should i tell him how i feel?

Question

there's a guy ive been sorta dating, he told me a couple mths ago he liked me but im shy so i didnt really say anything back, but i did make out with him, so actions speak louder than words right. Anyway he never really calls when he says he will, i dont see him a lot, and i dont know if hes just playin me or what. Should i tell him how i feel or if he is playin me would this just give him the upper hand to mess me around more? i wish i could get him out of my head

Answer 1

If this guy doesnt talk to you...he probably doesnt want to hear what you have to say either. A guy who cares about you will try to express himself and communicate with you.

Answer 2

i wouldn't tell him anything. u said yourself - actions speak louder than words. so according to his actions he is not into u, if u tell him how u feel it will bosst his self esteem, nothing else. he will think he is a king and u re his servant. do u want that? if i were u i would just start ignoring him, if he promised to call and called i wouldn't pick up the phone, wouldn't answer his sms. if u meet somewhere and he asks what's going on u say u have been extremely busy, and proceed further. if u mean anything to him he will try to talk to u, to meet u, to figure out what's going on. if u mean nothing he will just proceed with his life without bothering his head why did u change his behavior. so thus u will figure out what's going on in his head and won't lose your dignity and self esteem. good luck. next time when u have a new bf if he promises to call and doesn't call as he promised u start my lesson with him right away. teach those bastards immediate lesson. they all re like pavlov's dogs and should be taught like ones. this always was working for me.

Answer 3

i think He's just not that in to you. You can tell him what you feel, then see what his reaction would be. but be on the look out and gurad yourself though, coz thereafter you'll know what he really wants. Then if he was just playin w/ you, tell him you were too!!

Answer 4

they're probably testing the waters to see if you'd be willing to give it another go. Honestly ask yourself if you think things would be appreciably different; if the answer's no, retreat before any damage is done.

Answer 5

I am going though the exact same thing. Just tell him, that's what I plan to do, you can do it through actions words, letters, whatever you feel works. I know it's hard.

Answer 6

YES tell him how you feel. I know how you feel , Then if you find how he feels about you , you can then decide to move on or have a relationship with him.

Answer 7

maybe he is just playing around with you,, just ask him in a nice way,, but dont confess cuz u might be hurt in the end

Answer 8

I think you should tell him because if he didnt really cares about you he wouldnt do that