It would be wrong to do it without telling him right
2006-12-17 08:45:34 · 27 answers · asked by Larenzo S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have just read a person that reached a new low in adultery. That's some LOW LIFETED CRAP!
2006-12-17 08:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just got yourself caught up in a situation. Does the b/f know about the husband?? I think you should take a pause and rethink your situation. Call up hubby if you are serious about not being married to him and get a divorce. I hope there are not other family issues involved. Sometimes you do find yourself caught up in the moment when you probably dogged a really good man. Though I don't know your entire story, I pray you will make the right decision and hopefully nobody gets seriously hurt. Of course all three of you are losing something because of one spontaneous decision made by one person. Stop the lies and games and confront your fears. If your b/f will still have you after that, you have to be woman enough and be truthful for the remainder of that relationship or your next. It is always best to be honest. Why decieve them anyway. That is not fair. And you have their heart, why crush it over some fear of what they might say or do. If you think the end result will be bad, you should part ways and do you!!!
2006-12-17 09:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this questions & be honest with your answers:
1)Is your new b/f aware that you're a married woman?
2)Why are you betraying the confidence your spuose has in you.
3)If you were so treated how could you have felt?
It's wrong to abandon your husband without a cause at least you never said any. I want you to know that you stand the risk of not being trusted by your b/f in the future.( once beaten twice shy). He'll reason if you did it to the other man, you can do same to him.
Your action is a seed sown into the soil of time.You'll certainly reap. If your husband is on a christian mission you had better reconsider your decision and repent or dare GOD!
2006-12-17 09:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by cherish memories 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get real!
You cannot marry another person till you're divorced from your husband! It's illegal and the fact your husband's overseas doesn't change that!
If you're not in the process of divorcing him already, yes - he'll have to know!!
Don't plan on a quick re-marriage - divorce takes time!
I hope you and your 2nd (or will he be No 3/4/5?) are happy - cheating on a man overseas helping others (or maybe helping spread "God's Word", you don't say what type of mission) and then planning to dump him is not my idea of a good way to start!!
2006-12-17 09:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...That is crazy! I feel you girl on the whole falling in love with someone other then your husband but you can't just get engaged, plan a wedding and get married. You need to tell your husband, get a divorce if that is what will make you happy and then follow the rules of the law.
2006-12-17 08:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by Love2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u cheat on your husband and then ask if it would be wrong to marry ur bf without telling the man your married to.
howcould you do that is there something wrong with u
shouldnt you have wondered that before you engaged someone while being married...
thats sooo disgusting and low on your part i hope you know that!
do you even kno the difference between wrong and right...im giving ur question a thumbs down bc ur messed up
2006-12-17 08:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes, you know that. What are you doing getting engaged and having a boyfriend when you are married? If you want out of the marriage, then tell your husband, get a divorce, and then proceed with the other relationship.
2006-12-17 08:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHH how very sad. Can't believe you need to ask if this is wrong. My heart goes out to your husband.
Do you have values?
No sense of right and wrong?
No manners or integrity?
Do you know what committment means?
Personally, I wonder how your bf can trust you not to lie to him like you are lying to husband now!!
IMO you should not even have a "boyfriend" as you were supposed to be married.
You are the worst, and your bf too.
2006-12-17 09:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by strong1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?! Is this a freaking joke? Do people really do this to others? Not only would it be wrong not to tell him, it would be wrong to get married again at all?
Why are you engaged to someone else when you're already married to someone? What kind of person are you?? Are you collecting diamond rings or something?
Not to mention it is wrong. You could go to jail for polygamy.
2006-12-17 08:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dated for 4 years and we were given married almost 3 years after that. So in entire we were mutually seven years earlier we were given married. We also began relationship in ninth grade. we've been married for somewhat over a twelve months now.
2016-11-27 00:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell your husband, otherwise it's illegal, if you get caught you go to jail, and it's easy to get caught, because of all the paperwork involved. Just be a woman about it, and tell your husband you want a divorce, and once it is final you are free to marry your boyfriend.
2006-12-17 09:02:17 · answer #11 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋