 answers · asked by Beanz #9 1 in Friends

i like this girl and she stares at me like 1000 times a day does that mean that she likes me

2006-12-17 08:14:47 · 11 answers · asked by killingthought 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help im goin to the mall tumarrow not to shop for items but to look for a girlfriend eney advise

2006-12-17 08:14:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had a bad experience with someone or had a fright full time? Why was it scary?

2006-12-17 08:14:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My serious girlfreind and I had this period over the summer where we had feeling for each other but never confonted them with each other. During this period she entered a long distance relationship over the phone with a guy and then while he was visting they made out. Later when we finaly confessed our fellings and started dating when asked about the guy she lied and said nothing happend between them and that they were just freinds. This week she said she kissed a gay guy and then told me about the relationship she had over the summer with this guy. Is this in your opion cheating and what advice could you offer to help me cope and possibly move on.

2006-12-17 08:13:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:12:26 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year over the summer we had broken up, over the summer she had been seeing someone else, however I was always around and we were very close, that made me want to wait for her. So as I knew we got back together, she had said she missed me very much. Everything was going great until three weeks ago when we would get into stupid, pointless arguements. She has even bursted out in anger saying she hates me, she cannot stand me, I drive her up the wall and even sometimes Im just not her type. She also says I am stupid, she just gets into these huge fits of anger suddenly. I love her very much and I know for a fact she loves me, despite what she says because there are times shes all over me. However recently not so much I would really want this to work out with her.

I also have to mention she has Bi Polar Disorder and is scared to go on any medication for it. I would really like help and tips on how I can make this work with her.

2006-12-17 08:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 08:11:52 · 18 answers · asked by cherish memories 1 in Family

i know some guys dont like to admit it because of fear of what their male friends might think or say (which by the way is stupid) but are there guys out there that like chubby women?

2006-12-17 08:10:42 · 33 answers · asked by mony 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:10:33 · 22 answers · asked by Love2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for a month. Two months ago, we had our first child. Just last week, we were kicked out of our apartment and are now living with my parents because we had nowhere else to go. Neither of us have jobs and he doesn't even have a driver's license.

My husband got a call from an online university late last week and signed up to go to classes without discussing it with me or even mentioning it to me. When I found out, I didn't say anything right away. I waited all day and looked up the tuition. It was over $14,000! He already has over $30,000 in student loan debt and is behind on his child support around $900. I told him we had to go out and get a job-and that he could go to school once he had held a job for 6 months, which he has never done before. I have bipolar disorder with postpartom psychosis. I'm on a waiting list to see a Psychiatrist but I'm not on any medication now. He made me so angry that I hit him. What can I do to make up for it?

2006-12-17 08:10:23 · 10 answers · asked by alfeebester 3 in Marriage & Divorce

should you go with your first kiss??

2006-12-17 08:10:18 · 3 answers · asked by hmw95 3 in Singles & Dating

we have a 8 month old and a 4 year old. Im EXHAUSTED all the tme.

2006-12-17 08:10:02 · 9 answers · asked by who knows 3 in Family

Ok so here is the problem: I recently have started to develop feelings for another guy. I thought it was just a little crush and it would go away but it just keeps getting stronger and I also know he has feelings for me too. I don't think I've stopped loving my husband but then again why do i have these feeling for someone else? I came clean and told him I like someone else. Now he's giving me two options, I can either stay married and never again see the other guy again or we can get a divorce. My husband said all he wants is for me to be happy so if being with another man makes me happy, he will divorce me and no hard feelings. So here I am trying to figure out what to do. I don't see myself never talking to the other guy again. He and I have been really good friends for over a year and I'm not sure I can just block him out of my life. I really don't know what to do, I don't want to hurt my husband anymore and I don't want to regret whatever choice I make.

2006-12-17 08:09:41 · 14 answers · asked by h2gj87 4 in Marriage & Divorce

his friends?

2006-12-17 08:08:41 · 18 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

yesterday he called me saying that if i told him that my friend told me to touch his face then he wouldn't have dumped me

2006-12-17 08:07:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating