It is really difficult to understand what you have said. But from what I gather, you both had a fight over he flirting with someone and then said that he would not flirt with anyone since he already has you as his girlfriend. Well, that is not exactly love, but that is a good gesture. I would suggest that you have more trust and faith in your bf and your relationship and not force him to look only at you. That would show that you are insecure inspite of having him as ur bf and that could prove to be harmful for your relationship
2006-12-14 17:25:31
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answered by l_kur 5
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Wow ! He cried?Tell him you want a man NOT a boy. I mean common! I think he worried way too much for the situation! If Hes that worried about Flirting then imagine other things! Any way I Think if you can mve on you should. Although Before you do tell him how you feel.
2016-05-24 18:31:10
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answered by Anonymous
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so if i understand what you're saying, you asked your boyfriend if it's okay for you to flirt with other guys and he said it didn't matter if you did because it's your life, you enjoy it, he doesn't mind... and you got angry with him because you think that if he's confident enough in his relationship with you that he'd allow you to flirt with other men, he doesn't love you.
first of all, it's not like he said that it's okay for you to go and have sex with a bunch of other men. but let's stop there. what if he did say it was okay for you to have an open relationship where the both of you could have sex with whomever you please. people that do have open relationships do love each other... to them, the sex is just sex. there is no emotional involvement with these other people. you might not agree with that and that's okay because you're not in an open relationship.
now let's go back to just flirting. again. it's just flirting. you're not arranging to go have some midnight rendezvous with some strange guy and same with him, if he flirts, it's not like he's cheating on you. it's harmless. it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. we are human beings and we thrive on attention and love... if another person finds you attractive and pays you some attention, what is the harm in that? enjoy it and go home to your boyfriend. there's an old saying... it doesn't matter where you get your appetite just as long as you eat at home.
good luck!
2006-12-14 17:26:27
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answered by ? 5
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You need to discover if he loves you indeed, or not. Also remember, that in Love's matter,we can not play with our feelings; or with the feelings of the other person.(man or woman in the couple).
2006-12-14 17:23:04
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answered by cobrasnake 6
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well this is a site to ask question and not to make story and say it to hole world i cant see a question in what you have written well i think that you don't trust your b/f neither he trust you you shooed be a bad husband & wife
2006-12-14 17:26:27
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answered by richi_richer2007007007 2
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lol fristly yuor egnlsih vrey hiorblre..
thrust here and there lol he dun love u coz u too dumbo la...
2006-12-14 17:31:25
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answered by a1jacky1990 2
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if hes not a little jealous something is wrong,or maybe he thinks your trying to make him jealous
2006-12-18 10:25:48
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answered by Effie M 2
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i cant understand wat u wrote
2006-12-14 17:18:22
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answered by Anonymous
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