Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

Please read this and carefully give me your advice. My boyfriend and I are young parents but not that young. Anyway we live with my grandma who keeps getting into our business. Let me explain..if my boyfriend were to just leave my daughter and at home to play basketball for a couple of hours when he would come home she would get pissed at him whereas I'm not even mad at him because I let him go. He supports all three of us and I have nothing to complain about. He buys me $100.00 pair of shoes for gods sake. But to my grandma..she's not satisfied..shes not pleased! She wants me to separate with him n find someone else with money and it hurt's his feelings because he's trying his best to please her so she wouldn't have nothing to say. But its getting out of hand to the point that shes arguing with both of us. We want to move out and leave her but she's old and no one will take care of her. But we can't keep arguing all the time just to satisfy her needs. What would you do?

2006-12-14 20:29:02 · 9 answers · asked by Jenna06 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have ask him whats wrong if he doesn't want to be my friend to tell me and if i can make it up to him to tell me what he wants..but he still won't answer me..I made it a mess by telling him I could never love him and then I told him I fell for him. I cut him off my IM and Blog but he still added me back on and told me he could never be angry at me and he would miss me if I went to Italy for vacation. I now told him I am clear we are just friends and I want to send him and present and how what can I do to make it up to him but he won't answer me at all now and I feel awful because he was so nice it was me who made a mess so I feel some guilt. But he just refuses to answer my text messages but will wait for them I don't know why he is this way if he just wants to be friends with me and not my BF..and he said he could never get angry at me...so why is he acting like this way?

2006-12-14 20:28:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 20:26:35 · 13 answers · asked by miry_rus 1 in Singles & Dating

U believe that if u think?
that yrself is pretty .. u go to other countries and realised there are others more prettier???

it happens to me .. people say i'm pretty i used to think i;m pretty.. after travelling around suddenly i realised there are 100xxx time more prettier .. it really make me more humble .

what u think

2006-12-14 20:25:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bearing in mind I'm at work....

He did two things to really annoy me last night and both have actually changed my opinion of him despite being with him for 6 years and living together! When I tried to talk to him about it he ignored me like a child refusing to say anything other than F*ck off. I just feel so wound up, possibly because I didn't get any sleep either because I was so angry.

2006-12-14 20:24:57 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

2006-12-14 20:24:04 · 6 answers · asked by amet 2 in Singles & Dating

How am I supposed to get my loved ones presents when there is no money left after the bills are paid?

2006-12-14 20:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by freesiahigh7814 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean do you sometime feel angy,anxious suddenly for nothing!!

2006-12-14 20:22:17 · 11 answers · asked by Vanine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

" I'm thinking of getting a knitting Machine, should I ?" What one of us needs the personallity ?

2006-12-14 20:21:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm good friends of her family and I'm happily married. We don't really have anything in common. But for some reason I keep thinking of her, over and over for the last 5 years or more! It's driving me crazy.

2006-12-14 20:17:34 · 20 answers · asked by macroscope 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 20:13:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

~what is with parents wanting your room clean allot i mean its not the end of the world and they dont get to see it all day.. just dont go there.. any parents out there wanna tell me why they think its soo important to keep it 'clean' my mum wont let me go anywere because of it .. arrghh

2006-12-14 20:12:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-14 20:11:48 · 20 answers · asked by disha b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a big built guy with a lot of small girls in my gym!

2006-12-14 20:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by moe p 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, i like this guy and i think he likes me too. i'm pretty cute but i have a geek reputation so it's kinda hard...he's the cool guy type, but he hasn't got a lot of luck in love too. he always sits somewere pretty close to me, he makes jokes but he seems only interested in the way i look. i mean that he just doesn't really feel interested also in what i think or like and i wanna make him like this side of me too. what can i do? i really like him...

2006-12-14 20:05:01 · 15 answers · asked by gabriella 3 in Singles & Dating

girls: say that we are classmates but dont really know each other but once in a while we get into our groups for discussion and we talk a little bit, i'm very nice and kind but you are not attracted to me. then i asked you out one day how would you reject me?

2006-12-14 20:03:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello
My name is Keld My height is app. 5 9 and my weight is app. 170 I have black hair and I have dark brown eyes. I like to listen to music I listen to hip-hop, R&B, and Slow Jam, and also some reggae and dance mix music. I am an outspoken person meaning if something bother me or I have trouble of something I will tell you. And am a nice person do and am also a good looking guy. I live on East Flatbush Brooklyn. I like a girl that can accept me for what I am and also outspoken, outgoing and smart. I heard your massage and I think that I might be interested in you I think that you might have a nice personality and you might be an outgoing person. I want to start out as friends first and I want to get to know you very well and you get to know me very well. . First I want to see if I can take you somewhere special anywhere you want to go something Romantic. If we get to know each other well where maybe I could invite you to my house I live by myself. If you got a picture on your computer I want to see how you look like you could send it at this e mail address kkeld@hotmail.com and I will send you mines. Let me give you my number # and I hope I talk to you soon.

2006-12-14 20:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I am With this girl that i was with for bout a year now straight but before then we had to wait for like 6months to actually be together together,we promised eachother we would wait,but she started seein someone but she swears up n down they aint do nothing,but when i found out i did it also but i kinda think she is cheatin on me now cuz her whole attitude is switchin n she just acts differnt and i brought it up to her askin her and she swears on everything her brothers grave n **** that she isnt cheatin,but i dunt know,sometimes i believe her but theres also sometimes i do not believe her....what would u guys do in this sititution? HELP!!!!!!

2006-12-14 20:01:02 · 23 answers · asked by badb0y_emcee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 19:59:38 · 12 answers · asked by doug f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for nine months, and we have been friends for several years.

During the entire time I have known him, I have heard him mention several times that he hates feet, that they are disgusting, and that he is aversive to touching anyone's feet and the like, which never really seemed odd to me, because I know a lot of people are grossed out by feet for whatever reason.

However, I get the feeling that maybe he just claims he hates feet to cover the fact that he actually has a foot fetish. For example, we have been in restaurants before in the summer where I have been wearing sandals, and he has subtlely reached down and started massaging my foot under the table (with other guests at the table, mind you). Also, during sex, if I am on top, he will reached around my legs and grab my feet and start rubbing them.

Anyway, it won't bother me at all if he has a foot fetish, I am just not really sure what the deal is, so I'd appreciate any reponses! Thanks!

2006-12-14 19:57:49 · 12 answers · asked by GeorgiaDawgsGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

Weve been flirting a little bit for 2 weeks.

We were sitting in a library with 12 other people all around friends and strangers.

I asked her "what time are you leaving"

then she said 6:00 Why, why did you ask, you must have had a reason"
"Why?"

Then i asked her to come sit by me and she said "no first tell me why you asked".

By then a scene was forming and i felt like saying "never mind" but instead i said "I wont tell you until you come over and sit with me"

Then she laughed and said "fine, i wont come over until......"

WHY IS THIS SO DIFFICULT?

2006-12-14 19:57:44 · 24 answers · asked by Peter X. Long 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a man through my best friend who I like. Everytime we are at her house for a movie night thing we do ( it's how we met) he sits near me, smiles, winks etc. Then last week he asked me for a ride home. My friend said she'd take him becuase he was going to loan her a book but he said "No" and that he wanted to go with me.
The next day he was at my firends when I wen over and when he left he gave her a hug (like always) then motioned me to come closer and gave me a long hug, staring into my eyes smiling as we parted.
My friend said "what;s going on between you two"? She must have felt something (she had a crush on him when they first met, but not for a long time-they never dated).
So 2 days ago I ent him an e mail (I got his addy off an e mail from our mutual friend. I just said Hi and gave him my phone #. I know he works all day but I haven't gotten any response at all.
Does he like me?

2006-12-14 19:56:16 · 15 answers · asked by sweetsassyrngal 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-14 19:56:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 19:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by psalm 1 in Singles & Dating

Now, my ex came by last night and talked about she loves me and wants another chance and things of that nature. Now i told her that I am bothered that her... "friend" has a myspace page and says they are dating and everything like that. Is it wrong for me to tell her not to call me until that page is changed? I mean it is hard for me to believe they are not dating if she wont make him change his page

2006-12-14 19:55:26 · 13 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Singles & Dating

Quick Details:
-Me(26)
-Fiance(28)
-Known each other and have been dating since highschool
-Getting married in May 2007
-Both virgins(Waiting till marriage)
-My fiance asked me to move in with him and I want to move in with him, but I think it might be to tempting...


-Should I move in with him ?
-Is it better to live together before or after marriage ?
-Is it wrong to sleep in the same bed before marriage even if we are just sleeping ?

Thanks for everyone's help :)

2006-12-14 19:55:20 · 25 answers · asked by Mary P 1 in Singles & Dating

i have just checked my partners email (not because i was snooping but some of my emails go there) i noticed he has sighned up to a site called sexplaycam.com i am really angry and upset we have 2 kids and are meant to be trying for our third but after finding out what he has been up to i dunno if i should leave him or stay with him i feel all trust has gone. what should i do

2006-12-14 19:54:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-14 19:52:16 · 28 answers · asked by aashya jha 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 19:52:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we both are in a club togather but we hardly talk, i see him in school and we just wave at each other, i really like him but i have no idea what to do next, tell him that i like him? please help me!

2006-12-14 19:49:38 · 17 answers · asked by greenday_idiot_rocks 1 in Singles & Dating