Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

Thanks for the answers, true, they should not tell us how to lead our lives or how i should bring my son up, i am a working mom and should keep away from negative people to keep myself positive and sane.

2006-12-14 17:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by colwg 2 in Family

I need some nice gift ideas for my wife for xmas.She is 35 enjoys going out and doing all the girlie things you ladies should

Thanx

2006-12-14 17:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by mjc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my question is that do girls like being hugged / cuddled / kissed alot? Because my girlfriend alway tells me on the phone how much she wants me to just hold her and I wish could at that time but I couldn't do anything. But then when I see her like at school, I'd hug for for a really long time but then she would like let go. It feels like she doesn't want to be hugged too long.
So ya, help me out girls ;).

2006-12-14 17:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by davi921 2 in Singles & Dating

You get into a school fight but you back out or lose and people start teasing you about it and you lose your reputation you had?

I am a teenager!!

2006-12-14 17:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by kamalama 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter is only 16yrs old and she has a b/f, however she's not really active when it comes 2 sex, so her boyfriend told her that the only way he can love her or be w/her is if they have sex. I told him that was B/S that's the oldest line in the book.
Please write back and tell her that as well.

2006-12-14 17:28:22 · 16 answers · asked by shortyb5 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very attracted to another man, even though I am in a relationship. Is it ok to 'test' the waters, to confirm that I really am happy where I am? I am very confused right now. Primally, I feel I need to explore, but emotionally I feel like...well...I terrible person.

Any constructive comments are appreciated, please do not condone me...I know the ramifications of my thoughts.

2006-12-14 17:28:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Recently, after I use some pos dating site. I have met a boy friends at : http://stddating.tripod.com. He request me to come his city and meet his friends. It only about two weeks after we exchange the telephone No. Should I spent my Christmas with my new BF who I meet on a dating site? Would you please give your advice?

2006-12-14 17:26:49 · 9 answers · asked by Emily R 1 in Singles & Dating

What if you've met someone, and she is so right for you, in every way & Is it wrong to fall in love then? To me, cheating is just playing the field, and getting in bed with anyone. So, what really is cheating to you?

2006-12-14 17:26:38 · 25 answers · asked by dn.dan_6575 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 17:25:30 · 6 answers · asked by Some Girl from College 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been good friends with my friend amanda for about a year now.everytime im around another one of my friends that a girl she gives me the evil eye or look of death and sends out sort of a jealous vibe.shes been doin this for a while now.if im hangin out with one of my other friends that are girls and shes with me or in the same room she leaves and looks at me until shes exited the room....one day one of my bi friends told her shes hott...her face got red and she said thanks....then after my bi friend left amanda told me well ive never been with another girl but idk if i ever will try it.......when im lookin at sumthin and i look up i see her lookin at me and then she looks away really fast and her face gets red. idk does she possibly like me and is afraid to tell me? she gets really jealous but im not gonna go into details too many things to type. it gets so bad that she wont really talk to me. and when i ask her if shes mad at me or sumthin she says no and walks away so idk.....help

2006-12-14 17:24:48 · 12 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Friends

A guy I liked and work with called me while he was jerking off. I wasn't really sure what to do because he has a girlfriend so I tried to just be cool about it. He later told me it didn't mean anything and that there would never be anything between us. I am good friend's with a friend (lets call her jane) of his and his girlfriend's though and now he feels weird to be around me and her. I feel this is his fault and refuse to quit being friends with Jane. He makes comments to Jane about why is she still my friend and things of this nature and tells her he does not want me to come when they go out or she has a get together (she wants me to). I am angry about this and have told him so. He thinks I am being unreasonable and says he is not trying to make her choose. I say he is. Who is right?

2006-12-14 17:22:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

were good friends its just hard for me to think of what to say

2006-12-14 17:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-14 17:21:25 · 9 answers · asked by b_sharp2470 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 17:21:14 · 10 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my last girlfriend wasnt a virgin. And now this girl im seeing now is one "can you believe it i thought they didnt exist any more" but any ways shes a virgin and im kind of scared of how to handle the situation. i mean she said shes ready but this is new for me. what should i do? is it like doing it on your period?

2006-12-14 17:20:41 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian N. 2 in Singles & Dating

I dated my ex for a month but he was the one who ended it. He was sweet, caring and we had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing. While we were dating, I told him that I really wanted to see the classic love story movie "The Notebook" with him, but we never had a chance to see it together since he ended the relationship so soon. Before he dumped me he had told me that he had downloaded "The Notebook" movie on his labtop computer, but we never had a chance to see it together.

Neways, after he broke it off, he would still say hi to me on msn. One day, I put a picture of the couple from "The Notebook" as my msn pic. As soon as I logged in, he said hi to me and he said "hey, isn't that from the notebook" and I was like "yeah" and he said "oh, I still haven't seen that movie, it's been sitting on my computer" then I said to him "yeah, it's a good movie, you should see it."
Was he playing with my emotions?, or was he hinting to me that he wanted to see the movie with me?

Do you think he’ll just keep the movie on his computer? I doubt that he’ll ever ask me to see it with him, but If he ever sees it with another girl he’ll probably think of me right?

2006-12-14 17:20:39 · 14 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Girls guys wich one would u choose?

on one hand u have this awsome university girl who is fun to joke around with and chill out with and be your self with and laugh and cry with on the other hand there is a 32 yrold hottie that wants you and she is willing and is "open minded to new experieces"and u are only 19 and ur a male what would u do
you have met both of them last week

2006-12-14 17:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, the question topic says most of it. I'm going through a divorce currently (my wife cheated) and met a woman whos husband cheated on her and now thier marriage is pretty much a failure too. They haven't separated or anything though. I know this whole thing sounds like a Springer show episode but she's too amazing just to walk away from.

Go ahead - pass judgement. Try to take it easy on me though. I'm wondering if anyone else out there has had a similar experience and how it went down. Basically looking for advice.

Thanks.

2006-12-14 17:18:01 · 26 answers · asked by derek985 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okk

girls at my work and college keep giving me love note and their phone numbers and there's this girl at my class sh came up and said the she love me and i looked at her i and said i have girlfriend and i like her and we can be friends she start crying i didn't to hurt her feeling but what the hell did i do wrong i mean she was cute like the rest girls that give love not but i have girlfriend i mean what did i do wrong

and i tolled my girlfriend about she said (buy the starange girl flower) and she said don't be mean to the other girls in class or work.

is my girlfreind crazy i mean she italian and it's normal in culture
but what if that girl thought i like her thats making the problem even worst !


i know this sound werid but i'm not sure what to do

2006-12-14 17:17:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for 5yrs..and he lives in a diff counrty now..we have been having a lot of fights and and lot of disagreements..he called me last night and said he's really busy and im puttin a lot of stress on him..in a way i was puttin stress..i wanted him to keep in touch with me most of the times which was difficult for him..

so i understood his prob..was ready to give him his space..but he said that he will marry me only coz he promised me so and he really doesnt want to marry me..i said i wanted to take a break for a week..so that i will think over all these things..

now i dont knw what to do..should i break up or should i not take a break and call him..its a 5yr relatnship..and it was ouch when he said he doesnt wanna marry.. plz help

2006-12-14 17:16:19 · 17 answers · asked by sweetiepie123 1 in Singles & Dating

November 10th I meet a flight attendant and we click, have sex, and she leaves and doesnt give me her phone number I am crushed. January 8th another girl I meet dates me for 3 months then dumps me after an argument then strings me along for months until I see her kissing another guy in a night club...i am crushed again.Then July 4th this other girl dumps me, the same day my cellphone gets stolen, and my car gets stolen and burned. Lost 5k. A month later $1500 gets stolen out of my account. Then I meet another girl, we click, and she leaves and buys plane ticket to see me until I buy a car off ebay for $2500 bucks an the seller takes off with my money and i get no car. She cancels her plane ticket and loses respect for me.My heart has been broken into a million pieces and my finances have been wrecked because of thieves. How can I turn my life around? Why are these bad things happening? Im a good person with a college degree. Am I naive? Am I just running into bad people?

2006-12-14 17:16:19 · 10 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Singles & Dating

ask that question but it just came out from my mouth humm....horrible and u know what i dint expect from him that he will reply in this way coz, i thought he love me and i too him so much.
if some1 fall in love to somebody like i love to my b/f i will never ever say to what he said to me (he said baby that's ur life do whatever u want to do njoy i dont mind)opss is that he love me im not sure. I got so mad so i hang up the phone he call me again n said that if its realy hurt me than he is very sorry n he told me 1 sweet word that(he will never flirt if he have g/f (me) he is not gonna look for more 1 is enough.u have to thrust me and i have to thrust u that all)
Is that he love me or not?

2006-12-14 17:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

oooooooooooooh tough one huh??????

2006-12-14 17:15:52 · 9 answers · asked by Cyrill sneer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 17:15:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My guy friend always grabs my lower leg every day and tells me how tone it is. Is this good or bad??

2006-12-14 17:15:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship minus how I feel about him going out to bars with his friends. For some reason I get upset & it makes me feel uncomfortable. I still have 2 years until I can even go to a bar, so maybe I'm just a little paranoid about it because i dont know what bars are like ect. We live together and have been together for about a year and a half. I trust him, but do i have a reason to be upset about it? He goes 2-3 times a week, and always comes home way trashed. I just get nervous, and we fight about it EVERY time, is that wrong? or what should i do? thank you so much for your answers!! : )

2006-12-14 17:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by shelb 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean how long would any girl like to talk with her first date...1 hr 2 hr or 3hrs and wat would you like to do on your first date.....eg just go out to a dining place......do some fun activity then go and dine out or wat

2006-12-14 17:14:32 · 6 answers · asked by J D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 17:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by JASON E 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf is 16 and im 13 what the hell is wrong with that ?
evrybody says hes told old for me and i even tried to get my friends to back me up but they said hes to old for me too.
i dont see what the problem is he only tries to hug and kiss me and if he tries to get ferther i push him away. its hard being around him be cuz we like across the street from each other and my uncle and cousin who are both over 10 yrs older than him keep scarin my bf.
and if my dad knew he would make sure my uncle & cousin wouldnt let him come near me . nobody really knows that were together just a bunch of guessing.
but is 3 years really that much of a difference ?

2006-12-14 17:13:01 · 23 answers · asked by jackie 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this one girl who i really like. weve been good friends for awhile now, and i really want to ask her out, but i dont know how or when to do it. also please tell me sum solid signs that a girl likes you. thanks

2006-12-14 17:12:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating