ppl out there.. i need some encouragement to make firm decision. I am breaking up with my boyfren later in the evening..We are together for four months and he have not been trusting me, he will scold me when i go out with my gal frends. He only wans me to be with my family n him. I am very stress out becoz he is very ego man and always suspect me doing this n that.. when we quarrel, i kept quiet and stood back.. and yet he said that i gave him attitude...i wan to put a stop now and continue to lead the way i wan. Help me.. boost me with courage and confidents!
2006-12-14 18:14:19 · 17 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make up your mind to do what will make you happy.
2006-12-14 18:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-14 18:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never let a man control you. Sounds like he has some control issues. Get out now while the relationship is young. Dont get stuck in something thats not right for you and end up wasting time.
2006-12-14 18:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it seems to me like you already have the courage that you need to do this!
It's hard to move on, and it might suck for a while, but in the end it will be the best thing to do and you'll be asking yourself, " why did i wait so long?".
2006-12-14 18:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by aloe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, her father and mother are over zealous and exaggerated. Secondly, do what a person will have to do, confront the predicament, inform the reality and move get your spouse. This isn't out of disrespect to them however this falls again at the either one of you. The 2 of you will have informed the reality and had no longer with held it. If your spouse loves you and you're married , then, you ought to inform her father and mother that certainly that you're married. They may not die, they are going to simply resent the either one of you. Eventually, they are going to recover from it. God does no longer create us as slaves to our father and mother. Our dwelling fate isn't determined upon our father and mother , however by means of God and us. You ought to get your spouse..
2016-09-03 13:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the "boy" part is correct. There are plenty of men out there, too. Men who will treat you as a person, not a possession. Enjoy the hunt.
2006-12-14 18:22:31 · answer #6 · answered by PanamaJack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
four months get rid of him if he is like that after four months then just imagine what he is going to be like later...i think you will be ok...no i know you will be just make your decission and stick with it none of this letting him say baby i promise it will be different it might be for a while but it will go back i would move on now and your only out four months rather then four years
2006-12-14 18:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by Travis S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no need to be worried now if you already decided to break up with him ,just try to forget about him and dont let this relation changes your point of view about other people ..try to make new friends and start new relations and be yourself .You dont need someone to act like your husband when you are just young and ready to have fun ..go on with your life and enjoy every minute of it in the way you like without thinking about your last possessive boyfriend..
2006-12-14 18:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember to wear pointy shoes when you see him next (preferably steel capped boots), when he goes to blabber on about crap and tries to take control, kick him in the groin as hard as you possibly can, calmly say 'its over' to him and walk off.
Sounds like an insecure guy, this stuff you talk about can lead to domestic abuse. Dump him quick and make sure it hurts
2006-12-14 18:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on there are plenty of men out there.
Forget about what happend and go party have fun.A wise man person told me once "yesterday don't mean ****"
2006-12-14 18:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by chaosphere187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is get out of the relationship NOW! If he's controlling and possessive now, he'll get worse later on. Don't EVER feel you can change somebody. You don't want to be worried everyday and stressed out whether you're not doing the right thing to please him. You'll lose your identity.
2006-12-14 18:18:43 · answer #11 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋