girls: say that we are classmates but dont really know each other but once in a while we get into our groups for discussion and we talk a little bit, i'm very nice and kind but you are not attracted to me. then i asked you out one day how would you reject me?
2006-12-14 20:03:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't. *wink, wink*
2006-12-14 20:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by kayle_rose 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what you asked. If it was something like,
hey - there's this movie/concert (name date/time)
or
would you like to grab some coffee/lunch/dinner (implying now or
sometime today)
then the turn-down response would be, oh, I'm so sorry - I have
other plans. (If I DO have other plans and AM interested, I'll
respond with something like - could we have lunch Thursday
instead? or - but let me see if I can juggle my schedule)
On the other hand, if you ask a question like, hey you wanna
catch a movie or go to dinner sometime? Then - the answer
would be:
1) that sounds great! what are you doing Friday? (if she likes you
a lot)
2) sure, that sounds nice (this is either a she sorta likes you or
she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no).
So you'll get a more definitive answer if you're asking about
something specific. DO allow her some wiggle room - I'd only
ask someone for a specific event twice in a one-month period
- and don't press for what she's doing if she says she has other plans.
... At least that's how *I* would do it. Your mileage may vary.
2006-12-14 20:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by annoying_the_neighbours 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would reject you by simply saying "NO" to you because I don't REALLY like you as you are not my taste. Therefore, you may be a killer of some sort trying to stalk me down and hurt me with your dirty words in your mind ready to say to me. I think this because i don't know you well enough to be my boyfriend/friend. Even if that does happen i REALLY will still have high protection around me.
That's why I really back off until i feel comfortable with who i really like :-)
2006-12-14 20:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say I have a boyfriend.
Its true for me, but I have used it before on people when I didnt. If they know you dont have a boyfriend I would say....I dont have time for a relationship right now, or I need to get some stuff straight in my life before bringing someone else into it.
xxx
2006-12-14 20:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by xxxkittenxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't reject you because I wasn't physically attracted to you, if you are nice and kind you deserve a fair chance, and attractions can develop when least expected.
2006-12-14 20:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i actually would probably just be straight-up with you. I'd tell you the truth, but i'd also tell you i would still want to be friends and get to know you better (because friendship are unique, and i would never miss an opportunity to become friends with someone) and i would tell you that you never know that the future holds (because i have ended up dating people i never thought i would like)
You can never go wrong with honesty.
2006-12-14 20:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by Andii 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I think that during the "date" I would let you know that this was friends only...Sometimes it is so hard to do...especially if you have known the person for awhile...but in the end...I think honesty is the best policy...
2006-12-14 20:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to be honest and say ur too good for me. I'm not one for the nice guy... probably more for the bad girl! LOL
2006-12-14 20:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by zeegeezie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she's not attracted to you? Maybe she'sjust playing it safe.
Give it a go. The worst she can say is no...
2006-12-14 20:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say Ohhh I am sorry that was really sweet and I am flattered by I just got engaged.
2006-12-14 22:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha i'll tell you what happened to me the other day so you can sort of get a clue what will happen, i asked to hang out , replys with yes, then a "i have a boyfriend" LMAO...crazy huh
2006-12-14 20:18:13 · answer #11 · answered by DannyC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋