and now it's over... I sent a sexy picture to him & two other guys. When he got the picture he called me and asked me to name all the people I sent the picture to. I lied, not knowing that the numbers were in the details of the message. He broke up with me,then I told another lie to cover myself and we got back together. I felt so bad about lying to him in the first place that not even an hour later I told him the truth. He said everything was fine and that I was a terrible liar. Two hours later he calls me back and breaks up with me saying that the lie got to him and he can't look pass it cause how would he know I wouldn't lie again. How do I convince him otherwise... And how do I make it up to him....
2006-12-17 08:52:49 · 10 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Dear,
Ask him to look you deep in the eyes and tell you truthfully that he has never lied to you.
If he can't (and he won't be able to unless he is a good liar) then you must use that as a way to explain to him that everyone lies from time to time, and that doesn't mean that you don't love him, or can't trust him, so why can't he trust you?
Sending pics to other guy friends may hurt his feelings, and you should realize that, but it isn't as if you cheated on him, or intended to do so.
A lie to spare someone's feelings isn't always a bad thing. He needs to realize that.
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-17 09:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing was never lie in the first place.. but it already happened and you can't turn it back. Tell your friend you're really sorry, and that you'll never lie again. That you never should have lied, and that it was wrong. Tell him you want to come back together. Good luck!
2006-12-17 09:01:35 · answer #2 · answered by free_to_speak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u got to either get better at it so when you do lie they believe and then you feel good like omg I can't believe they believed that or you got gently tell them truth remind them that at least your being honest with them and not lying with them and explain why you did what you did (which I'm kinda curious to kno too but o well) that is if they are willing to lisyen to what you have to say if not apologize and give them time.I hope this helps ( by the by I also have a question in the singles and dating area that needs sum attention so if I've helped u if u don't mind can u help me?)
2006-12-17 09:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by F9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard to cover up the tracks of a liar..you lied more than once and got caught at it, so how can you expect him to trust you again?
2006-12-17 08:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry.. just go tell him.. the truth.. f he brecks up with you again, go find a boy that is like him... and make him jealosy.... u don't aways need theat man to help u ... u can find a boy in the real world!!!!
2006-12-17 08:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
telling him the truth was an excellent thing that u did.so
e-mail him and tell him that if u didn't wanted to say the truth u wouldn't have tell him so he should give u another chance.
2006-12-17 09:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late, move on, learn from your mistakes. Too many people out there to be hooked on one.
2006-12-17 08:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by OmarSD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't you shouldn't have lied in the first place now you have to own up to what you did and deal with it...obviously you shouldn't have lied about something really stupid!!!!!!
2006-12-17 08:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by britty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lied...now you have to lay in it....sorry but you need to do some big, I mean BIG kissing up!
2006-12-17 09:02:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beg for forgiveness and try to regain his trust
2006-12-17 08:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by drkchocolatedeluxe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋