okay, i like this guy and i think he likes me too. i'm pretty cute but i have a geek reputation so it's kinda hard...he's the cool guy type, but he hasn't got a lot of luck in love too. he always sits somewere pretty close to me, he makes jokes but he seems only interested in the way i look. i mean that he just doesn't really feel interested also in what i think or like and i wanna make him like this side of me too. what can i do? i really like him...
2006-12-14 20:05:01 · 15 answers · asked by gabriella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he likes you,It,s a good thing Tell him how you feel.Remember you're not to much of a geek,He's the cool guy But he also want you . We don't play talk or tell jokes to people we don't like. Besides being geeky is cool in your own way. Tell him.
2006-12-14 20:15:50 · answer #1 · answered by lorraine B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself. Don't alter yourself in any way to attract a guy. If he's worth ur time, he wouldn't be worried about appearance. Believe me, I've been there before. Don't put it on for a guy, only to find out that he ain't gonna care about ya once u take it off. If u come around this guy and u feel good about urself (no matter how u look) if he doesn't notice how genuine u r, then he's the one missing out, not u. U sound pretty inside and out, be urself. If he's worth it, he'll be around. Good luck with that!
2006-12-15 04:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by zeegeezie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't make him do anything, it's a natural thing for guys to always look at the sexual side of a female ( her looks) , if a guy doesn't like your looks , he isn't gonna want to breed you and for guys that's the meaning of life, sad but true, it's the hormones. some guys just aren't into the girly side of life, and some women like that, some don't, just be sure you are picking the right person for the right reasons. if you think about the women over 40 that can't have babies any more, men don't chase them much any more, their value has diminished ( not my opinion, societies) maybe your guy has no experience at romancing a woman and doesn't have a clue at how to go about it. some guys feel cheesy when talking crap to a female, they don't feel genuine so maybe he is avoiding all that. who knows but him.
2006-12-15 04:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him in a simple conversation. I dont have much luck with a girl. But hey, i decided I shouldnt love
2006-12-15 04:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by e-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you got to do, is get him alone and talk to him, just be yourself, honest and open, tell him how you feel, and he should take it from there..
dont put yourself down ever, ok, that isnt attractive...
if you got any other questions or want to know how to really get with him, write me back...
angel
2006-12-15 06:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by manque 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i think, if he just like the way you look, get away from him, that's only if you want a serious relation, hehehe if just for having fun, well ask him out, and i think you have nothing to do if he don't interest in what you think. don't change everything for him.
2006-12-15 04:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Shemei Carter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try and just be your self. If you don't I don't think he will like you. Try and laugh at his jokes. My boyfriend is lke that too.
2006-12-15 04:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sankiny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play games... Make it known that you're interested... Then show no intrest... It will drive him CRAZY!
2006-12-15 04:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy isn't interested in what you think, he's not worth it, but just for kicks, use him once and dump him, he just might come around.
2006-12-15 04:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel life is too short not to say what you feel.
2006-12-15 04:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋