am i a bad daughter?

Question

well.. i had i bf, we've been together 4 1year, its a secret relationship. wen my parents found out that i had a bf. dey asked me to brke up wit him. well i told my bf bout it, we decided to keep our relationship. then i told my mom that i already broke up wit him, even though were not..i love my bf so much, i cant live without him,. i kept on disobeying my parents.. coz of my love one.. huhu..
ahmm, am i a bad daughter?

Answer 1

Even you are above 16 and have the maturity to understand what a bf is..you are not a bad daughter, a lil naughty that's all....

Answer 2

No you're not a bad daughter hun. I think that you are a good one and a smart girl for hanging to your thoughts. Keep it up. But if I were you I would tell my parents that you're still with your b/f and let them know that you love him and that this is your life and you know what's best for yourself. Your parents are there to give you some hints but the final decision has to be made by you and not by the parents and I'm not talking about your parents only but every parent in the world.

Let me give an advise though, try to find what's the real reason why your parents don't want your bf. If they are suspecting something in him that it's not true, then it has to be you to find the way to remove that suspect.

Hope this helps hun and Good Luck girl.

Answer 3

I think you are a normal teenager (right?) Well maybe they had a specific reason for y ou to stop dating this guy. I don't know. Lying is never good though. There are some not so nice people out in the world and although 4 years says to me that you have pretty much figured out that he's not one of the bad guys, you need to come clean with it to your parents. Get it all out in the open. There could be some things you don't know that they do... and never told you because they thought you broke it off. Or maybe they'll just give in and say wow 4 years .... he must be alright then.

Either way.... come clean!

Answer 4

First of all, you need to learn to type on something besides a cell phone. You are using a keyboard and there are 26 very easily accessed letter keys that can spell almost any word in the English language.

As to whether or not you are a bad daughter: It depends on how often you pull stunts and lie to your parents like this. If this happens once every couple o years, then you are probably not a bad daughter. If this happens several times a year, you are dishonest and your parents might be glad to be rid of you.

Answer 5

you are not a bad daughter, but your mom just want to show you that she loves you and that is good! Maybe tell her not to do it in front of everybody if you don't like it...i gave my mom a kiss before bed until i was like 15!!! But still i think you are really lucky, your mom shows you that she loves you, do you know how many people that don't have that chance??? They get beat up instead or yelled at??? I understand how you feel, but just go smooth, don't tell her, gosh just leave me alone, i'm not your little girl anymore cause you will hurt her feelings!

Answer 6

you should be honest with your parents. tell them your feelings about him. them banning you from seeing him only makes you want to be with him even more. if they don't realize that, they are just fueling the fire.

you should worry more about messing up the relationship you have with your parents more than you are worrying about your boyfriend. your parents are going to always be by your side unconditionally, while your boyfriend...may not. The worst thing you can do is lie to them, they may never trust you again.

Please just be honest with them. What would you do if you were caught with him? Your parents would be so dissapointed. Although you might not think so, your parents are the best friends you'll ever have. You don't want to end up pregnant anything like that. Ask your mom why she doesn't want you to have a boyfriend. Maybe you are too young or at least you haven't proven that you are mature enough to be in an adult-like relationship

Trust their judgement and talk things over with them.

Answer 7

Well, I kind of did the same thing many years ago. Parents are only concerned for your welfare and you won't understand that til you have children of your own someday. I don't know your age but I wouldn't exactly say you're a bad daughter, either. Every kid goes through that one time or another. I know I really felt guilty "sneaking" around; til my mom found out and actually told me to start bringing him to the house.

Answer 8

Well, i'm just wondering if your parents have a good reason to not want you to have a boyfriend...
Is it 'cause you're too young?
Or maybe 'cause the guy is a bad influence on you somehow? You know, most parents usually want the best for you.
I don't think that you're being a bad daughter, but you might wanna talk to them about their reasons...

Answer 9

Your parents are concern for you. Your bf should visit them and show them the trust and confidence regarding the sincere relationship between you and your bf.

If your bf truly loves you, he must be try to win the hearts of your parents. Hiding or lying, will not solve the problem. It can destroy your future if your bf can't even handle this problem. If he is mature, he will be able to build rightful relationship between you and even your parents. He has to prove himself and win the confidence of the elders.

Answer 10

Well let me see, You are a lier and you are lieing to your mother and you father. You are sleeping with a boy your not married to that makes you out like to be a whore. And you are snecking all this behind your folks back and that makes you a deceptive. You are a sinner for sure as far as being a bad daughter. Are you honoring your parents by your conduct or dishonoring them and there hard work.