Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

At what age is a guy really mature to have a serious relationship? Anyone?? I really do think it's base upon the person itself. Girls or boys are more shy? Why? Why do boys play fight with girls? Anyone can chat with me about it? Have lots of question to ask..

2006-12-14 18:42:19 · 15 answers · asked by LotsaQs 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:41:58 · 9 answers · asked by desidude_chicago 1 in Singles & Dating

I truly do like this bankteller at the bank that I go to, the past few days I have tried to talk to her and the next teller is ear shot away and she could hear or listen to what I would say to the bankteller. What should i do about that? Can ya give me advice on what I should say ito her ? How can i find out if she is single or has a bf? thanks i really appreciate ur help bc I really do like her. Thanks again

2006-12-14 18:40:43 · 8 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

You see, i have a girlfriend who has problems with hr mom.. my gf feels that her mom doesn't love her.. she cites to me some instances where she feels that way. For example.. her mom always questions her if she if using drugs or drink or have sex and a lot of bad things. Well, my gf has beend with her mother just 3 years ago.. her mom isn't around during her elementary years.. Can you give me some things i can say to her to make her know wat to do or just make her feel better...

i hope u understand.. ty very much.. pls reply asap

2006-12-14 18:40:39 · 10 answers · asked by Nothin 2 in Family

My brother go married earlier this year and then went off to boot camp. she being pregnant and a new member of the family was invited to live in our house while he is away. it was just my parents and i cause my other siblings have since left. we are in are early twentys and cant seem to get along all the time. is this a sibling rivalry or something else any help is appreciated.

2006-12-14 18:40:37 · 6 answers · asked by ThePena 1 in Family

Anyone out there ever heard of or know anything about the whereabouts of Sheri Krites or her sister Teri Krites. I knew them from San Diego (Linda Vista) CA? Sheri was my girlfriend while I was in the service.

2006-12-14 18:38:24 · 2 answers · asked by bama_cid 3 in Friends

I've heard and read stories about they can't find him,they're exhausted from pursuing him,they don't want to"deal" with him.Your thoughts on this.For the record,I know of no one in this situation.

2006-12-14 18:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

cheaters

2006-12-14 18:37:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 24 m frm kerala, right nw im in mumbai. im single. so how can i find a good girlfriend in mumbai?

2006-12-14 18:37:27 · 5 answers · asked by manik 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think I'm not interested?

I'm shy about calling people when I don't know them well, though I don't mind speaking in person at all. It's hard to explain why this is the case. But I wonder if you would think I'm just not interested if I only email at first. (I asked a similar question earlier, but I don't think I communicated my real point very well.)

Thanks for your thoughts and advice.

2006-12-14 18:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:36:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'a muslim girl and I met a man a few months ago. We fall in love and plan to get married. But my mother says NO to our marrage, since he is a non-muslim. What can I DO? I need your suggestion very much. Check me out on my personal page:

http://islamangel.googlepages.com/romance.htm

2006-12-14 18:32:33 · 18 answers · asked by muslim angel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think if a married couple do not agree to have relationships outside of their marriage it is ok under any circumstances for a man to have a relationship with another woman? In your opinion does it make you a bad person if you are in a relationship with a married person, or you are in a relationship with another person outside of your marriage?

2006-12-14 18:31:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have slept with all but one of my wifes friends. Is it my fault that they are all so hot?

2006-12-14 18:30:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday I watched a movie by Van Damme where his brother's wife told her daughter that he is her uncle...

I am african and according to our tradiction, I am an uncle to my syster's kid (s) and not my brother's... so to my brother's I am still a father to them (kids).

What's your suggestion on it?

Tchao!

2006-12-14 18:30:24 · 17 answers · asked by Invasion 3 in Family

There's this guy I'm really into and we've become really good friends in the past little while. We spend almost all our free time together and have so much fun when we hang out. We do all sorts of things from going to movies, dinner, walking to seawall, shopping etc. When we're together things are amazing. I feel sparks immensely. We just recently went to our company Christmas Party together and one of the store managers asked him if he had a gf and he looked at her kinda funny. When she explained that another girl at the party had a thing for him he explained that he was with me. This manager then said "oh so you're single then." and he replied back telling her no he wasn't single. He then spent the whole night dancing with me and even when that girl asked him to dance he declined and continued to spend his whole evening with me. I've recently gotten out of a bad 5 year long relationship and this guy is aware of this. He has also said he knows someone needs longer than two weeks to get that 5 year relationship out of their system (as it's been two weeks since we've officially split). I just finished booking a trip for this guy and I to go to Whistler together for my 22nd birthday where we will spend three days by ourselves up on the mountain enjoying the sights. Although this guys is aware that I'm attracted to him and from what it seems he's attracted to me (as he tells me i'm cute, beautiful etc) he has yet to ask me out or anything. We've never hugged, kissed etc...although we did hold hands for a brief period at our Christmas party. Now the rumors are flying at my work that we're dating etc and he isn't denying them but he's also not confirming them. He also will talk senarios with me saying things like "if we were dating" or "if we were to go out". What I'm wondering is does this sound like something will happen in the future or am I just being a wishful thinker?

2006-12-14 18:30:16 · 13 answers · asked by twisted_cherry85 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I like, I've known her for a long time and just recently fell for her but the thing is she likes someone else and it seems she's trying to get me jealous by telling me about him...

but we have the "friend" relationship...should I tell her I have feelings for her or keep it to myself?

I feel this pressure in my chest when she talks about him, is it jealousy or just heart break???

2006-12-14 18:26:55 · 20 answers · asked by orejitas285 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:26:43 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer P 1 in Weddings

I hear people talk about marriage like its nothing. "Oh you love each other? You should get married!" Its as if they think that money and life choices have no basis if love is involved. Compare the verbage in home loan paperwork and a marriage license and you will be surprised at the similar wording. Marriage, at its legally binding core, is a business transaction.

So why is it that family and friends tend to urge caution in a situation like finding a home loan, but can start asking a couple about wedding bells after a period as short as 6 months together? (Especially when you consider that a loan is 10 years and marriage is supposed to be until death do you part)

2006-12-14 18:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Takfam 6 in Marriage & Divorce

do you think if you cut contact with your ex that if they have feelings for you they will realise this? without contact or if u have contact they will still feel the same?

2006-12-14 18:24:52 · 17 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:23:59 · 7 answers · asked by brittineyc 1 in Friends

..have you ever had the fantasy of....?
...a gangbang?

I cannot get this out of my mind and feel as thugh I am not complete until I have experienced this in my life...

Any experiences please put forward, how was it ? how did it feel being filled up ?

2006-12-14 18:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by sandra curious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked in my previous question why people commit suicide and why not take the other countries issues as example. They might have psychologic problems and other stuff that makes them crushed and cannot face it anymore. I compare it to myself then realized I souldn't kill myself because my case cannot be that worse. Some get help from others to solve their problems. I use situations to console myself from feelings, psychologic problems to physical ones hurts. I do not suffer anymore. I feel stronger.

Am i wrong to feel like this? Is it bad? Like think god my country is not in war like that country. Someone told me that it is not worth it to take as consolation beause they are considered as stupid. Like a girl who is sold as a prostitute is stupid, or any other who don't have any home are silly cuz they don't ask for a better government. ...I just can't understand

2006-12-14 18:21:19 · 3 answers · asked by LadyXSakura 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

that two people who have been so many times can find real true love with the opposite sex? Being there was so much hurt and the lose of trust?

Has this ever happened to you? Did your love within stood the past with this new person? Was it a struggle with the trust and making sure of not hurting the other person?

Serious answers please.

2006-12-14 18:21:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Than another girl who has a good father figure? Also more likely to be raped, use drugs, and sleep with alot of men, along with other bad things.

2006-12-14 18:19:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well.. i had i bf, we've been together 4 1year, its a secret relationship. wen my parents found out that i had a bf. dey asked me to brke up wit him. well i told my bf bout it, we decided to keep our relationship. then i told my mom that i already broke up wit him, even though were not..i love my bf so much, i cant live without him,. i kept on disobeying my parents.. coz of my love one.. huhu..
ahmm, am i a bad daughter?

2006-12-14 18:17:15 · 31 answers · asked by ladyabcdy 1 in Singles & Dating

every time i really like someone ,they always turn around and say ive going out with someone now,even though we were really close i can not make it past the friendship zone,i feel asthough im going to be alone forever,all the love songs that are on the radio and t.v ,i cant relate to ive never been in love with someone and theyve felt the same way back,especially with christmas coming up i really dont want to be alone anymore,what is it that im doing wrong?? sensible answers please because this is a really sensitive subject to me? thanks.

2006-12-14 18:17:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you have ever heard of that saying when you love someone set them free and if it was meant to be that they will come back to you and if they don't it never was meant ??????

Has anyone ever experienced this before......have come back to you and what was the ending?????

2006-12-14 18:16:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 18:16:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it really common for a girl to make the first move?

And if they do make a first move what should I be looking for?

2006-12-14 18:15:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating