Bearing in mind I'm at work....
He did two things to really annoy me last night and both have actually changed my opinion of him despite being with him for 6 years and living together! When I tried to talk to him about it he ignored me like a child refusing to say anything other than F*ck off. I just feel so wound up, possibly because I didn't get any sleep either because I was so angry.
2006-12-14 20:24:57 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get one of your bestest girlfriends round strip naked together and start enjoying each others naked bodies, take your time in preparing for this infront of him, but make sure he really sees you are enjoying it, don't let him join in have all the fun for yourselves, when he keeps asking to join in IGNOR HIM AND TELL HIM TO GET F>>KED. see how wound up the knob jocky gets then, if this doesn't work just go shopping and spend some money treat yourself to a day out that will make you feel better..xx
2006-12-15 00:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by theoneandonlytigster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok obviously you dont want to go into details... but it sounds as if you are fuming!!!!
Look even after 6 years of dating you are still only scratching the surface of the 'man inside' so to speak...
I think the best think you can do is text him and say i know i pushed the boundaries last night but we really need to put a line under it and move on but before we do i just need you to clarify some things?
When you do speak to him... tell him why you are wound up and tell how this makes you feel.... then say i can appreciate how you must be feeling too but i cant be there for you if im not 'let in'
You have to show that you are looking at it from both sides of the story and not just your own...
I dont know what the argument was about but from the sounds of it... you asked something and he didnt want to tell you.. and continued to tell you to f**k off everytime you persisted in asking him... men dont like to be pushed!!! especially if they think there in the right... (again you must explain how this makes you feel)
2006-12-14 20:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am feeling angry with my husband as he sat and watched football instead of going to the once a year christmas concert in which our daughter sings in the choir and plays the saxaphone, which she works hard at and practices every day. Could not believe he would rather watch shitty football...
Don't know what i am going to do to him yet but I will get my revenge...
We've been married 26 years and they can still make you mad as hell!!!1
Try physical exercise like punching a cushion or kicking a wall....
Merry christmas
2006-12-14 20:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shaky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to give him time to calm down. By pushing him to talk to you will only agitate him more. You can tell him you need to talk to him as you are upset about the two things that he did. Then give him time, dont push him. He's probably also feeling bad but cant come out in the open about the issue and that means apologising to you. When he's ready to talk to you, explain fully to him how you are upset. After youve talked to him then see how you feel about him. Dont judge at this point in time.
2006-12-14 20:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Nita S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being at work makes it a tough one.
Eat some chocolate and remember that if you choose you could dump him and that you hold the relationship in your hands.
Then search for some funny sites on the web and work out something funny you can do to your boss!
2006-12-14 20:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all try to take your mind off it by working and talking with your friends.
It is usual for people to have bad days and your boyfriend is no exception. However if he won't talk to you about it later or if he is like this on a regular basis then I would reccomend leaving him.
2006-12-14 20:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it always like this? If he doesn't respect your views, maybe it's time to find another boyfriend. Sure it maybe hard at first, but you can do it.
But if you choose to stay with him, let the situation calm down for a bit, then ask him why he did what he did. Then express yourself calmly that you didn't like it. If he truly loves you, he will respond kindly.
2006-12-14 20:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by Pauly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard when the respect is gone. That particular swearing phrase is heavy duty for any class of person.
You don't say it to someone you really love/care for/been with for long time, no matter how angry you are, and everyone knows that.
2006-12-14 20:36:04 · answer #8 · answered by Narky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend the day away from eachother. go for a long walk and think about all the things that brought you together in the first place. then think about what happend last night, but think about his point of view. once you feel calmer, try to talk to him (not at him) about how you feel.
hope it works out for you.
xmas wishes
Girlie
2006-12-14 20:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. When someone winds me up I can hold a grudge for ages.
Dont let him talk to you like that, cheeky b*stard.
Put your slap on and some sexy clothes and go and have a night on the town with your girlfriends...that will piss him off x
2006-12-14 22:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋