I see this girl everyday at school and she's the absolutly the most beautiful girl i've ever seen (im a girl by the way and im not gay and i don't mean this is a gay way) she's a natural blonde and has blue eyes and never wears anymakeup because she doesn't even need any. And she doesn't look sleezy, she looks elequent, also she's like 5'7 and a size 2 she always eat whatever she want's and never gains weight. well here let me get to the point, one day my bf of 9 months said he thought she was the most pretty girl at my school......................except for me, but i felt really hurt, and ugly, i probably overreacted but me and him got in a little fight but it's over now but still i think about it everytime a i see her and i hate her for it, and for the facts that when im not with my boyfirend she always talks to him, so am i too jealous and what should i do, i know i have a problem, help.
2006-12-14 18:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it is uncomfortable for someone to listen to his/her partner rave on about someone else being so handsome, or so beautiful. A simple and innocent comment is fine, but it sounds like the statement your bf made was more than just an innocent comment.
Its good you and him began to talk about it, yet I'm sorry that it resulted in an arguement. Go to him and talk to him again. You can ask him two things: 1. How would he feel if you made a similar comment about another guy. Be prepared, cuz he may say, that it wouldn't bother him. Then tell him that it did kind of bother you. 2. Next, ask him if he is interested in her...like romantically interested in her. I know this may be a frightening question to ask, but it is the question you really want answered.
Don't hate the girl for looking beautiful. This is entirely between you and your bf. If the other girl knows she is talking to someone else's bf, then she has her own issues with etiquette. She just needs to be mindful of how she may, or may not be leading him on.
good luck
2006-12-14 18:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lipstick? not a chance Blush? confident. even with the actual shown truth that maximum 9 365 days olds that i have considered have a quite organic blush. Eyeshadow? Is that even secure Mascara? who's putting it on for her? Eyeliner? back who's putting it on her? i encounter it troublesome to imagine a 9 365 days previous understanding a thanks to prepare those issues perfect. yet when her mom and father are happy with it then this is cool. i in my opinion does not enable my daughter positioned on all that because a 9 365 days previous doesn't favor any of it. Now lip gloss and some different stuff confident perhaps once later on. yet all that different stuff its not mandatory and couldn't it probably smash her dermis. So IDK. some determine does not enable there 9 365 days previous dye her hair or get her ears pierced yet i ought to. So its a own decision to be made with techniques from her mom and father. And in the journey that they are happy with it then this is gorgeous.
2016-11-30 19:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by gagliano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's completely normal and understandable that you feel jealous.
There's really not much you can do except fpr trying to look super cute for your guy and trying to be the best that you can be so that he knows how lucky he is...
Use those feminine weapons!
2006-12-14 18:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not have said that to you, that's something would say around the guys not his woman then again if he's all in her face now that's what he wanted you may have to find another man. love hurts and some times we have to let go have you heard every thing that's good to us isn't good for us. things happen for a reason. good luck.
2006-12-14 18:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're very insecure. That's the worse a boyfriend or whatever can do is say right to your face that so and so is so pretty. It would bother me, also. But that's a man for you. Do the same to him and see how HE likes it. I mean it; try it!
2006-12-14 18:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy can't help his attractions. I've been in relationships and liked other guys. But I wasn't stupid enough to say anything about it. But guys...they like to be open. And you should feel happy that he trusted you enough to share this with you. You probably offended him when you got upset. I think he thought you would understand.
2006-12-14 18:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Some Girl from College 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it effect you that much,The most likely scenario would be that she will cheat on him,(for what you said she looks like,it is probable that she will cheat on him)
what goes around comes around
2006-12-14 18:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by chaosphere187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Nancy D
2006-12-14 18:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lil 'sita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. she is obviously gorgeous u both think so. don't punish him for agreeing.
2006-12-14 18:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Aiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋