Ive known this girl for a while now and we are pretty much good friends. Shes not drop dead gorgeous but shes decent looking. She has a great personality and that what attracts me to her. But im afraid to persue her because of what people would say. Its like something is holding me back. Can I love a girl for her personality more than looks?
2006-12-14 17:59:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course, looks will never last.
I like girls because of their personality more than their face or body.
2006-12-14 18:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by electricgold2002 5 · 15⤊ 0⤋
Definately.
Just think for a while, if you look at the beauty or the outlook of a person more, dont you think that in time the flawless skin complexion will give way to wrinkles and other things?
What matters most is what the person is inside and thats where her personality that counts the most. Over time, a persons personality will mature like wine and the longer it grows on you, the more you will cherish it and love it.
My dear friend, beauty from the outside lasts till 30/40 (sorry ladies, but its an rough guess) but the inner beauty of a lady will mature like fine wine over time.
2006-12-15 02:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by toshio_khoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer the relationship goes the more important personality becomes.
The love of my life was the least attractive girl I ever dated. But she had a very remarkable charisma. Yes male friends gave me a bit of a hard time about her looks. You have to be prepared for that and shut them down. And never let that get back to her.
Ok, here is the biggest problem with unattractive women that you fall in love with. You will think that you dating her in spite of her looks means your relationship is on a deeper level and when she cheats on you because she has low self esteem and has to self destruct the relationship it hurts worse than if she was beautiful. When you are all broken hearted over an ugly girl you will feel like the biggest jerk ever.
2006-12-15 02:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality over looks is a plus to every woman in the world, reassure her that once your an item and she'll love you even more. Looks isn't all that matters, it shouldn't even be up there on the chart but looking decent or being good looking is a plus. But if you like her for who she is and what she does, then you shouldn't care about what other people think because its all in you and her, not anybody else, so why care what other people think go for it, its about what you want and what you vie for, not anybody else. The only reason why anybody would say anything negative is cause their jealous that they cant love anybody for their personality, and because you have that, thats a big upside and that makes you a good canidate for alot of girls out there in the world. But why would anybody say anything negative, trust in yourself and trust that if you did have good friends, nothing negative would come from them and a relationship with this girl wouldn't be a problem. Love her for who she is, not what she is. Go for it, and good luck :]
2006-12-15 02:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Reimill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares what people think, they are just jealous that they can't find someone as attractive inside and out as you can. Looks aren't everything, I mean they help, but not everyone is drop dead gorgeous. YES u can love someone for there "inner beauty"
Grow up men and realize everyone is not a model and you could be missing out on some really cool people to get to know. Looks are important but they fade overtime, and if your inside is beautiful you will be that way forever usually.
I don't give a F*ck what people say, Who are they to judge anyone.
2006-12-15 03:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by QueenFan0946 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. You said yourself you're attracted to her.
A bad personality can make a gorgeous girl hideous, so why can't a great one make a plain jane a beauty queen?
Don't worry about what other people may think, that is just shallow and cruel. If she knew you weren't pursuing the relationship for that reason, don't you think she'd be hurt?
Go for it, what do you have to lose? Except maybe the few jerk friends you might have that judge you, right?
2006-12-15 02:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If looks were the only reason why girls get married 75% would be single but personality is what matters most but that is for decent guys or genuine guy. If i were you which I'm not i would go for a decent girl with good personality don't mind what people will say or think its you life and if you mess no one will suffer with you. Make you own decision and don't mind people either way they will talk. If you get involved with a good looking girl who has bad personality they will still talk of how your girlfriend is mannerless and with bad behaviors. You see either way they will talk do what is good for you and not them.
2006-12-15 02:06:58 · answer #7 · answered by auntsid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah!! are you stupid, it sounds like you are already passing up on a great opportunity because you are being shallow, did you ever think that the people that hold so much sway with your opinion might not even be your friend in a year or so. yeah buddy there's more in there than just looks, but also in another perspective if something is holding you back you might not feel 100% about her
talk to her see how she feels
2006-12-15 02:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jonnygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be able to. Even if you were with someone who is "drop dead gorgeous", eventually their good looks would fade and then what good is that gal for?
At least her personality is great, something that she will always have going for her. Who cares what your friends think?
2006-12-15 02:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Justchillinhere98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who care what other people think. If you really like this girl then go for it. Remember, it is always whats on the inside that counts. Everyone's looks fade in time, and all you are left with is personality.
2006-12-15 02:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by loza500 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please let me enlighten you its not the looks that captures a man heart it how interesting this person is when you are with her,never go by looks because looks can be deceiving.thats what wrong with the world today they go by looks and when there relationship fail they wonder why?dont get worry there nothing wrong with wanting to look good for your mate but be balance in doing so good luck i know you dont really care what people say.
2006-12-15 02:04:46 · answer #11 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋