like the one you love forever will all ways care for and he will protect you forever
2006-12-17 08:15:19 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have in mind what you're looking for in a husband, and be honest with yourself whether the guy you're seeing meets your criteria. For instance, is he honest? Does he do what he says he will? Does he cheat? Has he cheated in the past on a girlfriend? Does he pay his bills when due? Once you've decided he meets it, you're halfway there.....then , watch his actions a good, long while. Don't rush right out and get married...... make sure his talk matches his walk! Good Luck!!
2006-12-17 08:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get to know someone very well before you commit. It's not easy to do quickly it takes time. Then once you make the big step, it's a choice to be the kind of wife that would make any man happy, then you're more likely to get a husband that will love you forever. Good luck!
2006-12-17 08:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by mamaloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An acquaintance of mine got together with a group of her friends and told a beautiful younger girl who was waiting for the love of her life to come along, 'They are all potatoes. It doesn't matter, just pick one.' But she and her circle of friends have a really utilitarian view about these things; she doesn't like her husband very much, I think, considering she's been living away from him for about 5 years.
I guess the first step to finding the right one is to remove the fairy tale from one's mind, if possible -- the 'some day my prince will come' idea and the whole set of expectations and all the searching that goes along with that. Deal with reality, the guy who ends up standing right in front of you all along sometimes turns out to be better than your wildest dreams.
2006-12-17 08:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Katrine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put your priorities in order. For example what is more important to you, looks or his personality? If looks are then chances are you won't find the right husband. Looks fade but personality remains.
Another thing is be aware of things like clues to how abusive men act so you can steer clear of those kind. You can find a list of clues online if you don't know them. If any guy is treating you like those clues say then you should leave him even if you like him becasue you cannot change him.
Another thing is to know who he is, his family, his friends. They will know all about him. If you are with a guy and you know nothing about him then chances are some unpleasant surprise could surface someday.
One more thing..to know for sure a guy really loves you is by not having sex with guys you date. The ones who only want sex will fall away but the ones who love you for you will be patient and wait for you.
2006-12-17 08:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi , You really never know if you have found the right one to be forever.i thought at one time i did, but beware,things are never like they seem. the best way to find mr. right is stop trying sooo hard ,and let things take there own course. If things are to be,only God and time will tell. But remember trust is the main key. if you don't have trust,you have nothing. A friend who as been there,and learn alot.
Clowmy
2006-12-17 08:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
giving an experience as a person who is maried and whose marrieg has failed, i would tell you not to rush, ask God if you believe in God just to direct you to the right one.
Not all of us are meant to be married, but because of feeling of loneliness and other things we rush into marrieg and it ends up breaking up, not that i am saying your marrieg will break up, what i am trying to say is, do not in a hurry to be married, enjoy been single and enjoy been yourself, remember a marrieg isn't something to make you feel complete. you should be complete when entering into a marrieg.
Do not go around looking for a man to married, just live your life, have fun dating.
my opinion. not factual, just what i feel.
2006-12-17 08:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by zodia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You pray! If you pick your own without praying, you will have more problems than you want! Dont get in a hurry, be patient. Its much worse to get the wrong guy than to wait for the right one!
2006-12-17 08:17:40 · answer #7 · answered by Montecar3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of work searching the herd..
The trick is finding the good one and cutting him out from the rest.
Don't settle for looks & charisma....
They won't pay the bills..
2006-12-17 09:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are only a few good and honest men ot there, and by a few i mean a few.......men will lie cheat and steal your heart away, it is up to you to see through their bullshit.......how do i know> i am a guy........and from a guys point of view, you have to becareful, get to know him and when you think you know him, please him in anyway he needs and wants without him having to ask, for believe me, he will return the happiness you set forth to him, and he will love and protect you, he will do the same for you as well, and you two will be happy, and never forget he loves you and will please you without you asking, and never forget why you love him
2006-12-17 08:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by phishsports 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you fall in love and you talk and get to know one another...you become best friends....you trust him with your life...you want the same things...you've talked about the future, children, finances, working, homes, where you will live, holidays, families, priorities.......you seem to be on the same page so you get married and then you work constantly to make sure your marriage stays fresh and exciting...that you always talk, laugh, communicate, make love.....and hopefully....you stay together...Good luck
2006-12-17 08:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋