a guy likes me but he is10 yrs older than me
i m 16 and he is 26
he recently proposed me
i dont like him but i cant hurt him..........................
dont u think he is too old for me?
2006-12-17 10:31:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
honey please dont fall into that trap. He is going to turn u into what he wants and not what u want to be. I fell into it myself and it is not fun nor pretty. But now I feel like I need him and I cant get on my feet to get away because I dont know how.
2006-12-17 10:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He obviously is a social reject and cannot find a girl his own age. It maybe that he has B.O. or simply an incredibly small p***s. Either way, he will be no use to you whatsoever. Also, from his point of view, he is just looking to you as a piece of young, ditzy meat, which you naturally are. Always remember that wise saying of Jesus: "meat and B.O. shall not go together to the kingdom of heaven". Amen.
2006-12-17 18:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Oliver T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first of all if you don't even like him, how is it that he is at the complete commitment stage?
Age does matter in the case of a 16 year girl and anyone over 18---its the law!!! You are going to have to come clean with this guy and tell him that as much as you admire him, you are still far too young to know what love is and far too young to be entertaining thoughts about marriage when you probably haven't even decided if you're going to college or not yet. At sixteen you are far too young to be thinking that life revolves around a man. At sixteen you have no idea who YOU really are and what you really want out of life and what you stand for and how you see your life in five years....are you getting the picture........you are too young to think about marriage especially with someone you yourself say you don't like.
What is it with girls today that they think they need to have a boy/man in their life to feel like they are worth something?! Take plenty of time to get to know yourself first and figure out what you want out of life before you try to figure out if a boy/man has those same wants and needs and will compliment your life.
Marriage is not to be taken lightly---regardless of how old one is!!! Contrary to popular belief, divorce is not easy on anyone who goes through it. Marriage is lots of work and trust me at your age you do not have what it takes for the long haul.
Stay single and stick to boys/men a little closer to your own age.
And be careful if you are sexually active...he's had at least 12-14 years of partners before you, regardless of the number of partners he's had. he's a man so you know he's been having sex.
2006-12-17 18:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 16 thats way to young to get married go back to school and study age doesnt matter but theres somethin called studying which does matter
if u dont like the dude say no or else ur gonna regret it
i am 23 and im not married yet i have a boyfriend but im not married yet u should wait
2006-12-17 19:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Kristyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age matters, except when someone is under 18. You are young now and you should not rush into anything. PLUS you don't even like him. Just tell him your mom is going to call the cops on him if you want to get rid of him. He should know better.
2006-12-17 18:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by I carry your heart with me... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he seems like a little too old in my opinion but what matters is that if you love him and he loves u back then theres nothing that can stop it.the law dont have anything against abv 16 i think.nvm i dindt read the propse part.. i think you're too young for this.just continue dating..you're not even out of high skool no point in getting into marriage and crap
2006-12-17 18:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by itstony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes too old,you have years to enjoy without being tied,enjoy your teens,it flies by,before you know it you will be in your thirties wondering where all the years went.At 26 he its worrying he has anything in common with a 16 year old-enjoy your life and don't get tied down,believe me i know....good luck
2006-12-17 18:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be stupid
either hurt him or hurt yourself
in human nature, self preservation is prime
the age does not matter if you are both mature, but you're not
if you were, you'd just be honest and tell him you dont like him
to hell with his feelings, being honest is better...always
2006-12-17 18:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by stump jumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him then you don't like him!!!!
He's trying to capitalize on your feelings of not wanting to hurt him. That's not your problem
if it hurts him or not. He would probably overplay the feeling of "being hurt" also, in order to appeal to you, to try to get you.
If you don't like him, you don't like him!!!!
2006-12-17 18:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ilmari_Karjalainen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i am adam sandler i am kinda old but i am hottt and kool right
2006-12-17 18:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Adam S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋