my brothers wife lives with the family and gets on my nerves what should i do.?

Question

My brother go married earlier this year and then went off to boot camp. she being pregnant and a new member of the family was invited to live in our house while he is away. it was just my parents and i cause my other siblings have since left. we are in are early twentys and cant seem to get along all the time. is this a sibling rivalry or something else any help is appreciated.

Answer 1

I would try to stay the hell away from her as much as you can.

Answer 2

It is difficult to live with a new person in your home, especially without your brother's presence. It takes time to adjust to another person's being around your space.

It may take time before the love between you and your new sister-in-law will grow, or perhaps it won't, but you have to try to make it civil and liveable. On top of that, her being pregnant may have a toll on her temper, if she has one.

Try to take a breather... and stay away from topics or conversations that are highly volatile. and do not lose your cool over something trivial... Act cool-ly and respond only when necessary... be civil... *hugs* good luck.

Answer 3

She is now your relative and your brother is away. You must be patient with her and give some time for her to adjust to the new surrounding. Anyway you cant ask her to leave as she is now your responsibilty untill your brother returns. Till then try and patch things up and do your best.

Good Luck

Answer 4

Just try to get along until your brother gets home. Remember this is your parents house, and you need to settle down. Don't you have your own room? Close the door and she won't get on your nerves

Answer 5

yes its called a new person in the house, basically this lady which you are related to now, you have to get used to her and so does she to the family, your feeling each other out, meaning not physical but mental, dont worry it wil pass and hopefully you will become best friends

Answer 6

read a good book