Is it ok to have a first gay experience and explore doing this with friends lik blowjobs
2006-12-17 09:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, it's ok... as long as you are consenting adults and being safe about it.
2006-12-17 09:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with wanting to experiment with some of your friends. Just make sure that you and your friends are all on the same level. Meaning, make sure that each one knows what they want to do and are willing to do it. Also, make sure that no one goes running off at the mouth about doing this said experiment.
If this is the way you and your friends feel and are feeling, then, do it. Make sure, too, that you and your friends protect yourselves. You can give blow-jobs with condoms on. This is just to be on the safe side. Now, because this is your first experience, I suggest you start with kissing first, then escalate from there. Do not start giving a b'low-job; you are not a male whore or anything. You start with kissing and hugging and stuff, THEN, you go for the b'low-job.
Whatever the outcome is, I hope you keep a positive outlook on life-be proud no matter if you are gay or straight. Just be yourself. No one else can do that for you.
Good luck.
2006-12-17 10:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is no more and no less okay than having a heterosexual "experience and experiment with people".
If you are trying to work out whether what you plan ought to conflict with your morals, try substituting (in your mind) an equivalent heterosexual interaction for the homosexual one you're contemplating. Would that be okay? Would it be abusive or exploitative?
My own view is that whether sex is okay or not has more to do with the context of the interpersonal relationship rather than which particular sets of body parts are coming together.
2006-12-17 19:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it is, you learn by experience, maybe you have a gay experience and learn you like it or don't, its perfectly fine, no matter what anyone will say that's bad about it. If you are bi, then so be it, if you are gay, thats fine, if you are straight, thats cool too, it doenst mean you have to follow the rules that society has set up with these different categories of people. It's fine as long as you are fine with it
2006-12-17 09:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! If you're both consenting adults and you practice safe sex, there's nothing wrong with a few "experiments".
2006-12-17 09:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
negative joe...
it's a dangerous road your considering taking for your journey
some people claim that homo's are born that way due to the brain chemistry which is different from hetero's
well, here's a consideration...that difference in brain chemistry is not from birth...the change in chemistry begins when the experiment begins...
u want to play being a homo...its ur decision, but once you take that path, it will change you permanently...
y u want to suckcock z puzzling wen pussytastes so much better
2006-12-17 09:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by stump jumper 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm going to be the odd-man-out here and say no, it's not okay. And a part of you must know that, otherwise you wouldn't have asked the question to try to get a confirmation of it.
2006-12-17 10:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
As long as all participants are of their own free will, yes, of course it is.
2006-12-18 13:08:06 · answer #8 · answered by Miakoda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is something that you don't want to experience it may have a negative effect on you
2006-12-17 10:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by L J 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
as long as you are consenting adults, why not?
2006-12-17 09:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋