I have ask him whats wrong if he doesn't want to be my friend to tell me and if i can make it up to him to tell me what he wants..but he still won't answer me..I made it a mess by telling him I could never love him and then I told him I fell for him. I cut him off my IM and Blog but he still added me back on and told me he could never be angry at me and he would miss me if I went to Italy for vacation. I now told him I am clear we are just friends and I want to send him and present and how what can I do to make it up to him but he won't answer me at all now and I feel awful because he was so nice it was me who made a mess so I feel some guilt. But he just refuses to answer my text messages but will wait for them I don't know why he is this way if he just wants to be friends with me and not my BF..and he said he could never get angry at me...so why is he acting like this way?
2006-12-14 20:28:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like neither one of you know what you want.
2006-12-14 20:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
young with a break down in communication... this may be an experience that you chalk up to life or ask him out for hotchoclet/coffee at local Starbucks and talk. No passing notes or long messages, just talk at least this way you can walk away with a clean break or what ever...
don't expect anything or answers just get him to open up a bit and do some basic communication skills to listen, rephrase so he understands you heard him and go from there... let it die if it is going to die.. but at least give yourself a chance to let him visit.. if he doesn't... that is that I guess..
2006-12-15 04:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you are giving him MIXED messages, and he can't deceide what to do, and might be thinking things over. Give him some space about a week or two. Then attempt to contact him again. IF he answers then good luck, but if he does not, then move on with your life, and good luck with that tooo.
2006-12-15 04:38:32 · answer #3 · answered by majean52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a boy and he is young, thats just what we do sometimes. Give him room and he will gradually settle back in as a friend. x
2006-12-15 04:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably confused and doesn't know what hell's going on. Just like the rest of us.
2006-12-15 04:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You screwed up, you gotta do a lot of a** kissing. Maybe if he sees that you are truely sorry he'll come around.
2006-12-15 04:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋