my boyfriend just broke up with me...i'm so heartbroken, what should i do? :'(
2006-12-17 09:02:26 · 18 answers · asked by meli melo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
suffer the joy......
2006-12-17 09:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing to do would be to get your mind off of it. Plunge yourself into the thing you like to do most, like playing sports, running, or some sort of physical activity. Call up some of your friends and hang out, go bowling or shopping or whatever. If you find yourself having time to reflect on it, do so in a way that doesn't make you feel like it was your fault, just remember the good times you had and remember that as a cherished memory. That way, in the event that your ex comes back, wondering it he might be able to resume the relationship, you can give him a swift kick in the butt out the door... :)
2006-12-17 09:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by ramennoodles5287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry. What I recommend is you get the frustrations of losing your old boyfriend out of your system, and when you're done with that you should pick yourself, dust yourself off, then you should see about finding another boyfriend. Christmas is around the corner, and you don't have to be alone if you don't want to be. I hope my answer helps you. Good Luck.
2006-12-17 09:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to movie with friends, eat ice cream and stay up all night telling jokes about how great he thinks himself to be. If your over 18, you should already know the best way to mend a broken heart is to find someone else that can mend it for you.
2006-12-17 09:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a really good friend to go out on the town w/you, take a course at your local college, learn to play the guitar, move to a new town,take an extended vacation, do any thing new to meet new people. but ... don't start looking for a new bf yet. give yourself some time for you! then goforit.
2006-12-17 09:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by geezer 51 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffer the pain of loss. Feel the void left where your heart should be. Embrace it!
This experience is valuable.
And yours couldn't have been as bad as when my girlfriend broke up with me.
She crushed my heart so bad that I gave up on women (I'm not gay). That was many years ago.
2006-12-17 09:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by snipertkc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt stay home cuz if u do u'll just end up thinking about it worse!
go hang out wit ur friends and think about it diffrent like now u are not tid down and u can talk to other guys!
if you do stay home get some icecream and search the web find sum thing to laugh about!!! rem. guys *** n go!
2006-12-17 09:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by *m@r! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new horse and get right back in the saddle and ride!
2006-12-17 09:05:18 · answer #8 · answered by don b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well get on with ur life, tho im sorry to say you guys broke up
it breaks my heart when couples fall apart...speciall mines ;p
2006-12-17 09:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. KH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with me lol. jk Just get over it. There's more fish in the sea. Just reel one in.
2006-12-17 09:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by thealmightysonics 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make him jealousy
for example!! u can go out and find a boy and that is like him... make sure hes hotter than your ex... make him jealosly.. say things like this is my new bf... isn't he great and hot... and ask your ex for dinner and your "fake" bf!!!
Good Luck o_0 sexy♥
2006-12-17 09:10:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋