Ok my last girlfriend wasnt a virgin. And now this girl im seeing now is one "can you believe it i thought they didnt exist any more" but any ways shes a virgin and im kind of scared of how to handle the situation. i mean she said shes ready but this is new for me. what should i do? is it like doing it on your period?
2006-12-14 17:20:41 · 10 answers · asked by Adrian N. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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why is it that that's the first thing you worry about?
don't force it
don't plan it (carry a condom just in case though, lol)
just let your relationship flow to that
when you are both comfortable, when no one has doubts then you can go right on and show your girl the way to heaven, *tee-hee*
just be very gentle and pay careful attention to how she's reacting. make sure that you make this time a very special one for her. make her feel that you care for her and that you are really making love and not just putting the wanker in the hole...
be supportive of her... :D
hope that helps
oh! and a lot of foreplay too... a lot! kiss her down there, that'll be great...
2006-12-14 17:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by sedatedeyes209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all since she is a virgin you need to sit down with her and make sure she is really ready and (i'm not trying to say anything...but) you need to remind her that you guys may not last and ask if shes sure she doesn't want to wait till shes married now if she is still willing then you just need to take slow and easy and make sure shes comfortable (and if she says stop give her a few seconds) and then after a while shell be ready to go she be sure to be gentle
i hope you guys have fun and are safe and if you have found the one you keep her
2006-12-15 01:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Adrian, With a virgin you need to go slow,and gentle with her.You will need alot of petroleum jelly,she will be very tight,and it will hurt her,and you because of the tightness.If she say, stop she means stop. Then try to relax her with a nice back rub,and then go down on her,so she will be ready the second time around. Remember be very gentle,she will love you for that.
Clowmy
2006-12-15 01:32:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go REALLY slow at first, and just be gentle. she might be a little uncomfortable, but make sure she's okay. Plus, make sure she's ready. For some girls its kind of a big deal, so I'd do something cute for her afterwards, like make her dinner, or get her flowers a couple days later. have fun!
2006-12-15 01:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by shelb 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude that's a hard choice but you're going to have to control your urges to go wild on her...go easy and if she says stop YOU STOP!!!
But I mean if she says she's ready then hey it is her choice, just don't treat her like a ragedy doll...
2006-12-15 01:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by orejitas285 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st-slow and gentle
2nd just easy
3rd a bit faster
4th go for it.
2006-12-15 01:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mind the screaming, if she says it hurts, it's a lie
2006-12-15 01:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marry her first, then be gentle. If you don't want to marry her, then don't have sex with her.
2006-12-15 01:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A virgin... WHATEVER!
2006-12-15 01:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Spike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not until it pops.
2006-12-15 01:23:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋