he broke up with me. it has been a difficult breakup for both of us. i just want to be compassionate. i am not expecting a response from him i just want him to know i care.
2006-12-17 07:19:01 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope
2006-12-17 07:20:22 · answer #1 · answered by steve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how feelings were. Sounds like you still have some for him. And maybe even him, too. I think something simple and not personal may be ok. But it sounds like you two need to talk. Be open and honest with each other. Discuss what needs to be discussed. Tell each other how you really feel. And look at the problems and maybe try again at trying to resolve. You never know what may come of it. It is Xmas! Anything can happen. Good luck!
2006-12-17 07:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by heart of Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, was he a friend to you when you were still together? Even though you have broken up, giving him a gift is still a great thing to do ... especially if he was a friend during the course of the relationship.
Some people that break up won't give gifts to their ex out of spite ... but being spiteful is only a reaction to cover up your true feelings of being hurt. So, don't be spiteful and give him a gift ... I mean you are afterall being sincere. I'm sure he will be happy about it.
2006-12-17 07:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by wtfustaringat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should send him Christmas gift to let him know that both of you are still friends. Just to let him know if you ever have problems later on in life that you are still there to help out and you will always remain his friend no matter what. Take it from me. Me and my boyfriend just broke up yesterday and i already brought his gift and i started to take it back but i said no i gonna give it to him and let him know that we are still friends and his feeling still matter to me and mine should matter to him so just go head and get him a gift and let him know how you think you two should stand at as friends.
2006-12-17 07:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If In your heart that Is the only reson Is that you care and Its not a way to get back together with him then Its ok.
Sometimes a friend Is better then a relationship that Is not meant to be.The holiday season Is not a time to be alone though and I hope that you are blessed with a wonderfull relationship that last a lifetime,hang In there
2006-12-17 07:28:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dont send him a present if you want to send him anything make it a card .. but if you send even a card it will make you seem like a door mat that he can walk all over.. maybe next year once all this is behind you both and you are friends i mean just friends than that is different
2006-12-17 07:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late. You may strart a fresh. You must send him a Xmas gift so that he can realize that how much you care for him . It is definetely going to change his attitude towards you. Best of Luck.
2006-12-17 07:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Pramod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No what your doing is looking very very weak. Move on girl. He will do nothing but laugh at the gift behind your back or even start to use you as a "booty call" Your better than that move on find a real man!
2006-12-17 07:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that It is not a good idea because if he still likes you and you don't like him he might take it the wrong way but if he does not like you he could think you are holding on. It all depends on whether you are friends still or not because the fact that he would not respond to you makes me think you should do the same and leave him alone as well.
2006-12-17 07:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by kimberleyprecious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows you care, he spent time with you remember? No, don't give him a gift, let him be. No need for gifts, just call and wish him a Merry Christmas. Take care.
2006-12-17 07:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋