how can i tell him to change his style and be more fashionable without making him feel embarrassed?
(we are not a together yet)
2006-12-17 07:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never try to change a guy. He brings you a rose every time you meet, you're not together yet and you want to change him. That's nuts!!! Girls would kill for a guy like that!
2006-12-17 07:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to change him? Would you want to be changed? If you try to change him now, then he won't be the same guy that brings you roses. You say you are not tegether yet, so obviously you are thinking about being with him, so you must find him attractive some how.
2006-12-17 15:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it more important that he's trying, work on the him being unfashionable when your together. I don't know, could you say something now without lying or hurting his feelings. I was together with a girl, I bought (a lot) of flowers, she mentioned to me one day that guys buy flowers when they've done something wrong. I love buying flowers but I always think about that.
2006-12-17 15:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by gbgnick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is why would u want to tell him to change his style, i mean he might change if u do he might not be the same guy who gave u roses everytime u meet, he might be totally different than he is now, u knw what i mean, why change someone if u like them, let them be them and love them for who they are on the inside not on the outside.
2006-12-17 15:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by bluedemon_child16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm, why do you want to change his style? he is way he is... if you make a relationship base on you think that you change him then it is a risky relationship..
you should ask him if he want to change, and then maybe try to buy him gifts base on what you think is fashionable for him
2006-12-17 15:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by My_SelF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him in a way that wouldn't hurt him and if he is sensible he would understand@!
2006-12-17 15:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with what he is doing? that's very sweet, charming and thoughtful
2006-12-17 15:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the guy won't get mad unless he's sensitive or something,
girl, the guy will understand what you meant and he won't get mad.
2006-12-17 15:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Matty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice and tell him shouldn't hurt him
2006-12-17 15:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by It is what it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋