Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

we started dating in august, he went to jail in november...we write letters and stuff still but idk if i should or not...

2006-12-17 07:30:48 · 25 answers · asked by skayy 2 in Singles & Dating

He's always so difficult to get gifts for. He's 52 and in love with video games ( xbox mostly) but i havent the first clue about that stuff, so if you have any ideas ( doesnt have to be game related) on what to get for him, that'd be so helpful! please be specific...i have a budget of 50 to 70 dollars. thanks!

2006-12-17 07:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by Gabrielle M 1 in Family

Do you feel insuperiour to her or the other way round say why thanks!!!

2006-12-17 07:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter, her husband, and their daughter live with me in a 950 square foot home. They are disorganized and my daughter is lazy when it comes to being neat. They have two dogs and a cat also and I do not have the heart to take them away from my granddaughter. To add to the chaos my home does not have a dining area and their dining table is in the middle of my living room. They are poor money managers. My son-in-law has a good job but he has no incentive to do anything more concerning the home (such as trying to get his family situated in a home of their own)and neither of them have a lot of self-control concerning money. Please do not tell me to ask them to move because my granddaughter is my primary concern. I have a lot of stress on my job also and sometimes just feel I cannot deal with things anymore. I wish I could get therapy but do not know how to go about getting it on my limited income. Are there any coping suggestions out there?

2006-12-17 07:30:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im a guy and i want to know how much it hurts the grl to lose her virginity...scale of 1-10. 1 being nuthin...5 being a pinch and 10 being a punch in the gut...


would it help if i take it slow??

2006-12-17 07:29:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if he treats her (and his sister) great, and he treats you (and the g/friend before you too) like total dog meat? He is condesending, dissrespectful, rude, angry and verbally abusive, I don't get it. And the worst part is, that he says he is not!
Almost like he is in denial or somthing!
PJ

2006-12-17 07:29:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy and he seems to like me. But I just got out of a divorce, so I cannot date or find out if he likes me. Also, if he doesn't say anything does it mean he's just checking me out and not serious?

2006-12-17 07:28:39 · 27 answers · asked by crazyloonynice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like being alone i live in apartment complex and i have try to make friends with my neighbor but it seems they dont want to be friends i see this in a lot of places why are people like this.what wrong with this world.

2006-12-17 07:28:20 · 4 answers · asked by little_bear 3 in Friends

There is this girl that I like, and recently we went out and ended up making out, she says she really likes me, but her boyfriend is too nice of a guy and doesn't want to hurt him by breaking it off and going out with me. She says "we'll always be secret lovers" (lol) but i don't want to keep going out with her while she is with her boyfriend, its just wrong. How do i convince her to leave her boyfriend.

2006-12-17 07:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mike89 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 07:28:10 · 3 answers · asked by monz 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 07:27:25 · 16 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

When you first see someone can you fall in love right then??

2006-12-17 07:26:37 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 07:26:34 · 9 answers · asked by said h 1 in Friends

i was taking a shower and my sister in law came in and was staring at me with a big smile on her face & said some remarks should i say something to my brother or just let it slide, she is allways rubing my back what should i do.

2006-12-17 07:25:38 · 8 answers · asked by Mike 2 in Family

I am putting more effort in talking to him, than he is with me. He is kind of shy and two years younger than me. I need advice, quick!! Thanks in advance!!!!

2006-12-17 07:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the average time to do IT for?

2006-12-17 07:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in two weeks and have always dreamed of being treated like a Princess for my wedding. However, my fiance and I do not have a lot of money and what money we do have was spent on the reception.

My MOH, Charlotte, has been a saint. At my bacholerette party, she did a spa night. She spent over an hour giving me a pedicure, massaging my feet and giving me a facial. It was really divine. One of the other girls at the party asked me if Charlotte would mind giving her one and I told her no. I was a bit drunk at the time and did not think much of it. She ended up doing it for all 5 girls at the party.

Charlotte has been a great friend. She is my only bridesmaid. I had asked her to do a few things for me on the big day but I am worried she is upset at me. She is staying over at my apartment the night before and i asked her to make me breakfast in bed followed by another great massage and pedicure. She has been very quiet about it. Am I asking too much?

2006-12-17 07:24:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex and I recently had a huge argument. I told him I want to move away and start my life over. I am dealing with the fact that he cheated and is now living with this other woman. He told me I am running away. When I said to him I need to rebuild my life and that he has a new family and new friends his response was "I do not have any of that". What does that mean? How can you build a house with someone, move in together, etc and not have that. I think he is trying to make me feel guilty so I will not leave. Or the grass is not quite as green as he thought it would be! Any thoughts?

2006-12-17 07:24:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 07:22:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Her and I are pretty close. The only thing is she is with someone else. I cant stop thinking about her and there is no one else who I have ever felt so strongly about anyone else. Please help me.

2006-12-17 07:21:02 · 22 answers · asked by Sir 3 in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me. it has been a difficult breakup for both of us. i just want to be compassionate. i am not expecting a response from him i just want him to know i care.

2006-12-17 07:19:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so i asked for her hand in marriage which was 3 weeks ago now. no answer. then last night we go out to dinner, & she told me that a couple of months ago i was the reason that she failed her mid term b/c she was thinking about me SO much since i took off to florida for a week on vacation. i was shocked, but didn't say anything, i just wanted to have a nice dinner. she goes on to say how much she loves me & doesn't want to lose me, but yet it is my fault for her failed mid term which i cant understand since she works and goes to school, and i work full time plus OT. so after she tells me this, my head is spinning! why am i with her when she is blaming me for that test? i planned my vacation a month before and if she doesnt want my hand YET doesnt want to lose me, what i am doing wrong? i dont try to guess what she is thinking of, she claims that im on her mind 24 - 7, but it doesnt feel like i really am. we have a great relationship, but now with all of this last night, im having doubts

2006-12-17 07:19:01 · 14 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

i don't care. i mean, i've been trying to forget, and on several occassions i have, that it is my birthday. everyone is excited and i just want it to be over...


is that normal?

2006-12-17 07:18:10 · 16 answers · asked by Frankel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do women stress so much wen a guy doesn't txt back to a msg staright away?? I've been so busy over the wkend, i never got the chance to, and now she's freaking out!!!!

2006-12-17 07:18:09 · 20 answers · asked by THOMAS D 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, theres this guy that i kinda like, and we were at this party last night, and he wanted to h.u with this older girl and she doesnt even like him, she said she wouldnt h.u with him cuz hes "little" and i tried to get his attention, nothin worked and the whole night they were flirting andd i was miserable! wat do i do to get his attention, being myslef doesnt work!

2006-12-17 07:17:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i tell him to change his style and be more fashionable without making him feel embarrassed?
(we are not a together yet)

2006-12-17 07:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so on my brithday my friend brougth me 2 DVD's and i am a really active person so i can't sit still and watch a movie . so therefore i don't like DVD's (my friend really like DVD's and has a collection there fore she assumes that i like them too, i tolsd her once that i don't like DVD's but she didn't listen to me ). so i thanked my friend and told her they were great because i was trying to be nice . now yesterday she told me that she already brought me a DVD for my christmas present so since she brought it alreday it would be really bad of me to tell her that i don't like DVD's so what do i do ? and another thing is that she never includes gift recepits so i can't return them .

2006-12-17 07:16:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 18, i am currently staying with a friend but i need a place of my own. i have been advised to report my mum into benifit fraud as i paid her rent and she never put me down as living with her to the council. i have before mentioned to my mum that i wanted to move out and now she is saying that it was my choice. i don't want to report her i just can't find it in my heart to do it even though i told the friend that i would.. i don't earn very much so can't afford to rent privately. i went to the council and told them but they said cos i was earning there was little they could do for me? i have so many belongings that renting a room would just be impossible to fit all my stuff in.. My mum is ill and i still love her.. i am hurt by the way she has acted and her total disregard for the fact i don't know how i am going to make it on my own?

2006-12-17 07:16:34 · 21 answers · asked by justalilbiscuit 1 in Family

and you would like to?

it has to be something that has never crossed your lips.

2006-12-17 07:16:08 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 07:15:47 · 6 answers · asked by swimlikebrownies 1 in Singles & Dating