Her and I are pretty close. The only thing is she is with someone else. I cant stop thinking about her and there is no one else who I have ever felt so strongly about anyone else. Please help me.
2006-12-17 07:21:02 · 22 answers · asked by Sir 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry for the gramical error in the second last sentence
2006-12-17 07:22:17 · update #1
i have the same problem but with a guy. so maybe we can help eachother out!
ok every1 keeps telling me to do it but how about if you loose a friend? or in ur case she could feel wierd around you. idk but if she has sum1 else i think you should really try to 4get her b/c if she liked u she would have waited 4 u dnt u think?
it gunna be really hard 2 try to look at her diffrent but maybe if you stay far from her it will b easy on the both of u. n keep ur self buisy hangout with other friends do things u like 2 do like skate or something k
2006-12-17 07:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by *m@r! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't married to this other person, you may want to consider telling her how you feel. Tell her that you value your friendship more than anything, and that if she is happy with this other guy, then you will respect that and continue to be her friend; however, you didn't want to let your feelings go unsaid and that you would like to know if she thinks there could possibly be something between you two.
Of course, this is easier said than done. It will take a lot of courage, so take the time to build it slowly. You may want to try writing out what you would say first in a letter. You don't have to mail it, but it will help you know what to say to her and how to express your deep feelings.
2006-12-17 15:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to pop your bubble but for her to like you in that way, you have to show her that you would be a better person to hang out with. Also, for this to work, if you have known her for awhile, it will be really hard cause she just might think you as a friend. For me that was the case, i knew a girl for like 6 years, i always had a thing for her, but then I knew that it just wasn't going to work out. This happens alot. You find a girl that makes you happy, girls can do this easily, its natural. You think that nobody else can do the same, wrong. You cant put her on a pedestal cause then you wont put your self first before her. Girls need to know that the guy they are with has goal they want to accomplish or they will think the guy is unmotivated. While she is in the relationship just show her that your more fun to be with, but don't hint that you like her or else she will be scared cause she doesn't want to cheat. You have to act like you don't care, and then you wont seem needy. Let her do what she wants cause girls think they don't want to be controlled but in the long run they want somebody stronger then them. Its all a game, love, and it can make you or destroy you. Stay strong, don't get attached to things quickly and hold yourself higher on priority. Good luck.
2006-12-17 15:31:35 · answer #3 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all can we all just start controlling outselves. She is involved with someone else. Can you find you someone who is available. Why is it we are always falling for someone you can't have .If she wanted you as a bf she would have pick you.Would you want a man doing what you are doing to your girl. Even wishing you were with her is wrong. If you got with this girl you might decide I should of stayed her friend and not bf. Things change when titles change. God bless you wanting someone that belongs to someone else
2006-12-17 15:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this is the year for this problem. you should tell her how you feel, you will never know if anything is gonna happen unless you let her know how you feel, she might feel the same way about you. If you wait too long you may loose someone good and always wonder what if
2006-12-17 15:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by drama dramz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she in love with that other person? The best relationships come out of knowing that friend and being close to them..ask her what she feels for you is it just friendship.
2006-12-17 15:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by sweetlatina1272 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are probably thinking either that if you tell her that it might ruin your friendship or it might make things better between you two. well you never know untill you do something about it just set her down one day and just striaght out tell her how you feel. the worst thing that could happen is that she won't like you the same way, but you never know what will happen until you do something about it.
2006-12-17 15:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by bluedemon_child16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her but don't expect anything one way or the other. If you think you can't stay friends with her under this circumstance let her know exactly why. Good Luck
2006-12-17 15:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dude, your gonna have to tell her sooner or later about your feelings, and when the times she'll get what you meant by that because probably she might not get it in the first time.
but also don't forget that she is your friend in the end.
2006-12-17 15:26:15 · answer #9 · answered by Matty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and explain 2 her u don't expect anything while she's datin some1 rite now though
2006-12-17 15:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by It is what it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋