Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

ppl out there.. i need some encouragement to make firm decision. I am breaking up with my boyfren later in the evening..We are together for four months and he have not been trusting me, he will scold me when i go out with my gal frends. He only wans me to be with my family n him. I am very stress out becoz he is very ego man and always suspect me doing this n that.. when we quarrel, i kept quiet and stood back.. and yet he said that i gave him attitude...i wan to put a stop now and continue to lead the way i wan. Help me.. boost me with courage and confidents!

2006-12-14 18:14:19 · 17 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

what do i do? i've already confronted her about it.

2006-12-14 18:12:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well my classmate call me a cool nerd.. sometimes they call me sexynerd wtf??? im confused i dont think im a nerd i just get high marks.. besides im a bartender every weekend.. yeah ladies flirt with me telling me how cute/hot/sexy i am. but when it comes to school wth??

2006-12-14 18:11:31 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by kidd 08 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have known some great man who are royal and gentleman who would never say or do anything harsh. And I have known a lots of man as friends who are good man. But when it comes to relationship I only have seen arseholes! So I been trying to find my bad patterns and I think this is a good idea if all the ladies does too. Here is a web check this and let me know what do u think

http://www.hiddenhurt.co.uk/Abuser/signs.htm

2006-12-14 18:09:03 · 3 answers · asked by CHICK 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:08:24 · 26 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really love my boyfriend of three years he moved to Texas about a year ago and i have some issues i had surgery and have to have two more my best friend isn't there for me and i feel alone the thing is there's this guy that really likes me and he's just like my boyfriend he wants to be with me but i love my boyfriend but i also need somebody with me right now while i'm going through my probalms

2006-12-14 18:08:17 · 1 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Singles & Dating

there's a guy ive been sorta dating, he told me a couple mths ago he liked me but im shy so i didnt really say anything back, but i did make out with him, so actions speak louder than words right. Anyway he never really calls when he says he will, i dont see him a lot, and i dont know if hes just playin me or what. Should i tell him how i feel or if he is playin me would this just give him the upper hand to mess me around more? i wish i could get him out of my head

2006-12-14 18:08:17 · 8 answers · asked by ella 1 in Singles & Dating

At first when we have sex she beats me up because it turns her on. As the years went by she starting to get more violent. She started to punch me in the face and kick me in the nuts to the point I would throw up. In bed she would tied my arms and legs up and whip my diick until I bled then she would rub my pennis head really hard after I cumm and cause me pain. It has now gone to the point of threatening to kill me with a knife. Did I bring this upon myself to her do these things to me before ?

How can I tell her shes wrong and shes hurting me ?

2006-12-14 18:08:16 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am asking this because in future I might marry another person, so will this friendship cause any problems for me?

2006-12-14 18:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by sapfanatic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We had our holiday party a few nights ago where my date was an ex-football player. He's 6'5, tattoo's everywhere...looks like your typical guy you wouldnt want to take to your family dinners, but he is the biggest sweetheart teddy bear ever! People at my work make judgements saying "oh he is playing her" or "he looks like trouble!" These people don't know him, and I know him...Now everyone is giving me trouble. Do I now walk around work with a sign on my back that says, "MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. I'M A GROWN WOMAN AND I MAKE MY OWN CHOICES!" ? How do I get these people to just leave me the hell alone?

2006-12-14 18:08:07 · 7 answers · asked by LiL JoJo Sneakers 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:07:44 · 14 answers · asked by marincaligirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I see this girl everyday at school and she's the absolutly the most beautiful girl i've ever seen (im a girl by the way and im not gay and i don't mean this is a gay way) she's a natural blonde and has blue eyes and never wears anymakeup because she doesn't even need any. And she doesn't look sleezy, she looks elequent, also she's like 5'7 and a size 2 she always eat whatever she want's and never gains weight. well here let me get to the point, one day my bf of 9 months said he thought she was the most pretty girl at my school......................except for me, but i felt really hurt, and ugly, i probably overreacted but me and him got in a little fight but it's over now but still i think about it everytime a i see her and i hate her for it, and for the facts that when im not with my boyfirend she always talks to him, so am i too jealous and what should i do, i know i have a problem, help.

2006-12-14 18:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really liked the girl, I asked her to hangout she said yeah, then says she has a bf........how the f*ck do I cope with this and get over it?

2006-12-14 18:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by DannyC 2 in Singles & Dating

if your boyfriend talks to his ex girlfriend that went out for a year and some months..and his ex is tryin to get back at him and saying stuff like "your not goin to pick me over her" but she hurt him..what do you do? should you get mad? or what?

2006-12-14 18:02:13 · 11 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

Especially guys when it comes to women. If they don't love me for me then the hell with them.

2006-12-14 18:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:00:57 · 21 answers · asked by Kalpana Z 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Weddings

Call crazy one moment and act interested and then stop calling and act hard to get the next??? This is so tiresome and I would really appreciate an honest answer. Is he in love, stupid, or involved?

2006-12-14 18:00:27 · 8 answers · asked by precious girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive known this girl for a while now and we are pretty much good friends. Shes not drop dead gorgeous but shes decent looking. She has a great personality and that what attracts me to her. But im afraid to persue her because of what people would say. Its like something is holding me back. Can I love a girl for her personality more than looks?

2006-12-14 17:59:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He and I are loved by all and many want to see us go thru and be happy and many others feel it;s weird, wrond, immoral, etc.... btw... we are both over 30

2006-12-14 17:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Appolnia_76 2 in Singles & Dating

My husbands company organizes a Christmas Party.It is party for about 300 hundred people( it is a big company).My husband told me that he is not allowed to bring anybody with him.This is a party just for the people from the company who my husband works for.Cheap company.I feel a little bit weird.Do you think it is ok?My husband went to this party yesterday.Should I be mad at him?
I didnt like the fact that my husband didnt even asked me about how I feel about it and he just went there and I stayed home. He came home at 2 am.

2006-12-14 17:58:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I seem to attract guys that cheat. Every guy I've dated in the last few years has ended up cheating on me.

I am a little lost, and maybe I'm doing something wrong. My friends( and especially my best friend - a guy) tell me that I'm and easy going funny, outgoing kinda chick. And I like to think I am too. I have never been a whiner or anything. I don't mind my guy going to the pub most nights or hangin with his mates etc I don't even mind him flirting ( you can look but you can't touch) I myself like to hang at the pub and play pool etc. I still cook and clean and work and all the "wifey" stuff. And I like sex just as much as any guy out there. And yet despite all the freedom they have they find the need to cheat. What am i doing wrong?? Am I giving them too much freedom to run with??

2006-12-14 17:55:56 · 11 answers · asked by loza500 3 in Singles & Dating

This is going to be tough. My marraige is with 1 kid and over 6 years. We went through rough times prior to getting married. I was soft and pitiful and didn't dare to speak up and try to resolve or end my relationship then. Over the years, things became worse. Other paty is not a bad person, just too different worlds. Now, i've no longer any feelings for her. Recently fell for another whom i've know for 2 years or more. No hanky panky, but we are so in tune and if i'm not married, that would be it. Never been so sure. We both were not looking, but discovered each other. This probably is cheating, but i felt that i need to get it over with and release one of them so that its not unfair to them. (It probably already is) If i stay, its because of pity. I don't wan tto make the same mistake. Is there happiness after remarrying and is it worth the cost?Of course,we love our kid very dearly and if a seperation is to proceed, we will work together for the kids good. your thoughts pl

2006-12-14 17:55:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

P.S. I'm 20, so I'm old enough to be sexy or glamorous.

2006-12-14 17:54:50 · 12 answers · asked by Swedish Meatball 87 1 in Singles & Dating

I make people laugh and most people feel uncomfortable around me. Sadly, this means I don't pull off the strong, silent type very well. Can I still be attractive?

2006-12-14 17:53:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I liked and work with called me while he was jerking off. I wasn't really sure what to do because he has a girlfriend so I tried to just be cool about it. He later told me it didn't mean anything and that there would never be anything between us. I am good friend's with a friend (lets call her jane) of his and his girlfriend's though and now he feels weird to be around me and her. I feel this is his fault and refuse to quit being friends with Jane. He makes comments to Jane about why is she still my friend and things of this nature and tells her he does not want me to come when they go out or she has a get together (she wants me to). I am angry about this and have told him so. He thinks I am being unreasonable and says he is not trying to make her choose. I say he is. Who is right? Jane also works with us so she is trying to stay polite to him. She also wants to stay friends with me and his girlfriend.

2006-12-14 17:52:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't belive it anymore down in my heart i don't? So? Where from here?

2006-12-14 17:51:43 · 8 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Singles & Dating

i don't belive it anymore down in my heart i don't? So? Where from here?

2006-12-14 17:51:15 · 5 answers · asked by sammy 6 in Singles & Dating

my firend i cosider my lil sister till a couple weeks ago when i woke up and realized that she was hot. and when that hapend i started acting like a total dumbass being really really clumsy around her and always blushing.
but thats really wierd for me cuz i never do that around other women and i dont try to impress people because i always say that the can accept me or go away.
its hard for me to tell if she evr treid to flirt with me cuz im used to more here i come tacks from women.
and shes really quite. that phase passed and now its back except that this time were both blushing and being clumsy. but its really ackward cuz i already have a gf for some reason my gf has been walking in suprised to see me with my friend so much ( one time my friend was laying right on top of me cuz i acidently tripped and she came down with me the prof that it was only an accident was the huge knot on my head ! )
so what the hell is going on ?

2006-12-14 17:50:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating