Is She Cheatin?

Question

Well I am With this girl that i was with for bout a year now straight but before then we had to wait for like 6months to actually be together together,we promised eachother we would wait,but she started seein someone but she swears up n down they aint do nothing,but when i found out i did it also but i kinda think she is cheatin on me now cuz her whole attitude is switchin n she just acts differnt and i brought it up to her askin her and she swears on everything her brothers grave n **** that she isnt cheatin,but i dunt know,sometimes i believe her but theres also sometimes i do not believe her....what would u guys do in this sititution? HELP!!!!!!

Answer 1

she is cheating

Answer 2

I want to ask you a question. When you ask her, does she get nervous and angry and stuff like that? If so then I think she's cheating and she is making it obvious. Another thing I want to tell you is that you should follow your gut and if you have the feeling that she's is cheating then she is, even if she isn't. I know that this is a bit difficult to understand but all I'm saying here is that if you feel that she is cheating, you have a suspect and suspects are not healthy for a relationship. She has to convince you that she is not and she has to prove you're wrong.

Answer 3

Come on, admit it, you can start over and do a lot better than what you have now---you don't trust her now and you never will---you'll always wonder about her fidelity. Find a girl that is available and emotionally ready for a nice guy. Guaranteed you will forget all about her.

Answer 4

i think that just bcoz u cheated u r feeling this way its possible that she has found that out and is hurt maybe that's y her behaviour has changed talk to her win her trust tel her that everybody makes mistakes and its OK or better find out trough Friends do it in a manner that no body realises anything trust ur gut feeling and find out why ur feeling that way is it bcoz there is something fishy or ur r insecure once that is clear then decide ur next step

Answer 5

Does she stays out late? Or has her dressing changed? Is she more particular in the way she looks or dresses when she goes out? Usually you can see that if a girl suddendly cares more about her appearance...then she might be seeing someone..... and if you said that he attitude has change towards you, it may be a sign as well.....

Answer 6

one of the most important things in a relationship is trust. If after a year you dont have trust in her, then you will always have this problem. You need to think about if you can live with feeling this way about her all the time, whether she is cheating or not, you will always have it in your head.

xxx

Answer 7

Do you want to be with someone you can't trust?If your gut is telling you that something is wrong than listen...your instincts are there for a reason!!! You need to move on and find someone who will treat you with loving respect and not cheat on you!!! She is not worth your time and effort!!!

Answer 8

if she keeps say she isnt, then actually follow her once and she what she does? it sounds like she is, but she might not know. The only way you gonna be satisfied is if you see it with your own eyes,

Answer 9

great test is ,do something for her to be jealous and see maybe she will make a great turn.it hurts but the decision is yours to make.it might end the relationship completely.that is if she is looking for a good wings to fly.

Answer 10

Sit her down and talk to her. It is better to be honest. Just be straight and say if you don't want to be with me tell me to my face don't cheat behind my back etc.

Good Luck

Answer 11

I just tried reading your message twice and I'm confused and thinking of seeing somebody else too!