Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

I don't know how to break up with this guy without hurting his feelings.HELP!!!!

2006-12-17 08:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by hlovestosing 2 in Singles & Dating

The mind games are getting old and I am pregnant and just don't want to deal with this stuff this year...

2006-12-17 08:55:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think my ex B/F is trying to make me jelious.He is always going out with my friends and my friends only.Also he makes me ask them out 4 him.He isnt shy.He is also telling me that my friends are HOT and he is only talking about my friends.My boyfriend and I went to Doller tree and Me and Matt where like hugging and my ex was there.He closed his eyes to not see me. Is he jelious of me.And is he trying to make me jelious???????? HELPPPPP

2006-12-17 08:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:55:04 · 14 answers · asked by Kroo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:54:06 · 17 answers · asked by eightfold@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

2006-12-17 08:53:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

and now it's over... I sent a sexy picture to him & two other guys. When he got the picture he called me and asked me to name all the people I sent the picture to. I lied, not knowing that the numbers were in the details of the message. He broke up with me,then I told another lie to cover myself and we got back together. I felt so bad about lying to him in the first place that not even an hour later I told him the truth. He said everything was fine and that I was a terrible liar. Two hours later he calls me back and breaks up with me saying that the lie got to him and he can't look pass it cause how would he know I wouldn't lie again. How do I convince him otherwise... And how do I make it up to him....

2006-12-17 08:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

he constantly promises to change and give up the habit, seeing a doctor, taking counselling, taking medication, but nothing ever happens, he will be clean for 2 - 3 days, but is so bad humoured and then takes the stuff and be all sweet and considerate to everyone. how do you deal with all of these broken promises? is being a father and husband too much to cope with? is the family the source or the trigger for his habit? should the family stay together or would it be better to go separate ways?

2006-12-17 08:52:15 · 33 answers · asked by sandy f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it socially acceptable nowdays?

2006-12-17 08:50:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm being open and up-front, so please if you have something smart-*** to say, please just don't respond at all.Real answers Only Please. Anyway,I've always had an issue with asking too many questions about my boyfriend's past,I do it now and I always have...Anyway, I'm not sure why I do it to myself or to them!,maybe I get scared,don't want to get screwed over again? want to know I'm the only one for them in their heart and whom they love more than anything in this world?....I only do it when I'm in love though... not when I haven't been...Once when I was 18, but he ended up to be a total Jerk!, he had a bad temper and attitude, he wasn't when we first met, but I saw small signs, no thanks to my dad...:-/ Anyway, I REALLY REALLY DO LOVE MY BF NOW, I'M 100% SURE HE'S THE ONE! I'VE TRIED JUST COLD DEAD STOPPING AND TELL MYSELF NOT TO ASK, AT LEAST AS OFTEN AS I DO!!!, EVERYTHING!!! WHY DO I KEEP DOING THIS, I KNOW I SHOULDN'T&IT'S NOT INSECURITY WITH MYSELF, SO HOW CAN I STOP PLEASE!!!?

2006-12-17 08:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know when you have s**.what do you do?What do men do to women?Do they lick your crotch?And in movies,why does the woman always say,"Ahhhhh!"Why does it hurt?

2006-12-17 08:47:49 · 10 answers · asked by Ariana 2 in Singles & Dating

I have no interest in getting a girl. I can't get the confidence to ask one out.I will never ask a girl out. I am just waiting for a girl to approach me. If a girl likes me, she should approach me. I know I would be rejected and then it would not be worth it. I like a girl, but my anxiety is holding me back from talking to her, and I don't feel like changing my anxiety, although I know it might make me depressed, kind if. I don't really feel like I deserve to be loved. And, I wouldn't really want to be around a girl for my whole life, as it is my life, and about me. And I am selfish and I don't like giving anyhing to anyone else, though I try not to be, I can't change my selflishness. I am just a lonely person, and I plan to be the rest of my life. I am in highschool, and I don't know if that is affecting my decisions or thoughts.

2006-12-17 08:47:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:47:33 · 2 answers · asked by Xtina 1 in Family

We have been friends for a long time, he was dating this girl, she got pregnant and he "had" to marry her. He talks to me a lot, and he says he doesn't love her, than since they live together, he has not had a nice day with her. He says he is not happy at all, and I feel so sad for him because he is such a nice guy but he doesnt want to leave her beause of the baby... I can feel he likes me, everyone sees it but it is hard for me because I know he wants to be with his baby so I always tell him to be patient and stay there also, I know it would be wrong to have something with him because he is married.... oh well! I have a mess in my head.... what do you think???

2006-12-17 08:47:21 · 16 answers · asked by Utsy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda panicked and scared she won't warm up. She continuosly reassures me of her love but I'm scared I'm trying a little too hard to help her warm up. I kinda feel rejected and insecure. Her getting cold feet makes me feel like I have to fight for her. Any advice on how I should behave?

2006-12-17 08:47:03 · 3 answers · asked by Ben M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so saddend to see all the couples that just can't seem to figure it out and give up so easly. Please we all have problems from time to time. While some of us choose to work on the problems so we can be happy others just choose to give up. I'm not saying there aren't good reasons for devorce, but in to many instances it's just to easy to say I'm soory I can't do this it's to much work. Then they give up. Why do people find it so easy to hurt each other then try and love each other?

2006-12-17 08:46:56 · 20 answers · asked by December K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

seems that all of my friends are single and i am married with a blended family... his hers and ours (3 kids total) and all i ever do is clean my house and do laundry etc.... basic life needs and activities of daily living for all five of us..... my friends are all single and they are busy doing fun things every day of their lives... sometimes it gets depressing..... as i sit on yahoo answers while they have fun but i have obligations to the house and don't find it worth while to drag three kids out in the cold.....
so how do i find friends that will understand me, and be on the same page as me instead of always feeling like my life sux compared to the people that i regularly interact with???
i didn't always feel this way, but after 3 yrs of marriage/ownign a house etc...its getting harder.

2006-12-17 08:46:43 · 2 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Friends

what would you do or think if you see a boy who loves you is working at macdonald's and cleaning tables and brooming?
i feel so humble !!! that happened to me :( ...plz be honest !
thanx alot !

2006-12-17 08:46:16 · 16 answers · asked by Ali 4 in Singles & Dating

Summary:
Dad died suddenly 2 weeks ago
I have been the primary problem solver for any and every thing for these past few weeks ( I'm 50)
Mom has been very mean and hateful to me my entire life BUT I can't find it in my heart to disown her even though she has been mentally brutal to me since Dad died
Brother who is 53 has been useless with problems, Mom's needs, actually has been a hinderance creating MORE problems

We go to a very nice resturant every Christmas- getting dressed up- have done that for over 30 years
All decided on thats what we'll still
do this Christmas until today
brother corners each individual to tell them we are having Christmas dinner at his house this year
(brother has 6 cats - 2 not housebroken) house is a furball, pee pigsty and my son is highly allergic to cats
WHAT would you do?

dinner @ my house is not a option
Mom is basketcase and is leaving solution up to me to solve... as usual

2006-12-17 08:46:07 · 9 answers · asked by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 in Family

So should you actually belive what that statement said or not?

2006-12-17 08:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by pramon0119 1 in Singles & Dating

It would be wrong to do it without telling him right

2006-12-17 08:45:34 · 27 answers · asked by Larenzo S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 08:44:55 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:43:07 · 20 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 08:42:43 · 7 answers · asked by tomman17 1 in Singles & Dating

It is apparent that the loves of his life are...not in any particular order....himself, his mother and his son............he's never lived with a woman so am I wasting my time with him, given that I am looking for an equal partner?

2006-12-17 08:41:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to be popular so bad!! i'm in sixth grade and just moved to a new house, and a new school, and obviosly being myself doesn't work! please, i want to be popular sooooooooooooo bad!!!!!! thanks -Hailey

2006-12-17 08:40:21 · 10 answers · asked by Hailey 2 in Friends

2006-12-17 08:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 08:38:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You'd think, you'd think the sun would rise,
You'd fall asleep and shut your eyes.
The moon would fall. -Fall, fall,
As the sun would stand for all, all.

You'd think in the morning you'd wake up.
Your mom to make your food.
You'd take it all for granted,
Until your life subdued.

Moms not in the kitchen,
It's still too dark outside.
A bloody knife is on the floor,
You slowly shut your eyes.

Is mommy in the bathroom?
Is she lying on the floor?
A pool of blood beside her,
She couldn't take it anymore.

You know she's dead already,
As you run to get the phone,
As you dial just 3 numbers,
You run away from home.

You're sitting on the sidewalk,
As the screaming engines roar.
Now Mommy's in the hospital,
On the very lowest floor.

When she asked where Mommy was,
The nurse, she only shrugged.
Nurse told her she was sleeping,
And would not be waking up.

Next time you go to sleep, sleep,
Don't let your mommy weep, weep,
Tell her it will be alright,
And that she'll make it through the night.

2006-12-17 08:37:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, does anyone enjoy having sex with a full bladder? i've had it once and i totally liked it.. of course i had to rush to the bathroom right after but the feeling was pretty good.. like, more intense.. i think i hadn't peed for maybe 5 or 6 hrs then. i told the guy to go easy on the tummy though ;)

anyone has similar experiences?

2006-12-17 08:36:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating