i don't care. i mean, i've been trying to forget, and on several occassions i have, that it is my birthday. everyone is excited and i just want it to be over...
is that normal?
2006-12-17 07:18:10 · 16 answers · asked by Frankel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yeah, normal and not normal. Relax and have some fun.
One thing we get wrong in our culture is thinking that birthdays are about us. Wrong!
Birthdays are about our parents, our brother's and sister's, our families, our friends. Birthdays are about the people who care about us.
We've even got the gift giving backwards. We should be giving gifts of gratitude to the people that are important to us, that care about us. It would be a much nicer way of saying thank you for being a special part of my life.
Sixteen is a rough time even though you might think that you've got it all figured out. I think you should watch Molly Ringwald's movie about her 16th birthday; might help you loosen up a bit.
2006-12-17 07:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to forget? Do you think you are past your prime and that life has passed you by? Sounds like you're depressed for other reasons and just using this as a means to make a statement. And no, I don't believe it's normal for a 16 year old, you are at an age when you should enjoy it.
2006-12-17 07:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm well past that age but I know what you mean. 16 use to mean so much but now.... There are so many things you can't do now because you are either too old or too young and in 2 yrs is when things tend to get better. Just try to live it up for your family. You were a blessing that took place 16 yrs ago let them celebrate your life.... Good Luck
2006-12-17 07:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becoming 16 is a big thing. Enjoy the day. Be queen for a day. Then on the next day you will be just another sixteen year old girl. HAPPY BIRTHDAY
2006-12-17 07:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by cm f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm get a card for him or purchase him a modern and make it a wonder also Make some thing that comes out of your coronary heart? My female friend made me a pendant for my birthday when we were youthful and that i nevertheless positioned on it. if you get carry of that little creativity in you, i'm particular you may make some thing on your boyfriend so as that he will keep in mind that particular present of yours. If no longer, you may continuously write him some thing. ;)
2016-11-27 00:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by oroza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont't care for b-day parties especially if its just family. Hopefully they are planning a freinds over totaly cool party for you with a sports car. Would that make it fun? Talk to your parents. Anyway relax and enjoy now because after my 21st bday I think time went fast. I am now a mom with kids and I do all I can to make their bdays about them. Cheer up!!
2006-12-17 07:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya well i think that it is pretty normal if it were any birthday besides this 1 cus isnt it supposed to be ur sweet 16
but i no where u r coming from!!
2006-12-17 07:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by chemhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, i think b/c im the same way, im about 2 turn 16 in 2 weeks and everyone is making a big deal about it.
2006-12-17 07:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by chamandakitty90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe .. are you embarssed because of the happy bd song or something// your getting older and that may seem a bit lame to you now .. but everyone elas gets a kick out of it.. any way happy birthday
2006-12-17 07:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont usually hear about people wanting their birthdays to be over before they begin is there a certain reason you feel this way?
2006-12-17 07:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋